do people restrict others using phone ? as long not excessive should be fine. The maid also got family and friends and emergency do happen

i mean even your boss dont restrict your phone use

Communicate with her

Listen to her side of story and come up with compromise which suit both of you

Chill out la. She is also human right.

Some ppl hire maid think hire robot.

Better send her back before unwanted things happen..

then you go work and surf /k is ok?

hiring maid to look after baby?

big red flag there, unker maid only incharge of cleaning..nothing else

being a newborn father myself and i have few subordinates, understand ur concern and worry

what u can do is, monitor the maid output and performance, as most of the /k here reply, as long as the maid can perform well and ur bb is well taken care of, house no issue

just let the maid have some freedom, but u do need to set some rules with the maid
both party must have common ground, after all, we all are only human

if her performance deteriorate, talk to her and give chance(provided everything is okay)
else, consult back with agency and change maid

wow!

this one I agree.

I sleep with my baby last time.

Sleepless nights, but it was a good experience.

My baby bonded with me and my waifu quite well. I have to say MCO gave me the change to raise my kid, 2 years of working from home. So I was fortunate not to hire a maid.

TS, is missing the biggest experience of his life, leaving the maid to be "mother" to his kid. I mean, that's not very good in bonding. I understand you and wife r working, but the sleeping with baby part, you should do it.

And maid is human, unless she stare on the phone so often until baby drop down or choking don't care, that is serious case.

But like some posters here say, TS - you wouldn't want to piss off your maid or make her angry, but reprimanding her. After all, most of the time the maid is with baby, and TS you wouldn't even know what she is doing.

Suggest TS, put in more CCTV and nanny cams in the house.

This post has been edited by hoonanoo: Oct 20 2023, 08:52 AM

What is wrong with you? Please, idiot. Treat everyone equally. Respect them, they also have parents and family.

What if your boss doesn't allow you to use your phone during your working time? What would you feel? Think about how people feel. Stop being ignorant.

A typical idiot thinks he is above any human being. Knnccb. Pukimak.

Make sure your wife watch her closely when the maid taking care of your baby. Use telephone is a small matter but your baby's safety is your main concern.

if she didnt neglect her duty, just let her be, but from time to time just talk about it just to remind her of her duty and dont let the phone distract her.

stay at 1 place cant come out, day & night, ppl can get crazy u know. if the phone can help her mental health stable, just let her

what TS should do is to hire a qualify baby sitter during the absence of work.

Maid are not baby sitter.

Give and take la, hadui

Btw why wanna use maid ? Even we didn't use maid to raise our child, don't want our kid to grow with maid's love

my maid stayed with me for over 10 years, mainly for taking care of a baby, until the baby is 10 years old already. Yeah, I let her to have a phone. She did her job just fine..

TS trusts his maid to take care of the baby but doesn't trust her with a phone?

MAFAKA KERJA 6am to 9pm? can we report this guy
pembantu rumah + jaga bayi you pay her double ah? dua kerja summore punde cibai ts lah
phone once a week macam duduk dalam penjara

not sure about msia, in SG need to give them daily after work...
but i always give her the phone, just that i limit the wifi time she can go internet

as long as she work the min requirement i give, im fine

Think this way. you like if your boss, your company disallow you to use handphone at work? Have empathy...

Treat your maid right or she may rob u next time. Remember, her friends living here got many ways to steal or break into your house.