Ur only worry is when she is too engrossed with her hp she neglects ur baby
Or when she started to get to know men
Some will run away with the men
Maid issue, Maid started to use phone
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Oct 20 2023, 09:24 AM
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I let my maid use her phone at night after she is discharged from her duties.
Ur only worry is when she is too engrossed with her hp she neglects ur baby Or when she started to get to know men Some will run away with the men |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:32 AM
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QUOTE(karazure @ Oct 20 2023, 08:58 AM) what TS should do is to hire a qualify baby sitter during the absence of work. not easy to find.Maid are not baby sitter. i not sure about Msia. Is there such thing, that Ministry bother to certify qualified baby sitter? even the baby died in kota damansara, because baby sitter put on stomach for 1 hour, the ministry blame care center unregistered. but if registered, so what? do they even provide qualification and training to get the cert ? |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:41 AM
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You say you want treat maid as family. But phone once a week? Prisoner ka.
Unless you say you want treat her as worker, then nothing say. You try go without phone for a day also cannot la. Some forumer raised issue if they got phone. That is another problem to tackle. Basic rule, happy worker happy productivity |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:43 AM
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Oct 20 2023, 09:44 AM
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RtK even boughted and pay for the topup for my maid
No change in responsibility. |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:46 AM
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TS, remember, you're allowing someone you do not know in person into the safety of your house and she's looking after your baby... be extra carefull.
Happy maid - safe house Unhappy maid - god forbid.... |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:55 AM
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We let ours use, as we also use whatsapp as a means of communication.
However we've set a rule that no social media or entertainment usage during work hours. During break or after working hours is ok. |
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Oct 20 2023, 09:59 AM
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QUOTE(furuku89 @ Oct 20 2023, 03:33 AM) She work from 6am to 8-9pm, but there are times she sleep with my baby if we back home late and ask her not to wait us and bring the baby sleep with her. lol only allow to use phone once a week, what era ald really stupid ass agency set stupid ass rules, thats the reason why maid go and dera children and keep running awayNowadays agency set rules that only allow once a week, afraid they keep use phone will affect their productivity. We kept the phone and she knows where is it, but we didn’t expect she will curi curi take. Yes, both of us working adults. There are some days we are not at home. As far as what we monitored, she has been doing good and treating my daughter like my own daughter. After discussion with my wife, I think we let her use phone from 9pm to 11pm daily, on sunday we let her use whole day. I think is much better compare to other maid outside. I know majority outside doesn’t allow any phone usage unless weekend or only few hours on weekend. good thing is that you n your waifu r open minded n understanding dint follow tht even after found out your maid curi curi use phone, 9pm to 11pm daily and sunday use whole day is a good attempt, maybe dont go beyond tht yet as sometime they might take it for granted This post has been edited by GiganticBird: Oct 20 2023, 10:01 AM |
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Oct 20 2023, 10:00 AM
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QUOTE(rtk74 @ Oct 20 2023, 09:44 AM) Who says Malaysians are poor when even B40 can have maid. gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:01 AM
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Kesian.... beranak tapi tak boleh jaga anak sendiri You and your wife need to discuss or throw dice if have to , to sacrifice for your daughter, find a fix 9-5 job and send her to nursery Leaving her with non immediate family member within a long period is 50-50 gamble gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:01 AM
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So from what time to what time do you allow the maid to come out of her cage?
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Oct 20 2023, 10:02 AM
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QUOTE(furuku89 @ Oct 20 2023, 02:54 AM) 3 months ago I hired a new maid, everything is very satisfy as my wife and I treat her best possible like our own family. The only thing she needs to do is to take care our newborn 6 months baby as priority, and house chore can do it later which she did well. Hired pretty one. And show your D for dominanceNow the issue is, according to the agency she agree and allow to use phone once a week during weekend. One day we saw the CCTV she curi curi take out the phone to use and never put back. The question is are we suppose to give her use all the time or ignore and act like I never know or dont let her use? I would like to hear some expert here. gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:07 AM
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"Don't leave baby with maid" At the same time maternity leave only 6 months. Conclusion is yo quit the job for 2 years if u want baby? gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:10 AM
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she will do a runner soon enough
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Oct 20 2023, 10:19 AM
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Just let her use but closely monitor she use for what purpose. I hope your maid is married d so she not itchy go chit chat with abang security then starting to develop feelings. You don't wanna deal with maid drama, I heard alot weird story regarding it.
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Oct 20 2023, 10:24 AM
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give and take your rub her back she rubs yours tell her don't complain when you seggs her gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:27 AM
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lepas waktu bekerja biaq p la dia nak guna, hang jaga la anak pulak. kongkek pandai, anak tak erti jaga gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:28 AM
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you want to breed but no time to jaga and leave everything to your maid. you claim you treat her like family but dont even let her use phone like slave. kek. gemusw liked this post
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Oct 20 2023, 10:59 AM
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Kalau x bagi nanti orang cakap x perikemanusiaan
Kalau bagi karang mula cari jantan lepas tu blah camtu ja |
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Oct 20 2023, 11:02 AM
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QUOTE(netflix2019 @ Oct 20 2023, 10:07 AM) "Don't leave baby with maid" As per foreveralone no kids rm20k earning /K/, yesAt the same time maternity leave only 6 months. Conclusion is yo quit the job for 2 years if u want baby? gemusw liked this post
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