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 Form 1 student jumps out of Kuen Cheng building, sad, RIP

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lopo90
post Oct 2 2024, 06:55 PM

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QUOTE(dattebayo @ Oct 2 2024, 12:44 PM)
chinese education stream focus solely on academic homework? so stress
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Yea that's why don't know why so many people die die want to send their kids to SJKC

As though it's the best.

Yea best at memorising answers, good at obeying orders.


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post Oct 2 2024, 06:58 PM

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Kinda cold of the parent to have aceepted and move on when it's barely been a few days.
Suicide are not accidents, they don't just fall out of the sky, even more so on early teens.
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:01 PM

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when i was form 1, i only think about playing pokemon lel.

this graph might be true after all.
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:10 PM

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QUOTE(giftfre @ Oct 2 2024, 02:14 PM)
It is parent really Kancheong type. Scare their kid can't compete with others, scare can't get a good result to secure a place in Top 3 Public University and enroll in hot degree displine.

Water can carry a boat from one to another destination but also can over turn a boat easily.
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its better to have stupid child than a dead one smile.gif
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:14 PM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 06:47 PM)
not sure.

I remember my primary school was 4 storey high and had railings.

then they had public donation run to cover the railing areas, with hollow bricks, got hole can see outside, that way it is breathable.

They already had the forward vision to anticipate these issues.

8 storey high school, the school should consider precautions.
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Should do this to all high rise

QUOTE(Hobbez @ Oct 2 2024, 06:48 PM)
You haven't watched haunting videos on YouTube I see.

Got some excellent series. Most cases involve people who never believed in the existence of hantu....until they really kena.
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QUOTE(lopo90 @ Oct 2 2024, 06:55 PM)
Yea that's why don't know why so many people die die want to send their kids to SJKC

As though it's the best.

Yea best at memorising answers, good at obeying orders.
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Don't want to eat in toilet I think
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:20 PM

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It's difficult to be a teen nowadays.


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post Oct 2 2024, 07:24 PM

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QUOTE(zerorating @ Oct 2 2024, 07:10 PM)
its better to have stupid child than a dead one smile.gif
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QUOTE(focusrite @ Oct 2 2024, 07:20 PM)
It's difficult to be a teen nowadays.
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news say that its mental illness

she start to see non existent stuff
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Now all school have to install ssfety net
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:28 PM

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QUOTE(9m2w @ Oct 2 2024, 06:22 PM)
Ada... It seems hantu

https://weirdkaya.com/parents-of-13yo-girl-...lding-speak-out

However, the only time when they noticed something amiss was when the victim claimed she had seen a ghost at the school’s hostel during the Hungry Ghost Festival.
“When we brought her back home and performed an exorcism on her, we asked her whether she wanted to return there. She said yes and such incidents never happened again,” they said.

But if you ask me grieving parents don't make reliable witnesses
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I think there is more than this.

This is my experience before with similar incident. Let's call my friend daughter, Betty.

Betty say she always see ghost, hearing voices. Parents bring her to religious people to "help". But nothing works until the parents say she is "faking" until don't want to go school. One day she attempted suicide but luckily failed and need to hospitalized.

During the hospitalization, a mental health specialist was sent to evaluate her.

It was found all those "ghost" and "voices" Betty was hearing ? It was caused by her having panic attack because she have issue being in places with a lot of people. The doctor realized when all of the nearby bed have visitors and nurses and doing their work at the same time. The room will look crowded and Betty heartrate increases a lot and she begin to scream and asking the "ghost" to go away.

After going to counselling/therapist for like 2 year, Betty no longer see "ghosts" and have a better life now.
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:29 PM

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Stupid girl.

Pity her family and everyone that she impacted from her suicide.

Honestly, if want to suicide should do it somewhere isolated where you won't drag other people into it.

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post Oct 2 2024, 07:34 PM

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QUOTE(tkyong1 @ Oct 2 2024, 04:35 PM)
Wrong.

Actually, schooling is meant to teach you to become a proper person, education is only part of it.

This is the real problem of asian education, the path is crooked.

Schooling supposed to be happy, lively and learning, not result and comparing.

Untill now, so many asian parent still failed to understand.

The success of life not decided by your education, but your personality and attitudes.

Sad.

Note: if result = everything then why most of the invention and technology in this world were mainly coming from western not asian? think about it.
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Don't simply say things if you don't know.

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Right now technological advancements in China is faster than Western countries already too.

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post Oct 2 2024, 07:36 PM

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QUOTE(Etude8891 @ Oct 2 2024, 07:34 PM)
Don't simply say things if you don't know.

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he's talking about the toxic environment which is Asian parenting.

this kind of environment long been happening la.

those days in my school we talk about how Sinkie students find ways to commit suicide during their exams because of stress.


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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 07:24 PM)
news say that its mental illness

she start to see non existent stuff
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mental illness is a disorder of the brain, could be cause by rapidly deaths of brain cell.
what caused premature death of brain cell? stress , lack of sleep and trauma.

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QUOTE(h@ksam @ Oct 2 2024, 07:36 PM)
he's talking about the toxic environment which is Asian parenting.

this kind of environment long been happening la.

those days in my school we talk about how Sinkie students find ways to commit suicide during their exams because of stress.
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Well I'm talking about his "Note: if result = everything then why most of the invention and technology in this world were mainly coming from western not asian? think about it."

That's incorrect.

On the other hand, Tiger mom culture is nothing new. End of the day it IS perhaps surprisingly to some that it IS really focusing on building better skillset to survive in life for the kid when they grow up. Too bad some cannot get a handle on their own mental toughness so guess the kid breaks down.

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post Oct 2 2024, 07:44 PM

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QUOTE(king99 @ Oct 2 2024, 07:28 PM)
I think there is more than this.

This is my experience before with similar incident. Let's call my friend daughter, Betty.

Betty say she always see ghost, hearing voices. Parents bring her to religious people to "help". But nothing works until the parents say she is "faking" until don't want to go school. One day she attempted suicide but luckily failed and need to hospitalized.

During the hospitalization, a mental health specialist was sent to evaluate her.

It was found all those "ghost" and "voices" Betty was hearing ? It was caused by her having panic attack because she have issue being in places with a lot of people. The doctor realized when all of the nearby bed have visitors and nurses and doing their work at the same time. The room will look crowded and Betty heartrate increases a lot and she begin to scream and asking the "ghost" to go away.

After going to counselling/therapist for like 2 year, Betty no longer see "ghosts" and have a better life now.
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Thank God hospital was sharp enough to spot it

Hope she fully recovered

I got a feeling this girl also something like this, seeing ghost is a symptom of something else. But if parents want to move on no point dwelling on it.
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post Oct 2 2024, 07:48 PM

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QUOTE(hoonanoo @ Oct 2 2024, 06:17 PM)
last time I studied at SK, relaks saja.

no need to wake up at 5am lah, because my school no traffic jam. I just wake up at 6am to go morning school.

why primary students have to wake up so early? pointless lah.
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Those days not many school bus operator, and expect to stand throughout the journey from your house to the school lol. Big buses able to cilok in Taman Taman road, now don't think possible

Now so many school van/private operator, and driving from semenyih / PJ / seremban to KL like so easy now.

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post Oct 2 2024, 07:52 PM

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QUOTE(zerorating @ Oct 2 2024, 07:37 PM)
mental illness is a disorder of the brain, could be cause by rapidly deaths of brain cell.
what caused premature death of brain cell? stress , lack of sleep and trauma.
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Ok you got good explanation
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post Oct 2 2024, 08:04 PM

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blame it to ghost

case closed
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post Oct 2 2024, 08:06 PM

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QUOTE(vapanel @ Oct 2 2024, 07:52 PM)
Ok you got good explanation
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anyway, if a kid suicide, im pretty sure it is mostly parents fault.
people who kena buli alot in my school also have friends, so they dont feel depressed, they dont even thinking of ended their life because asyik kena buli
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I dare to say something that she watched influence her behavior

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