Hi everyone, I was just wondering — has anyone here ever exchanged photos with someone of the opposite gender through social media apps? What was your experience like?


Were the reactions generally positive, negative, or mixed? I'm a bit hesitant myself, so I'd love to hear how others handled it and what kind of response you got. Thanks in advance!





Normally, I use Telegram, and the girl uses Telegram as well. Both of us don't have profile pictures.



Normally Girls will ask man:

Do you think you're good-looking?

Best answer:

Everyone has a different view of what’s considered good-looking. If you think you're good-looking, you'll find other good-looking people around you.


Something like If you're tall, you'll find tall people, and if you're short, you'll find shorter people.

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To be honest, it’s been quite a while since I last exchanged photos with anyone.

From what I remember, reactions were mixed — some people were fine with it, while others weren’t.

And I think that’s totally understandable, as everyone has their own personal standards when it comes to appearances.

There’s no universal ‘right’ or ‘wrong,’ just different perspectives.

Most people, whether they realize it or not, tend to look for someone who’s on the same level as themselves.


For example, if someone is really good-looking, they might naturally expect the same from others.

On the other hand, for those of us with more average looks, we usually keep our expectations grounded.


This applies to both guys looking for girls and girls looking for guys — it’s usually not too far off.

So, if we do exchange photos, I just hope you won’t judge me too harshly. I’m not someone who stands out by looks.



If you happen to be surprised by my photo, I just ask that you don’t take it the wrong way or be upset about it.


I apologize in advance if you feel uncomfortable after the photo exchange.

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I can't say I'm very handsome, but I'm just an ordinary person.


I've seen some stories on social media, like Facebook, where people say they're very confident, but then the girls have high expectations.


In the end, the girls feel like they can't meet the standard, and they end up making negative comments directly to each other......




如果我傳的照片和你心裡的想像有落差，
或你覺得我的長相其實不符合你的標準，
我先跟你說聲抱歉。

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 06:08 AM

Exchange photo nowdays are ntg uncommon with the filter function.

Try video call see see lol

This post has been edited by nicole_4ever: Apr 23 2025, 05:49 AM

Normally, girls don’t video call with strangers

This post has been edited by plouffle0789: Apr 23 2025, 06:10 AM

back in the day, it was already tricky enough when people would send photos taken in specific ways, using certain poses, angles, and lighting to make themselves look better than they actually were. then photoshop came along, and things got even messier. now, with AI, even facetime can't be trusted. it's safer to just use a simple profile picture with minimal editing, so there's no need to send pictures privately. sending them privately is risky because people might use it against you. since you're already malu-malu, they could manipulate the image with AI, turning it into something inappropriate, then blackmail you for money or threaten to share it with your contacts. malu-malu people often fall victim to this. the best approach is to avoid posting pictures online altogether and focus on connecting with people around your like kolik or friends of friends.

Man want to know woman from online dating apps.

So exchange photo is a very normal things......

You never do this way?

thank god I didn't have to. knew my wife from work.

#互看

Thanks god too I didn't have to, and dint need to worry scampee coz my betina also from work.

Betina yang special satu. Those Malaysian exes of mine, all jual mahal like shit, but useless. My wife, first day conlan7firm in relationship with me, 2nd day move out of her place and masuk mine, live together.

I was imprisoned since, but was allowed to Milfing outside.

Do you allow ur waifu to Dilfing outside?

Exchange photo, don’t bet on it. Just ask them for social media accounts like IG or facebook, else 30/70 chances.

Why?

Some girls really send correct photo

video calls also can meitu lei..

but.. why exchange photos lol.. unless u really have gooding feeling

so, TS are u good looking?

exchange real picture never. exchange AI generated or someone else profile pic ikut SOP

Average normal

Correct photo then ok la, what if they send different picture?

How to know correct or not lol.

Many cheaters lei

Exchange naked photo?

Only face photo

True.

So he and I started like a blind date without requesting pictures

Straight to video call

Lmao.