what i meant is beauty and attitudes are very subjective.

i use my case as example,
my wife looks like girl next door, fair skin, clean presentation, just use qiuwen/koeyeet as example. but not those hotties like djsoda/puiyi.

is my wife pretty? others may see her 8.5/10 or some give her 6/10, thats why i said very subjective.

another point is my wife quite alpha, as in she like to control many things, considered as control freak in some people's eyes.

but for me i like this kind of attitudes because she can take care of my everything, basically i just go out earn money and she take cares all the family issues.