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 Can a couple with a 19-year age difference be in, Love?

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Penamer
post Jun 16 2025, 02:22 PM

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QUOTE(Koranshita @ Jun 15 2025, 10:32 PM)
During my school day. 1 girl age 15 b4 age 30. They stay in same taman.
They get married right after the girl finish SPM.

Now after so many years still happy family with many kids.
No issue as long 1 willing to sacrifice
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Yes, this is ancestors wisdom. If you marry a virgin girl, the marriage can last. Imagine the girl only mensus for at most 2 years, then start giving birth no more menstruations to drive her crazy. Having mensus is not normal, that's not how the human race designed the female body for sustainability. Must give birth than can grow old with sanity. You see grandmothers with many children they are mentally very sound.
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post Jun 16 2025, 04:01 PM

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QUOTE(Penamer @ Jun 16 2025, 02:16 PM)
Love is just a combination of youth, hormones and sex. Why cannot as long one male one female. Spa got so much love all night long between young and old else long ago out of business already luh. Marriage is a whole other animal because the parents/relatives/bffs can sink the marriage by manipulating the narratives.
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Sometimes, what we call love is really just a mix of youth, hormones, and physical attraction.

From that perspective, as long as there's mutual interest between a man and a woman, it can still be seen as a form of love.


"Many spas that offer companionship services often have older men and younger women.


This dynamic seems to fulfill certain emotional or physical needs for both sides — otherwise, such places wouldn’t have remained in business for so long.


It may not be what everyone considers 'love,' but it clearly reflects a kind of human connection that some people are seeking."



Marriage, however, is a completely different matter.


It’s not just about the couple; it often involves families, close friends, and even social expectations.


These external influences can play a big role in shaping — or even damaging — the relationship by affecting how each person views the marriage.

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post Jun 16 2025, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(Penamer @ Jun 16 2025, 02:22 PM)
Yes, this is ancestors wisdom. If you marry a virgin girl, the marriage can last. Imagine the girl only mensus for at most 2 years, then start giving birth no more menstruations to drive her crazy. Having mensus is not normal, that's not how the human race designed the female body for sustainability. Must give birth than can grow old with sanity. You see grandmothers with many children they are mentally very sound.
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But I know a lot of grandmothers have gila isuue.

Always scold the grandchildren one

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post Jun 16 2025, 04:05 PM

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QUOTE(Koranshita @ Jun 16 2025, 02:13 PM)
Yes!!!
Parent approved the relationship. Duh that guy is rich 😂
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No wonder lah


Both of them are chinese?
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post Jun 16 2025, 04:06 PM

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Thread like cold story and the 36years old sounds like a noobie 2”…get a life tho..dont ruin others..
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post Jun 16 2025, 04:13 PM

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Only when the other person has money.

Else, females are as shallow and superficial as males, preferring a hot young man with money to be their human wallet the rest of their lives while needing not to move a finger for the household.
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post Jun 17 2025, 05:43 AM

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QUOTE(MishimaZ @ Jun 16 2025, 04:13 PM)
Only when the other person has money.

Else, females are as shallow and superficial as males, preferring a hot young man with money to be their human wallet the rest of their lives while needing not to move a finger for the household.
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Kesian liao

Now the girl smartphone is seized by his uncle.

So maybe need to wait 1 month

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Koranshita
post Jun 17 2025, 12:42 PM

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 16 2025, 04:05 PM)
No wonder lah
Both of them are chinese?
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Yesu.

The male 30 is kinda of like already son In law in and out when she was 15. Parent they don't have high hopes for the girl to further education since she results is not that good .

I mean really depend on what you wan for yourself and your kids.
Older parent don't really care about education unlike today world. They just wan happy and stable life

As long as they are happy, they are willing..
The down side is the girl can't never leave the husband due to she fulltime housewife. No working experience at all

This post has been edited by Koranshita: Jun 17 2025, 12:44 PM
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 17 2025, 05:43 AM)
Kesian liao

Now the girl smartphone is seized by his uncle.

So maybe need to wait 1 month
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His uncle pulak?
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post Jun 17 2025, 12:51 PM

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it might be a scam , love ain't real .what real is money and asset
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post Jun 17 2025, 04:00 PM

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QUOTE(dawnreaver @ Jun 17 2025, 12:45 PM)
His uncle pulak?
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Parents not live together.

Uncle live with her
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post Jun 17 2025, 04:01 PM

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QUOTE(Koranshita @ Jun 17 2025, 12:42 PM)
Yesu.

The male 30 is kinda of like already son In law in and out when she was 15. Parent they don't have high hopes for the girl to further education since she results is not that good .

I mean really depend on what you wan for yourself and your kids.
Older parent don't really care about education unlike today world. They just wan happy and stable life

As long as they are happy, they are willing..
The down side is the girl can't never leave the husband due to she  fulltime housewife. No working experience at all
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How many kids they have now?

But husband loyal to wife right?
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post Jun 17 2025, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 17 2025, 04:01 PM)
How many kids they have now?

But husband loyal to wife right?
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From FB got 4 kids. Very lovely couple still. The girl pandai jaga also la. Very hot mama 🤣 the guy already botak

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post Jun 17 2025, 07:33 PM

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QUOTE(Koranshita @ Jun 17 2025, 07:28 PM)
From FB got 4 kids. Very lovely couple still. The girl pandai jaga also la. Very hot mama 🤣 the guy already botak
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Is the man handsome?



He has four kids.
Nowadays, even raising one child costs a lot of money,


but he dares to have four—impressive!

Sure T20


How old is the wife now?

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post Jun 17 2025, 07:39 PM

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80 year old and 61 yo ok je.

13 Yo and 32 yo then got problem.
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ May 25 2025, 11:00 PM)
Can a couple with a 19-year age gap truly be in love?

I have a real-life example among my friends:

The man is 36 years old, and the girl is 17.
They live about 100 to 110 km apart.
🛣️ Distance: Around 100–110 km
🚗 Driving time: Approximately 1.5 to 2 hours, depending on traffic
🚌 Express bus: Takes about 2.5 hours

If the man take the morning bus at 7:00 AM, he can reach the place by 9:30 AM.
They can meet on the weekend, but the man eed to leave the girl area before 10 AM.

The man need to wake up early on monday
They're considering meeting once a month to maintain the relationship. But the girl’s grandmother doesn’t allow her to go out with him.
Her parents are working in another state, so they’re not always around.

Can such a relationship last long despite the age gap and the distance?
What’s the largest age difference you’ve ever seen in a successful couple?
Do you think meeting monthly is enough to build a strong connection?

Appreciate any thoughts or advice.
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Are u from zoo please!?

It's a lot.......

Life = Choice

In malaysia, one of the rich family I know. New mother not only service father but son also.
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post Jun 17 2025, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(w19 @ Jun 17 2025, 07:46 PM)
Are u from zoo please!?

It's a lot.......

Life = Choice

In malaysia, one of the rich family I know. New mother not only service father but son also.
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How old is the father,son,and new mother?
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QUOTE(plouffle0789 @ Jun 17 2025, 07:48 PM)
How old is the father,son,and new mother?
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Father 70+

New mother late 20

Son early 30
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post Jun 17 2025, 08:03 PM

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99% of girl are lazy......

If u are top n neat or rich, 99% girl will admired!

Try pick up, 99% success!

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