Waifu is a bigger problem.
She is having midlife crisis now. She is considering to quit her job, and start her own business. However she needs a big capital injection to kickstart her ambitious goal in her business. I told her dont be so greedy, start small and learn the rope first. She asked me to shut up or she would use a rope to tie me up. By the way, her English is not good, gadis kampung, kecek kelate sejak kecik. She dunno what “learn the rope” means.
So she wanted money, but I dont have money. So she started blaming me for not helping her and I am useless because i can’t cough up the sum she wanted. So she had to borrow from her sisters and her brothers. When she went to borrow money of course she would cook up a sob story to appear kesian la right, so her siblings can lend her their money.
The storyline was that I have no money to help her, I used the money to buy unnecessary things like my collectibles, etc. Say Im not earning enough and not saving enough to support her.
I am already working very hard but she said if working hard can become rich, then all the lembu and kerbau in sawah padi would be millionaires by now.
Ok i dont wanna argue so much. I go sell my collectibles and try to get rid of all of them and give her all the money. Senang cerita. Shut her up. But nobody bought my stuff yet, already quite long but no buyers. So i tahan and sabar with her nagging everyday.
Back to her business. She totally has no time at home now. A lot of things to do. From shop location scouting, renovations, finding subcontractors, ID, material, her vendors for ingredients, packaging, equipment, POS system, etc all she had to do. She goes out early morning lepas subuh and back home midnight after i slept.
Makan minum aku urus sendiri, makan la apa yg ada. Nasi bujang telur mata kerbau + kicap manis, asal kenyang hati senang.
Basically she is just non-existent in my life. Invisible. 🫥
I see Mizu Tomodachi JAV more than i see my wife’s face now.