I feel deeply sorry for her. 

You want to help relief her deepest sorrow as a lady. It shows that you are a kind soul.

However the way you are carrying out with her, isn't effective and beneficial for her in the long runs, and instead is going to invite more troubles for her and for your kind self.

There are much better ways you can help her.

If you truly like her but unable together due to her married status, then, upgrade your love to her to something that bring her towards a stronger and better person.

Try to convince and invite her read
"Surah Al-Waqiah",    "sebagai Doa Harian ", consistently.
It's a very sacred and helpful for Malay ladies.

Then you take a smart exit.

She is married into a big elite and probably powerful family. You never know what their family members would do onto you at your back, or ask some groups of ppl do onto you, once things got found out.

The best way to avoid "Dendam" being instilled in the husband and the family's heart, is to steer clear of a married lady.

By this, you accumulate great merits.
For your own protection in the sense of your valuable live and your careers. In the times to come.

And the highest form of love a man to a lady he believes he loves at heart, is to help the lady achieving to be a lady of mentally and emotionally strong, and to be better and greater in various aspects of life.

Pls forgive me if any above words felt like offensive.

rat see trap, but don't see trap. rat go trap. rat kena trap. the end.

human make trap. human put trap. human camouflage trap. human won't won't kena trap.

moral: if you know what is trap and see from far already know is trap, why even go near trap?

We decided to end it last night and chat until 230am



She asked me to end it and make her cry

I decided to pull the plug 🔌

My world went dark

Pitch black

TS, if you are for real, cut communications with both this girl and the other one who has a gangster sugardaddy.

Or you might appear in the news one day.

Dah la tu
Said cut contact but still message...

If she can't connect to her new husband, why the heck did she just marry him in the first place?

She is obviously looking for a distraction or escape from whatever that's going on in her new marriage. Seems like there's a lot going on under the water.

This is a minefield that, as a bachelor, you do not even need to navigate through.

If she has ended it, then she has spared you a world of unnecessary pain.

How is ts doing?
Work at Oslo at least t10 level

I hope you are doing ok now, TS….

Bro, I’m as lost as you are on this one…. Troll or no troll? Like you said, /k is full of monkey rapists, invisible jaguar drivers, impossible IELTS results, iPhone splurgers and 40 Million RM men….

Thanks for the clarification bro. In this case, here is my humble opinion, based on these assumptions from what you’ve mentioned;

1. You’re educated, and judging from the responses you’ve given thus far, with a much better than average command of English, which means ergo probably at least degree level and/or above.

2. You’re obviously at a certain level at work - be it management level or senior technical level, as you shared an (albeit unrelated) encounter with a different colleague in Oslo with the readers. Oslo isn’t your run of the mill tourist trap so I would therefore surmise you were there for purposes of work.

3. You’re a Muslim, but as to how pious you might be, that’s not immediately apparent

4. She’s married, and apparently married well (at the very least, into money).

From these assumptions, I dare say you have too much to lose in terms of your potential career pathway, as well as in terms of your own standing amongst your friends and colleagues, should things with this infatuation develop into something more than just a longing or desire.

And there’s also the aspect of how you can possibly reconcile this with your own religious upbringing.

Ultimately, the hierarchy for consideration is, IMHO, what will this do to your reputation (amongst mutual friends and family and colleagues), and if you don’t care too much about that, what about your career (you cannot discount what reactionary measures her well connected husband make take that can sully your professional standing), and if that still doesn’t bother you, then you’ll have to answer to God.

Easy for me to list it out as a neutral third party without any vested interest whatsoever… much harder for you to dissect and tease out the facts from the feelings, the head from the heart and the logic from the love.

I wish you all the best.

anymore update?

TS already left the company….

but did you still cucuk her?

A bit hard for TS to answer… he’s currently on holiday…. Hopefully the holiday isn’t forever.

so in the end u got tapau her even once or not?

Buat bodo je la
She only sees you as a heated dildo

Why don't you block her number?

Bro, cepat cepat pay her back ... so she can't use that as leverage

juicy! should have lepak here more lah after this

so what happened?

I hope by now u got exit plan already bro, like someone said, if his hubby discovered this, well ...

I can't help but to give this post another push with this: https://forum.lowyat.net/topic/5450893#top

At one point I thought he was trolling but now it's funnier to believe he isn't

May I ask what is lepat pisang

Jesus Christ, Buddha, Allah, Shiva, bro.

Of all the women out there, you chose to hamster on someone who's newly married.

Brah, up your standard a bit.

I'm not even asking for much, but just up a lil' bit.

*Sob* *Sob* Like she's the only one in the world.

Brah.