do u mean i'm in a shitty position or i'm not man enough?


it's already 1 year since they stopped dating, is that normal for her for not forgetting him yet? i know girls are very emotional, but exactly to what extend, i dont know

like i said, i might be a rebound but it's obvious that she loves me, so i MIGHT say i'm the rebound she fell in love...the whole thing is very complicated since the very beginning where we started as friends with benefits...and we grew on each other over time

this happened to my ex before we got together w/ my ex, i knew she wasn't over her ex yet and i stood by her and we lived happily for 3 years...i dont know how i did it, maybe i was just too naive...and now this happens again and i'm kinda sick and tired of it...

what my best friend told me yesterday was it's normal for her to miss him even though after this while and maybe after a long period, she would open up to me totally and stop hidding things from me

all i can do is try my best and hope for the best to come...yesterday was one of my darkest day, worse than when i got dump last year by my ex of 3 years...i was so unsure what lies ahead of me after bringing up that sad topic of hers, and f***ed up my ankle and knee so badly during a football match...but luckily, she was there to take care of me after all these

I broke and got attached to another girl just in a month. Now almost a year already STILL my gf feels insecure because she know how much I love my ex-gf. She read my blogs, seen all the photos I took & the memorial things I kept. What I did for her is to delete all my ex's picture in friendster, pass all the photos & memorial things to my ex, never reply ex's sms no more, etc ... That's what I did to show her how much I love her. BUT that won't erase my ex from me. I still have my ex in my heart n mind. It's not wrong to love a person. It can be one or two or even more BUT think who she attached to now. I know you can get mad or jealous when you feel that she pay more attention to her ex. That shows how much you love and care for her. Just spend ur time happily with her together. Time will heals and things will get better.


I just broke with my gf cause I went clubbing yesterday.





This post has been edited by Amedion: Oct 7 2007, 01:19 PM

You suck, because you're liverpool fans. Lol jk. Give some time to her. Girls need time to recover. You can't expect them to recover in such a short period of time.

whoa...she control freak ah? that's what i like about my current gf compared to my ex, she doesnt control me

yea, that's my point, i do keep our old stuff but i'm not emotionally attached. actually, i left them in a box and i've totally forgot about it until u mentioned it now.


i know i've repeated this many times cuz this is the only hope for this relationship to go on. so is 1 year too short for them? especially since we've only dated for 6 months

This post has been edited by vintec: Oct 7 2007, 01:21 PM

spend more money on her.

Depends.. Already near one year and I still love her & miss the moments .. We've been for 4 years+ ..

Now this gf is near one year also ..

wow...i've never seen a guy who's so emotionally attached, one of a kind....not that i wasn't serious with my ex of 3 years, i cried for days when she dumped me but eventually i told myself, i hav no choice but to suck it up

oo...how would it be...nice song

This post has been edited by vintec: Oct 7 2007, 01:33 PM

Becoz I am very happy wif her .. This new gf too control !

Just give her time.. 1 year changes nothing.. She manage to fight her tears but the pain inside she can't hide it ..


Go find lene marlin's song .. Very nice .. All emotional songs..

This suits you :-



This post has been edited by Amedion: Oct 7 2007, 01:38 PM

aiks, emo is not what i want now, been through a lot...but heck, they must be nice

actually, when i confronted her 2 nites ago, i was hoping she would say her feelings out and we can works things out....i gav her my shoulder to cry on for that guy before, why isn't she doin it anymore? maybe she knows i'm very sensitive towards that guy

This post has been edited by vintec: Oct 7 2007, 01:40 PM

Emo is nice .. I like it.. Although it hurts ..

That prove she willing to work things out for you.. Don't be selfish .. Give her time ..

When the time comes. You will get wat u wan..

yup...hopefully

a side note....next time if i'm looking for a relationship, i'll look for virgins or those who had a lot of partners before...they'd either hav no emotional baggage or lost it long time ago

That's why I always hunt for virgin ..