May 25 2025, 11:00 PM, updated 6 months ago
I have a real-life example among my friends:
The man is 36 years old, and the girl is 17.
They live about 100 to 110 km apart.
🛣️ Distance: Around 100–110 km
đźš— Driving time: Approximately 1.5 to 2 hours, depending on traffic
🚌 Express bus: Takes about 2.5 hours
If the man take the morning bus at 7:00 AM, he can reach the place by 9:30 AM.
They can meet on the weekend, but the man need to leave the girl area before 10 AM.
The man need to wake up early on monday
They're considering meeting once a month to maintain the relationship. But the girl’s grandmother doesn’t allow her to go out with him.
QUOTE
The man planning to visit…
But he is bit worried it’ll be just a short meeting, since she can’t go out freely.
She doesn’t have a driving license yet, and she’s not allowed to go out casually.
Usually, she can only walk to the nearby 99 Speedmart to buy a few items.
After 5 PM, she’s allowed to walk around for about 2 hours as exercise after dinner.
But he is bit worried it’ll be just a short meeting, since she can’t go out freely.
She doesn’t have a driving license yet, and she’s not allowed to go out casually.
Usually, she can only walk to the nearby 99 Speedmart to buy a few items.
After 5 PM, she’s allowed to walk around for about 2 hours as exercise after dinner.
Her parents are working in another state, so they’re not always around.
Can such a relationship last long despite the age gap and the distance?
What’s the largest age difference you’ve ever seen in a successful couple?
I wake up at 4:50 a.m. every Monday to Friday, so I don’t chat with her until 9 or 10 p.m.
I do face some work pressure, but I just focus on studying.
I don’t keep looking for her to chat with me, because avoiding the problem won’t solve it.
I must eat at 5 p.m., take a bath at 6 p.m., and go to sleep by 8 p.m.
Do you think meeting monthly is enough to build a strong connection?
Appreciate any thoughts or advice.
This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Jul 5 2025, 06:08 PM
Quote
0.0227sec
0.35
5 queries
GZIP Disabled