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post Aug 10 2023, 06:58 PM

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Wait few more years. Should have maid robot by that time.
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post Aug 10 2023, 07:20 PM

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QUOTE(Zot @ Aug 10 2023, 11:05 AM)
Not Spanish but Spanish English (meaning English like Spanish people talk). The R sound is over vibrated  laugh.gif
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It's more like the American R influence.

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post Aug 10 2023, 10:03 PM

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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ Aug 10 2023, 10:31 AM)
They say mostly due to finding bf or join hubby that already stay outside
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That's why don't look for those young and sexy ones 😅
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post Aug 10 2023, 11:00 PM

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QUOTE(loserguy @ Aug 10 2023, 05:23 PM)
Not that easy, they are staying in your house. It is not like a normal workplace where you leave for your own home at the end of the day. And they are there in your house together with your kids/aged parents and all your valuables when you are not around. It takes time to build trust.

A long time ago, one of our first maids, we were pretty relaxed about it. Imagine our shock when we came back after dinner and she was entertaining around 5-6 of her friends in our house. We talked to her after they left and asked her not to invite her friends over in the future. We changed maids not long after that.

Nowadays, we don't care so much, because the current maid has been with us for so long. But in the beginning, yes, I can see where the concern comes from.
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I have maid too.
We all have bad experiences, but I still treat my maid like how I would like to be treated by my employer.
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post Aug 10 2023, 11:18 PM

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QUOTE(oM41GoD_ @ Aug 10 2023, 11:00 PM)
I have maid too.
We all have bad experiences, but I still treat my maid like how I would like to be treated by my employer.
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hmm, annual leave ada? bonus? epf? socso? insurance coverage? dental?

If she decides to resign, 1 month or 2 months notice? deposit how?

I think maids are not the same as a normal employee. They are people who are actually living with you. The concerns made by others in this tered are valid. You are essentially bringing in a stranger to live in your house.

Treat them decently yes, but as a part of the family? That will take time.
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post Aug 11 2023, 12:02 AM

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Where to find those day maids?

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post Aug 11 2023, 08:23 AM

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QUOTE(loserguy @ Aug 10 2023, 11:18 PM)
hmm, annual leave ada? bonus? epf? socso? insurance coverage? dental?

If she decides to resign, 1 month or 2 months notice? deposit how?

I think maids are not the same as a normal employee. They are people who are actually living with you. The concerns made by others in this tered are valid. You are essentially bringing in a stranger to live in your house.

Treat them decently yes, but as a part of the family? That will take time.
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Annual leave= got, one month including return flight ticket to hometown
Bonus= depends
EPF= not compulsory. Unless she wanna minus her salary and put into EPF.
Socso = already compulsory
Insurance= now socso already cover most of it.
Dental= go to clinic, dental, all boss paid.


These are common practices.
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post Aug 11 2023, 08:23 AM

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QUOTE(howszat @ Aug 10 2023, 07:20 PM)
It's more like the American R influence.
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Unless you talked about Hispanic American which is also Spanish influence, but still a bit milder in general than Filipinos. I've had several work trips there. smile.gif
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post Aug 11 2023, 08:42 AM

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QUOTE(Lembu Goreng @ Aug 10 2023, 10:15 AM)
Thinking of getting one. I heard the Indo ones all run away. Being english speaker also is a plus.

Anybody wanna share experience? How much is the cost/expenses? How it has impacted your home/family?
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3000 but hv to follow working hours n one day off.
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post Aug 11 2023, 08:44 AM

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you will have hard time, they demand more salary, and do selective of work only, good luck
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post Aug 11 2023, 09:45 AM

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QUOTE(oM41GoD_ @ Aug 11 2023, 08:23 AM)
Annual leave= got, one month including return flight ticket to hometown
Bonus= depends
EPF= not compulsory. Unless she wanna minus her salary and put into EPF.
Socso = already compulsory
Insurance= now socso already cover most of it.
Dental= go to clinic, dental, all boss paid.
These are common practices.
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This is way oversimplifying things. It is not giving new employers a clear picture of what they are getting into.

Hiring a maid =/= Hiring a normal salaried/contract employee

It is completely different!

Anyone hoping for the same as a normal employee is going to be in for a rude shock. It is perfectly fine to dislike a colleague, you see them for <8 hours a day. You are going to be sleeping in the same house with the maid! She will have access to your kids, your parents, your valuables at all times. None of your colleagues have that access!

And remember when she comes, she is a complete stranger, you have to build up a good relationship with her. For an employee, you hire them, they do their job, you pay them. Habis cerita. You don't need to be friends with them!

And just to clarify:
1) Annual leave is not mandatory for maids, but many will go home once at the end of the contract period. If you want them back, prepare for a salary hike. Flight tickets are not mandatory as well, you can pay for her if you want if she has been a good employee.
2) Bonus is definitely not mandatory
3) EPF not mandatory
4) SOCSO mandatory
5) Insurance only Socso, actually this is a good thing.
6) Dental/clinic not mandatory but please la have some decency

edit: you have to balance that with a small distance or some maids will take advantage of you!

This post has been edited by loserguy: Aug 11 2023, 09:49 AM

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