Apr 23 2025, 05:37 AM, updated 8 months ago
Were the reactions generally positive, negative, or mixed? I'm a bit hesitant myself, so I'd love to hear how others handled it and what kind of response you got. Thanks in advance!
Normally, I use Telegram, and the girl uses Telegram as well. Both of us don't have profile pictures.
Normally Girls will ask man:
Do you think you're good-looking?
Best answer:
Everyone has a different view of what’s considered good-looking. If you think you're good-looking, you'll find other good-looking people around you.
Something like If you're tall, you'll find tall people, and if you're short, you'll find shorter people.
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To be honest, it’s been quite a while since I last exchanged photos with anyone.
From what I remember, reactions were mixed — some people were fine with it, while others weren’t.
And I think that’s totally understandable, as everyone has their own personal standards when it comes to appearances.
There’s no universal ‘right’ or ‘wrong,’ just different perspectives.
Most people, whether they realize it or not, tend to look for someone who’s on the same level as themselves.
For example, if someone is really good-looking, they might naturally expect the same from others.
On the other hand, for those of us with more average looks, we usually keep our expectations grounded.
This applies to both guys looking for girls and girls looking for guys — it’s usually not too far off.
So, if we do exchange photos, I just hope you won’t judge me too harshly. I’m not someone who stands out by looks.
If you happen to be surprised by my photo, I just ask that you don’t take it the wrong way or be upset about it.
I apologize in advance if you feel uncomfortable after the photo exchange.
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If I tell you that I am good looking, and later you see me and think that I’m below your average standard, you might feel like I was lying.
So, I prefer to let you keep your own thoughts and comments in your heart.
I always do this with everyone. I hope you understand.
So, I prefer to let you keep your own thoughts and comments in your heart.
I always do this with everyone. I hope you understand.
I can't say I'm very handsome, but I'm just an ordinary person.
I've seen some stories on social media, like Facebook, where people say they're very confident, but then the girls have high expectations.
In the end, the girls feel like they can't meet the standard, and they end up making negative comments directly to each other......
如果我傳的照片和你心裡的想像有落差，
或你覺得我的長相其實不符合你的標準，
我先跟你說聲抱歉。
This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 06:08 AM
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