Happy wife, Happy life?
one of the cringiest things a beta male can say
If the wife say can eat out
but back end the guy doesnt know whenever the wife can take legal action towards him or not

This is because during this period, the woman can get all the intimacy from the baby. Eg when breastfeeding, a woman's body produce oxytoxin, which the same hormone produced during sexual intercourse. Oxytoxin is the love hormone. Hubby not really needed intimacy-wise this time. Have to wait for baby to stop breastfeeding. But if after that still cant get, then very pity 😔

I learned something new today.

Its useful knowledge if u date a MILF 😉

It seems true. When you are love by someone else and start to love her to then somehow you no longer feel want to intimate with your earlier partner. Feel it myself. Its hard to split your love evenly to both.

All it takes is some competition, boys.

I think it is common for people coz everyday meeting with same person, but sometimes still can give each others some suprise, what i mean for surprise is not only gift but also in sex.

Becouse of the rutine. At first, you enjoy spending time among yourselves, but with time it gets boring. This is why sex toys can come in handy here. Many people think that sex toys are only for perverts, but it's not like this. Sometimes, sex toys can save marriages.

responsibilities comes in..

Bro, you are right!!!!!

1. Wife = Very high chance cheat! (Spy app on her HP!)

2. Divorce.

TS, any update on this matter? How did you handle it?

Does she feel unattractive or are you becoming unattractive to her?

Some may feel they're getting fatter or wrinklier or whatever. If you still think she's attractive, let her know.

If she keeps commenting on your appearance, maybe time for you to change?

My wife and I are in our mid 40s, married over 10 years and have young kids, and we have sex whenever we get the chance. I buy her lingerie and we roleplay. Sometimes she gets to go to work late and we have sex after sending the kids to school and before she starts work.

I remember an advice from a senior lady colleague over lunch to a bunch of juniors that women liked to hear stuff like they're the most beautiful etc even if they know it's not true. Maybe you can tell her that. Some flirting in the morning before work to create anticipation, flirty messages etc.

TS already shared previously that he divorced his ex wife, main reason was that they couldn't agree on the point of having kids: he wants but she doesn't - something he thought she'd change as time passes but she stayed immature in the relationship (can't remember full details). He's single again and ready to mingle, last I heard still WIP.

This happens to everybody, especially after a long period of living with each other. That's why sex toys can be helpful in this situation. Many people think that sex toys are only for perverts, but it's not like this. Sometimes, sex toys can save marriages. For instance, my wife and I also had been feeling the routine, so to spice things up, we purchased blowjob toys. And to be honest, these toys shook things up because now we enjoy having sex like we used to back in the day.

There is one small % of possibility that leads to this scenario. It is the major city's work life culture. If you are the lower pyramid of the workforce of the major cities, you will likely ended up in such condition. These are the reasons :-

1) both husband & wife need to work, reach home already very tiring.
2) work long hours for survival & commitments. Works & pay cheques >> living. Weekdays, go work before see sun rise sunlight, comes back after sun already set. Sometimes, weekend also works.
3) With the survival priority >> livings, sex will not be priority. Coz sex = responsibility especially for certain married pair. Birth control = additional cost, no birth control, additional baby = additional burden to financial.

An example of this will be the Japanese & S.Korea's society. Our society may be going through the same cycle. The Mother nature have ways to control the population, by making living hard, living thing will stop to multiply. It could be the act of the nature in the end.

Well come to think of it, some of her behaviour previously is a bit sus on the cheating side so I have confidence to believe that she may be cheating on me?

That doesn't matter anymore. The way forward is to meet someone that shares the same goal.

Yeap, I agree. I am looking around for some time already.

This happens to everybody, especially after a long period of living with each other. That's why sex toys can be helpful in this situation. Many people think that sex toys are only for perverts, but it's not like this. Sometimes, sex toys can save marriages. For instance, my wife and I also had been feeling the routine, so to spice things up, we purchased blowjob toys. And to be honest, these toys shook things up because now we enjoy having sex like we used to back in the day.

This post has been edited by djmarcus: Apr 22 2024, 08:21 PM