QUOTE(abm @ Jun 17 2024, 01:10 PM)
I think ts is saying do you prioritise beauty over attitude.
He’s not saying ugly girl must have good personality.
If there is good beauty and good personality of course that is the best choice.
If ugly and bad personality that is the last choice or not even consider her.
But if there is pretty with bad personality vs ugly with good personality, which one will you choose?
My answer to ts is
Pretty and good personality
——-Anything in between is acceptable
Average looking and okay personality
I rather be single than choose one that has either ugly or bad personality or both.
It’s like if you need to pass 2 papers in order to pass the exam, getting one paper with high score but fail the other paper, you still fail the exam. Assuming 30 is passing mark. Candidate 1. Paper 1 you score 100 paper 2 you score 20. You still fail the exam. Candidate 2 score 40 in both papers, although candidate 2 total the score is lower than candidate 1, candidate 2 passed the exam.
One important thing to note is however pretty the girl is, if she have bad personality(you are not happy when you are with her), you would not have any urge to piap her.
what i meant is beauty and attitudes are very subjective.
i use my case as example,
my wife looks like girl next door, fair skin, clean presentation, just use qiuwen/koeyeet as example. but not those hotties like djsoda/puiyi.
is my wife pretty? others may see her 8.5/10 or some give her 6/10, thats why i said very subjective.
another point is my wife quite alpha, as in she like to control many things, considered as control freak in some people's eyes.
but for me i like this kind of attitudes because she can take care of my everything, basically i just go out earn money and she take cares all the family issues.