then no choice.. let yr wife handle it. just man up n pay the expenses #happywifehappylife

lol where they hang out from Monday to Saturday??

What's wrong with Malaysian and maid? So hard to live without maid meh? other developed countries without the maid culture still surviving with no prob.

i had a live in maid before. then she had to go back indonesia to take care of her kids because her husband died and i never looked for a replacement.

i agree that part-time help is a better choice.
1. no need to think about their meals/ their hotel room when travelling/ their tickets when going on holiday
2. i get back my guest room so its easier if i have overnight guests
3. no need to worry about them running away and losing the thousands in up front payment you paid
4. you are not stuck with 1 maid for years and years. my wife didnt like our maid coz her work is sloppy a bit.

Any maids will run away if they have bad attitude (individuality) or/and you treat them like shit.

St Anthony's jln Robertson has some professional pinays.

Monday is very different from Sunday

They gotta work. Think about it.

some dont wear also. can see raisins.

Have pretty ones there or not??

1: get fresh one without working experience

2: if forced to, avoid those worked in saudi arabs(is it called middle east?).

3: prepare your job scope, send to your agent, their agent and the potential maid first before making any interviews.

4; philipines one are more educated, anything they dont like, they will report it to their embassy EVEN if its just a minor issue. ie-cibye majikan tak kasi saya makan at 7am.

5: if possible, deal with them extra pay with NO holiday OUTSIDE your house. some will say they wan holiday OUTSIDE the house with their friends, relatives, fukbuddy or whatever they want. holiday can, just stay in house and diam diam duduk sana.


and the list go on.

so many don'ts, but never explain why

1 get fresh one = they listen to instructions better.
2 those yang came back from saudi, has bad attitude, lazy. thats why only 1-2 years there and kena reject back home already.
3 without your job scope in detail, sending in photos of your house, work area, they will agree to everything. but once in your house, they will start complain OVERWORKED.
4 and 5 nothing need to explain kut.

lari tu maybe tk cume cost mmg mahal dr indo her gaji 2000...sunday kene bawak gi gereja almost 1/2day..menjawab kalo kite bising and buat muke mintak terajang...kids yg die jaga learn english + tagalog hahaha.. if u majikan yg mau notty" they capable to do anything for you (this one even indo pun boleh terjebak).. she said to me she wanna to balik sbb currency almost same dgn Malaysia so i x sure la betul ke tk...

Plus piap her at least 7 times a week

everytime they do good job remember to say "putang ina mo!"

Ayam a fat fark. I think she is, if not worse than me, at least sama standard

like made for each other

got one since early this year to help out with my two kids

- recruitment fee RM13000
- salary USD400/month + USD16 for every sunday worked.. (need to convert from ringgit)
- can eat pork but not so familiar with local food compared to indo
- mine english so so
- work satisfactory thus far

This post has been edited by seather: Aug 10 2023, 04:01 PM

EXACTLY! No1 is the best option.

No 5 is a must!!! Once out, they will want more... Never ever give them out, they will come back and tell u their friend get better perks, etc, and start to show face and demanding...

U wait, once they have HP, start to Tiktok, then all muka also come out...

LOL no la, she is like a big sister to my kids.