Hi everyone, I was just wondering — has anyone here ever exchanged photos with someone of the opposite gender through social media apps? What was your experience like?


Were the reactions generally positive, negative, or mixed? I'm a bit hesitant myself, so I'd love to hear how others handled it and what kind of response you got. Thanks in advance!





Normally, I use Telegram, and the girl uses Telegram as well. Both of us don't have profile pictures.



Normally Girls will ask man:

Do you think you're good-looking?

Best answer:

Everyone has a different view of what’s considered good-looking. If you think you're good-looking, you'll find other good-looking people around you.


Something like If you're tall, you'll find tall people, and if you're short, you'll find shorter people.

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To be honest, it’s been quite a while since I last exchanged photos with anyone.

From what I remember, reactions were mixed — some people were fine with it, while others weren’t.

And I think that’s totally understandable, as everyone has their own personal standards when it comes to appearances.

There’s no universal ‘right’ or ‘wrong,’ just different perspectives.

Most people, whether they realize it or not, tend to look for someone who’s on the same level as themselves.


For example, if someone is really good-looking, they might naturally expect the same from others.

On the other hand, for those of us with more average looks, we usually keep our expectations grounded.


This applies to both guys looking for girls and girls looking for guys — it’s usually not too far off.

So, if we do exchange photos, I just hope you won’t judge me too harshly. I’m not someone who stands out by looks.



If you happen to be surprised by my photo, I just ask that you don’t take it the wrong way or be upset about it.


I apologize in advance if you feel uncomfortable after the photo exchange.

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I can't say I'm very handsome, but I'm just an ordinary person.


I've seen some stories on social media, like Facebook, where people say they're very confident, but then the girls have high expectations.


In the end, the girls feel like they can't meet the standard, and they end up making negative comments directly to each other......




如果我傳的照片和你心裡的想像有落差，
或你覺得我的長相其實不符合你的標準，
我先跟你說聲抱歉。

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 06:08 AM

Exchange photo nowdays are ntg uncommon with the filter function.

Try video call see see lol

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Apr 23 2025, 05:49 AM

Normally, girls don’t video call with strangers

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 06:10 AM

back in the day, it was already tricky enough when people would send photos taken in specific ways, using certain poses, angles, and lighting to make themselves look better than they actually were. then photoshop came along, and things got even messier. now, with AI, even facetime can't be trusted. it's safer to just use a simple profile picture with minimal editing, so there's no need to send pictures privately. sending them privately is risky because people might use it against you. since you're already malu-malu, they could manipulate the image with AI, turning it into something inappropriate, then blackmail you for money or threaten to share it with your contacts. malu-malu people often fall victim to this. the best approach is to avoid posting pictures online altogether and focus on connecting with people around your like kolik or friends of friends.

Man want to know woman from online dating apps.

So exchange photo is a very normal things......

You never do this way?

thank god I didn't have to. knew my wife from work.

#互看

Thanks god too I didn't have to, and dint need to worry scampee coz my betina also from work.

Betina yang special satu. Those Malaysian exes of mine, all jual mahal like shit, but useless. My wife, first day conlan7firm in relationship with me, 2nd day move out of her place and masuk mine, live together.

I was imprisoned since, but was allowed to Milfing outside.

Do you allow ur waifu to Dilfing outside?

Exchange photo, don’t bet on it. Just ask them for social media accounts like IG or facebook, else 30/70 chances.

Why?

Some girls really send correct photo

video calls also can meitu lei..

but.. why exchange photos lol.. unless u really have gooding feeling

so, TS are u good looking?

exchange real picture never. exchange AI generated or someone else profile pic ikut SOP

Average normal

Correct photo then ok la, what if they send different picture?

How to know correct or not lol.

Many cheaters lei

Exchange naked photo?

Only face photo

True.

So he and I started like a blind date without requesting pictures

Straight to video call

Lmao.

Didn't know got this function haha😂

Playing around background i know la

I send dick pic she sends nudes.

Fair trade.

asl pix pls?


19 f kl here

I see my kolig face owes smooth like my ceiling.
IRL she also smooth, but not that filter.

Send 2" get back pork chop with grilled 3 later fat siew yok

I'm too lenchai

If we exchange photos the girl usually have inferiority complex

Usually the one use telegram without profile picture are mostly landwhale anyway

I chat them anyways if I'm bored 🥱

Normally people will test drive first before proceed with any commitment

my ex-gf all knew from school/uni.

my wife i knew her since uni.

exchange photo? 2005 ka sekarang?
get WA number then start video call d

Think no use, come out 1on1

still got ppl send pic ka? i tot now usually ask for insta or tiktok

Your husband?

Which year?

Not always

What?

Which parts you do not understand?

What is asl pix?

Which girl so fast give you whatsapp wor?

Not true. I'd always vid call with the guy before meeting up with him in real life. If I sense that we can't even vibe from there, no point to meet up at all. Saves me a lot of time n petrol lol.

Why u meet girls using Telegram ? Telegram mostly looking for "chicken" lah LOL

No lah...

Telegram nowadays is many popular in Malaysia and Singapore.

Many youngster use it...

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 12:23 PM

Oh, I see.


Many girls told me they prefer to meet up for lunch or dinner.


But out of every 10 men they meet, maybe only 2 are ok enough for them to continue as just friends.

So experience nampak

Must exchange photo first then only come out mah

Always be careful of girls who ask u to meet up immediately coz a lot of guys told me that girls love using them to get free meals.

Never. Want to see? Meet in real life.

Don't get scammed by fake pics.

face problem

Can find male companion for you also if u want.. I've seen Vietnamese men with nice body but not my cup of tea LOL

Lol unofficial 'husband'. Duno why Taiwanese like people calling them husband

Its a bit complicated. U can browse my cc topic at the end of the page if u want

Lmao.

Like the red wine restaurant scam ?

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?act=Sear...ult_type=topics


You have many thread...

May I know which one?

Silly argument is the only cc topic 😂

This one and also being asked to take them to expensive restaurants so that they can post those food on their IG to show off to their friends.

https://forum.lowyat.net/index.php?showtopic=5516403&hl=


Oh I see


So this is taiwan citizen and you?

You all never meet up , so like 網戀？？？

Video call every night.

He is like cinderella, after bath and poop also need 2 hours.

By right this month he fly over. Got issue. So, wait lo.

How old ??

When you start this relationship?

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 01:01 PM

He is 47

Last year around october

of course after break the ice la..
takkan first DM already ask photo?

agree. that's is what i do. send the video.

And you are 35 right??

Huge gap...

Normally after exchange photo,if both see face ok,then only video call


Otherwise if photo no good,bye bye

Maybe telegram first....

Or wechat

Whatsapp is last step....

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 01:18 PM

The girl also?


5 seconds video?

36

I think still ok la.

He still can deal with me even when i act like 12 years old kid 😂

nah, the girl only send pictures. usually. maybe not confident enough, though i keep telling them, what inside is most important.

dude get catfished by scammer fat dude in cambodia kot

Age Sex Location, Picture please

t/b?

owai

Be like Vince: Awek ini cantik dowh

My time using MIRC to know new girl and then keep contact with ICQ. Favourite question A/S/L, age, sex, location. All girls meet online never be my gf except one kena friendzoned each other. Now we're good families friends.
Long time didn't use dating app. Now, who interested on uncle than looks 15 years younger than real age + 6 packs. Female only.

go tiktok join their live

Make up kaw kaw

No like

if my waifu really wanna go for it, by hook or by crook, what can I do? Divorce ah?

Also, why do she need to do that? Not like our sex and daily life is terrible or estranged etc also. We still sleep together, snore or wash feet, take care of our babies etc.

Me go out milfing is purely interest and hobbies, just like her going harrods shopping, eat bbq with zhimuis, go play mahjong (this really gotta scold her kaokao), etc. If find boibois is her hobbies, at most I'll buka tutup sebelah mata.

Very often, the more chibai takder duit people, the more enclosed their cheap, retard, pointless and hardly worth something brain will act foolish. At this society and days and situation, how can you conlan7firm total faithfulness from one partner to another?

Jealousy brings you nowhere mate. Be a bigger man, you wanna keep that pussi to yourself, you gotta make sure that you can feed that pussi nicely. Of course, that includes after makan pussi lain.

So open minded. Duno i can accept or nt if one day he told me i fark other wimmen coz cannot tahan liao

"Me go out milfing is purely interest and hobbies"

Why not just said you are horny?

I might be interested if u can let me know what yr A/L is 😉

Open is individual, POV is personal. If he openly says it in correct situation, its honesty. If he said it in a wrong place and time, its cari pesal.

Always maintain some sense, and don't go full retard. At our social age nowadays, hidup with enough big heart to accept and take hold of kindness and grudges is the key for healthy and happy life.

If my motive of Milfing outside is purely to pancut at them, yeah I would admit im horny. Let's say if Pancut is my main objective, then I would better off go cheong because It takes no effort, just pay, get striped, treated like a bawse, and make the amoi start ham7 me until I tebuk her..

But sory lah, Milfing is an art, mind you.

It involves properly meeting up a woman one to one, mostly those that not selling their Bunga Cheebye for money type, to speak, communicate, talk, exchange, and all sorts of conversation until you find it clicks and loves to get together for much more.

Cheong, you can get ten piaps out of ten piaps. Just need to pay.

Milfing, you might speaks to ten wives, only half clicks with you, 3 of them interested, two of them almost bedded, but hygeine and compatibility issue, and one left, and even that not confirm you can score.

But if you did. Its heaven.

Can expect no need domdom, shoot inside, no worries she'll ready her own besok after pancut dalam pill, and even after shioks, its not a mau one more shot tambah more uangs.

Now, you tell me, Milfing good or Cheonging good?

So milfing is a quite challenging task.

Cheonging is a simple transaction task like go to 7-11 buy 1 drinks.

Ts, what happened to You?
You reached another new level.

Horny Level

that's if you perceive the term correctly.

Like some people makan michelin say no kenyang. Do you michelin the fuark to kenyang until stomach pecah? The same applied to milfing.

TS was simply slight enlighted. Like an "Ohhhh, rupa rupa nya begini punya..." only.

Your age + 10/M/KL. Too bad, I won't meet your requirements except physical looks because k/tard never serious.

So you believe ktard before but end up he cheated you?