I do not know if this is the correct place to ask, but please forgive me if it is.

I have trouble maintaining an erection with a condom on, but I have no trouble getting it back, so should I change condoms if the condom does not slip off of your penis or can I keep using it?

Depending on the lube inside. Should only put on when hard enough.. half alive don't cap..

If I'm reading this right, you're asking if it's okay to use the same condom despite losing your erection but getting it back with the condom on.

If you haven't gone in yet, then yes you can use the same condom. However, if this happens during your session, then you need to change it

This post has been edited by grape sunset: Jul 9 2024, 06:43 PM

Yes, in the context if the condom is still intact on my penis even after I've lost my erection.

If I have gone in, meaning if I have put my private inside her private area, even if I have lost my erection but somehow the condom is still intact on my private area, I am not able to keep using it even after my erection is back, correct?

This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:46 PM

yeah, I've had a similar issue, but I realized it was the oil and scent causing it. Maybe that could help.

first, u fap too much. losing erection means weak heart weak blood circulation or simply u not horny.

or dont buy extra large condom.

It has been nothing but depressing on my end, I am in a relationship with my girlfriend, and I did it without a condom with her previously because she was on the pills

Then I asked her if she could just stop taking the pills because of the side effects, and I'll just try practice it with a condom.

Sometimes I get to finish it inside a condom, most of the time I don't because of loss of erection

I do not know if it is a mental thing or the age factor is creeping on me..but may I ask how did you manage to get over it?

This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:50 PM

Yes, better to be safe than sorry

Okay, thank you so much!

I don't know if 2 to 5 times a week is considered too much, but sex or masturbation isn't on my mind most of the time

But when I have that feeling to do it, I never seem to be able to maintain the erection long enough to finish the job with a condom on while I'm with her.

I always buy the smallest size one, snug or close fit I think the label

This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 06:58 PM

I thought there was another same thread?

Sorry I could not find it, do you mind sharing it?

then it was not you :X

I think it is more like your mental, not your libido :X

It is most likely mental

How old are you, so easy to lose erection?

True... Or your partner does not have a body part that you like.. (be it face or butt or leg or boobs)

Everything has effect on your thing.. mental is as important as physical.

You need a good heart, go jogging at least one lap 400m non stop. It's good enough.

You also need to relax your mind. if first time wear condom loses feeling and lost erection, then your second try will be much harder because mentally you are afraid to lose erection again. That little fear will take into effect.

Try to drink some alcohol before doing it or do it early in the morning to regain confidence.

Edit: sometimes too eager to do it will also make you lose erection. Yeah you heard it right, just because you are too eager to have sex and too excited, you lose erection.

This post has been edited by david5343: Jul 9 2024, 07:59 PM

29, only when a condom is on, without condom no problem

Seriously

I will try jogging more often, I exercise less because of my job but not impossible to make time for it.

I think she is sexually attractive, that's definitely not the problem haha

This post has been edited by cocomaru: Jul 9 2024, 08:42 PM

get a bigger size. too tight later picah.

Just jogging twice a week.. you will be suprise of the effect it has. And try to hold it when you feel that you are strong enough.. you will be even much stronger after a few weeks

exercise often will keeps u better not just jogging

I will try. How long should I jog minimum per day to see long term effect? 10 to 40 minutes?

Hold it? You mean not masturbating even if you have the urge?

have you tried diff condoms? is the one too thick until you cannot feel anything? or is it too tight until blood circulation cut off? 😂

either you have mental block during intercourse or try different condoms (esp thin ones)

had a friend who went cheong last time, he mentally stressed himself need to perform, then after few thrusts become limp then cannot get it up anymore

No I mean hold it when you are going to cum.. just try to hold when you can. Up to the point that your partner has cum twice then only you shoot.

15 minutes is good enough for starter. Twice a week.. you will feel the effect after a week. Don't make love the same day after you jog though...

After that.. just 25minutes twice a week will keep you fit... I jog Monday and Friday, Wednesday I do strength to keep in good shape.

Of course... At least to me it is an important factor.. I cannot get hard looking at a beautiful land whale.

I believe u masturbate too much, thus without touch, u lose erection. Could also be mental issue, are u able to get erection without touching ur penis?

i can't offer advice on condom, but thanks for looking after her health.

those pills will cause long term side effects, and if you really love a lady, you will do physical changes than physiological changes.

hope you get your fun time back soon

And also practise safe sex.

Responsible not to give birth when not ready

Responsible man 🙏🏻

Once you go RAW.....you will always crave for it.
Unless of course your GF did you BBJ until almost kingdom cum, and then find the 0.01 condom with spiral dragon dotted and surely both of you will Xperience highest possible heavenly passion.

I can see serious kopitiam is not lacking in sifus and grandmasters with scholarly advice. I. Am. Impressed.

Yes I have tried Durex, then some no name brands that I bought online, I have managed to finish it a few times with condom on, but most of the time I just lost erection halfway.

Not sure what too tight means, because I can still feel something with a condom on, it just does not feel as good as when I did it without a condom.

If by being too tight means that the condom is so small to the point where if I put it on my thing that it feels like it is going to smash it into bits, then no I have never felt like it is too tight.

Oh I just understood what you mean, you mean edging. I have never tried that before.

But I'll try to follow your advice and see if there is any positive changes in 2 to 4 weeks time, then maybe I will update it on this post again haha

Yes I am able to get erection without touching it, I usually fantasize about me in sexual situations at times when I could not sleep, and I always get erection when I do that.

I didn't wear condom with my gf and she is my now wife. It's depend on how U control by pulling out.

This post has been edited by genjo: Jul 10 2024, 02:04 PM

Did she become your waifu because your control was a bit serong and landing was all messed up because you couldn't pull up in time?

Definitely size wrong. Too tight or too loose will affect. Find a flexible measuring tape and measure girth (tebal, circumference). Then input into this calculator.

https://www.myonecondoms.com/pages/enter-my-measurements

Standard condom is 52mm wide. Durex XL is 56mm
Most Asian need snug fit or close fit which is 49mm. For me standard one was too tight so had to go bigger. I couldn't maintain when put on, too tight.

Try Japanese brand Okamoto. More Asian fit. Also have 001 super thin.

Bro what type of condom you using?

If you using 003 now and cannot maintain erect then you can try using 001

001 more thin are better feeling

Did not know this existed, will definitely try this. Thanks!

First few times, durex, then after I finished, I tried some no name brands that I bought online, ill try okamoto next to see if it feels any different

do it raw first only wear condom halfway

Bro most condom sell at the shop are 003, you can go shopee / lazada to find those condom that are 001

The 003 & 001 is the thickness of the rubber, 001 is the thinnest

Probably psychology, and sometimes also due to physical...very hard to determine.

But i noticed once u get ur body to be fitter, u can maintain the erection better.

And by experienced, when actively do weight/ strength training, u can maintain the erection better on the next day, maybe it helped to boost ur body's testosterone.

Speaking of condom, previously i've used the okamota 003 and realised it's too tight and will affect erection and thus changed back to durex for more comfy experience.

So overall i think weight training is a better exercise to boost libido and to maintained it.

Nope. So far no issue.

Its how its
If i have sex with same woman more than 5x, the novelty just gone hence the erection can be gone

Durex more reliable
I agree, never bocor before