Like I tried to explain

Its the confusion between test and trial.

He is giving them a trial of what life with him is like. A girl can also do the same to him and say "if you want to date me, take me somewhere nice". Which is fine if the girl expects that to be part of their relationship.

If you offer AA but actually want him to pay; as a test. Then all you're doing is setting up false expectations on both ends. Every guy knows this rule, and if they want to play the game, they just play it. No sincerity, no guarantee it will continue long term. On the girl's end, the test only provided short-term answer.

Testing in such a manner is failing strategy. Its also not a good way to start a relationship where you're constantly "testing" each other, no trust and honesty. So if you're "tested" in such a manner, I don't think its unreasonable to feel put off by it. Its a dishonest interaction, and would you want to be in a relationship like that long term?

Do the trial method instead and be clear with your expectations so everything moves on the right track.

Like I tried to explain

Its the confusion between test and trial.

He is giving them a trial of what life with him is like. A girl can also do the same to him and say "if you want to date me, take me somewhere nice". Which is fine if the girl expects that to be part of their relationship.

If you offer AA but actually want him to pay; as a test. Then all you're doing is setting up false expectations on both ends. Every guy knows this rule, and if they want to play the game, they just play it. No sincerity, no guarantee it will continue long term. On the girl's end, the test only provided short-term answer.

Testing in such a manner is failing strategy. Its also not a good way to start a relationship where you're constantly "testing" each other, no trust and honesty. So if you're "tested" in such a manner, I don't think its unreasonable to feel put off by it. Its a dishonest interaction, and would you want to be in a relationship like that long term?

Do the trial method instead and be clear with your expectations so everything moves on the right track.

There is no smoke without fire. I am only here cause his "test" caught my attention, hence, giving him the same perception albeit different scenario. Don't understand why you need to keep on yapping like a broken record by comparing the context of each test or trial whatever you called it?

What you wanna prove? he has every right to trial, mine is so goddamn wrong that you have to step in and be the white knight huh? If you need that validation, take it cause i don't care. you bring your date eat at longkang also nobody bother.

There is a reason why he is still searching until today. If those girl that he dated can score better partner, why would they want to settle for less?

Actually I don't know. Maybe too innocent. If a girl offer me AA, I really expect her to AA and not do it as a test. Maybe it is just me though. 🥺
I found 2 girls actually. Currently with one of them. I am super honest, open and transparent to them. I tell them and show them how my life is.