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post Nov 1 2024, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Nov 1 2024, 05:02 PM)
There's another option, one I'm opting for myself.

Direct cremation. Price range 5k
Buying a plot at a Columbarium 3k.
Free if you toss in the ocean.

Don't want to stress my son financially.

My late grandpa one eye watering 70k because he was gifted a plot of land  in nirvana by his brother and we had to construct the burial site.
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Bro, you are very considerate to your family. There are some superstitious old folks who insist on burial.
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post Nov 1 2024, 05:30 PM

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QUOTE(pysh @ Nov 1 2024, 01:49 PM)
got ATM card pls go withdraw as much as possible first as lawyer charge by net worth..
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I found a lawyer who charge only around RM10k for Grant of Probate, doesn't matter the deceased net worth.
Some lawyer do take percentage based on net worth
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post Nov 1 2024, 05:41 PM

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my condolences to you and loved ones around.
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post Nov 1 2024, 05:52 PM

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Sorry for your loss. R u nons or not nons. Not same procedure
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post Nov 1 2024, 08:28 PM

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post Nov 1 2024, 09:05 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Nov 1 2024, 05:02 PM)
There's another option, one I'm opting for myself.

Direct cremation. Price range 5k
Buying a plot at a Columbarium 3k.
Free if you toss in the ocean.

Don't want to stress my son financially.

My late grandpa one eye watering 70k because he was gifted a plot of land  in nirvana by his brother and we had to construct the burial site.
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What do u think about scattering ashes around parents' grave?
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post Nov 1 2024, 09:47 PM

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QUOTE(MakNok @ Nov 1 2024, 12:26 PM)
My condelense.
My Dad pass away this Jan.

If you papa account got ATM card.....change the limit and if you know the password.
Withdraw everything unless your papa got hundred of thousand.
But do it before reporting to JPN to get his death certificate.
If not, follow other sifu here to proceed on your Dad bank account.

Go to your local Adun where your Dad stay to apply for "funeral expenses"......RM500
It will take about 1 month after "verification call" from the local party.
In my case, DAP.

If your Dad got BR1M assistance from Government, then proceed to nearest BSN to apply for "funeral expenses".
Bring all necessary document to bank and just get que number and go over the counter for application.
On spot you will get cash RM1,000.

And if your Dad is pensioner, go to CyberJaya KWAP office and bring documentation for "funeral expenses"
Apply on spot over the counter.
Money RM3,000 will be remitted into your bank account within 1 month but usually 2 week.

Take care bro.
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Why wanna take out all the money before reporting to JPN ah?
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post Nov 1 2024, 09:52 PM

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QUOTE(SkyCaptain @ Nov 1 2024, 05:13 PM)
Bro, you are very considerate to your family. There are some superstitious old folks who insist on burial.
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Then ask those superstitious old folks to budget and prepare the money accordingly.

Else the living is more important than the dead if financially tight.
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post Nov 1 2024, 10:07 PM

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QUOTE(Avangelice @ Nov 1 2024, 05:02 PM)
There's another option, one I'm opting for myself.

Direct cremation. Price range 5k
Buying a plot at a Columbarium 3k.
Free if you toss in the ocean.

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A cost free option..

http://www.isilentmentor.com/faqs/
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post Nov 1 2024, 10:17 PM

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QUOTE(dogbert_chew @ Nov 1 2024, 09:52 PM)
Then ask those superstitious old folks to budget and prepare the money accordingly.

Else the living is more important than the dead if financially tight.
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What's worse is unhelpful or selfish sibling(s).
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post Nov 1 2024, 11:01 PM

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QUOTE(SkyCaptain @ Nov 1 2024, 10:17 PM)
What's worse is unhelpful or selfish sibling(s).
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True.

But if they don't contribute , then they cannot comment how you handle the event.
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post Nov 2 2024, 12:19 AM

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I withdraw all the money out using ATM machine....left rm100 like that only .did it to all the account . So many years have passed,the bank closed the account and have rest of the money transferred to government (unclaimed money).

Luckily my dad already transfer every asset he have before his death .

This post has been edited by TRAZE99: Nov 2 2024, 12:20 AM
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post Nov 2 2024, 09:19 AM

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QUOTE(KitZhai @ Nov 1 2024, 09:47 PM)
Why wanna take out all the money before reporting to JPN ah?
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Once you report your Dad demise to JPN, and you will given his death certificate on spot.

Then all bank account under his name will be freeze instantly.
So, ATM doesn't work anymore.
BR1M also stop.....Pension.....etc

This post has been edited by MakNok: Nov 2 2024, 09:19 AM
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post Nov 2 2024, 09:21 AM

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post Nov 2 2024, 09:43 AM

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QUOTE(MakNok @ Nov 2 2024, 10:19 AM)
Once you report your Dad demise to JPN, and you will given his death certificate on spot.

Then all bank account under his name will be freeze instantly.
So, ATM doesn't work anymore.
BR1M also stop.....Pension.....etc
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Oh, I thought bank account all will work one. So JPN will instruct bank to freeze all bank one de lah ? Okok
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post Nov 2 2024, 09:54 AM

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Ada will easy. Just pay lawyer few k and get grant of probate letter. Ada this letter can go around related bank etc, claim. Few k means 5k above?

Losing papa, mentally will be damn tough bro, especially your mum. Take care
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post Nov 2 2024, 11:12 AM

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QUOTE(Captain89 @ Nov 1 2024, 02:59 PM)
Can discuss with Nirvana agent or walk-in to their office. We did the same which after cremate and the urn is put in pagoda building. Cost us around rm20k for everything they will settle for you.
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My friend's MIL recent demise was handled by an old folk home undertaker. RM3.5k include coffin & cremation at DBKL Cheras crematorium. No wake service, Urn sendiri send to Taiping.

Didn't know it's so cheap.

This post has been edited by etan26: Nov 2 2024, 11:13 AM
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post Nov 2 2024, 03:29 PM

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QUOTE(MakNok @ Nov 2 2024, 09:19 AM)
Once you report your Dad demise to JPN, and you will given his death certificate on spot.

Then all bank account under his name will be freeze instantly.
So, ATM doesn't work anymore.
BR1M also stop.....Pension.....etc
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QUOTE(KitZhai @ Nov 2 2024, 09:43 AM)
Oh, I thought bank account all will work one. So JPN will instruct bank to freeze all bank one de lah ? Okok
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Banking account not freeze, my dad's not freezed for sure.
I even transferred some of his loose change to his account.
Still can access his online banking.

Now waiting for lawyer to settle and then withdraw, close and distribute the balance to the young ones.

BRIM/STR no longer coming in though.
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post Nov 2 2024, 04:06 PM

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Make sure no dispute before taking out money form account etc.
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post Nov 2 2024, 04:32 PM

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QUOTE(tropik @ Nov 2 2024, 03:29 PM)
Banking account not freeze, my dad's not freezed for sure.
I even transferred some of his loose change to his account.
Still can access his online banking.

Now waiting for lawyer to settle and then withdraw, close and distribute the balance to the young ones.

BRIM/STR no longer coming in though.
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When i say freeze mean cannot withdraw lah especially on ATM.
Do update on how long for the lawyer to settle so that can withdraw everything and how much does the lawyer charge?



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