Biologically, men are not programmed to be monogamous.

But, we are civilized and have been Christeo-Judeo-AMDK brainwashed with Victorian values (back when the British Empire shat on more than a quarter of the known world) to rise above our base instincts and be loyal and faithful to one partner.

For those who find that their moral values align, then good for them and may they find happiness long in their marriages.

For those whose biological drive strain and push against the boundaries of civic morality and societal norms, then my commiserations.

It is what it is.

Good explanation     :thumbsup:

Will sexual preferences encourage ppl to cheat? Like if both partners' sexual preferences don't align? Like some ppl like to slowly sensually start with 4play while some when they are ready, just want to "poke". Will that be the cause of cheating / failure in a relationship?