ayam single late 30s men. to be honest men in their late 30s or early 40s are in the peak of their life. financially stable, body still have energy to do whatever you like.

on the topic of regretting or not of being single, i would say there is 2 side of the coins. some times do feel a bit lonely when alone at home. But at the same time its the peace you will enjoy.
ayam tried some vietmoi "gf" before. they can satisfy you biologically for sure, but at the same time its mentally taxing. every morning and night also must call and message.
tak call or message then she merajuk. Men have to work one la. some time after a long day of work just want to shut down our brain for some rest but ur amoi will come kakacaucau.

Now i can go settle my biological needs on 2feidei joints without any pressure financially, can also do ASEAN tour for companionship when feels lonely.
At the same time might have this thought of what should i do later when ayam old. of coz on the finance part i am pretty well taken care i would say.
when reach retirement age the EPF amount should be able to sustain my self until mampui and also got some balance for sure. sometimes will think if mampui nobody to pass the money to.

at this age, if you ask me honestly, i wouldn't want to get married anymore. We are a bit too old to raise children now. If getting a companion and not for children, i dont think there is a need to get married.
As a guy, we have no benefits at all marrying a wimmen if we are not getting children. your wealth will be legally bound to be given to her if you go and sign the papers.
I will choose to keep and treat the wimmen as mistress type, kasi buy gifts and gip money but dont want legally marry her to avoid she come rebut my harta with my family when i pass away.

Maybe, but I just can’t tahan girls than wants your attention every time. When I get home I want to rest and relax. Not having another problem that I have to deal with.

Agreed on this. That’s why I have a travel buddy which also happens to be a female . But she is a divorced lady with 2 grown up kid. It’s purely travel buddy and no hanky panky. I am not ready to feed her 2 kids and paid for her travel so I don’t want to touch her even we sleep on the same bed.