Uhm....if u dont mind, u wouldnt even mentioned it...nor keep remembering and remind it to yourself/her...
Maybe deep inside ur heart u really mind about it...i dont know...

But......as i've said..
Nothing wrong with still missing her ex...
Humans arent robots they cant just switch off thier memories and feelings....

eh dude dumping ppl is better
the the person who dumps the other has the physiological advantage and also is prepared in advance.

[quote=WaCKy-Angel,Oct 6 2007, 03:18 PM]
Uhm....if u dont mind, u wouldnt even mentioned it...nor keep remembering and remind it to yourself/her...
Maybe deep inside ur heart u really mind about it...i dont know...
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i'm sure i dont mind about this, it happened even before i met her, i dont care about her past

But......as i've said..
Nothing wrong with still missing her ex...
Humans arent robots they cant just switch off thier memories and feelings....

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this comforts me that i'm just being narrow minded

you are wrong playing reverse physiological is better when u met a new one, if they ask what happen to your ex it's better to say she dump me than i dump her

Geez, what a wuss. You can't even make up your own mind.

I end here. bye.

i was preparign myself yesterday and it was as bad as being dumped last year...downside of dumping is there's no return for u becuz u asked for it....i know it's offtopic

ok...off to a football match...i'll come back tonight...thx in advance, guys

eh.. hahah sorry i would never succumb to the pity loser style asking for sympathy

will always continue my forte of dumping ppl when i think a relationship is going no where and just move on.

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Added on October 6, 2007, 1:49 pmwrong dude dumping pp u have a better chance infact of getting her back in the future rather than being dumped..

cause a person who was dumped and then ask to get back into a relationship is like begging yo..

This post has been edited by cstkl1: Oct 6 2007, 01:49 PM

it's difficult for you if she can't get over her ex. i doubt if she really loves you as she's hurting you indirectly. why you want to apologize for her wrong beings? anyway, love is like that. as long as you think it's worth and you're happy..wish you luck

if you really love her, and she does as well...tell her face to face that you dont mind she lost her 1st time to other guy(s) but u just want her to be REAL..tell her u love her a lot, and try to forget the past..

she broke up with her ex 2 months ago. do u think it is so easy for a human to forget someone she/he used to love so deeply? be realistic.

u love her a lot. she loves u as well. but at the same time, she couldnt get her ex out of her mind. yet u r pressuring her. u find all her acts dubious. u confronted her several times. have u given a thought of how she feel?

wat should u do now? give her trust, time, and not forgetting privacy. u r just her bf, she still have the right to do what she wants... even if u r her husband!

宝贝对不起，不是不爱你

it's sad to hear your story. that is the bad thing to date a person who has ex. i overcome this kind of situation. u try to show her you love her a lot and also try to spend more time with her. tell her how painful you feel when a girl you love so much hurt you like that. you don't have to ask her. you will get her pissed and make her more uncertain. but if you really want to let her go, it is also a good thing. but don't make the decision so fast, you may regret. i hope this helps

they were not in a relationship at all, it was just a fling...they stopped dating for almost a year and that guy left home for good 2 months ago

man, do i ever thought of how she feels? i've not even finished the whole story yet. when we were dating, she pushed me away when we hang out w/ that dude, not once, but twice...i forgave her, whereas most of mine and her friend said they would hav dump her long time ago

anyway, forget about apology, she's fine with me now, i've only left her a letter before i left home this morning...i've talked to my best friend, he said it's normal for girls to feel that way and normal for me to get jealous...and i really appreciate all inputs here, cheers all

At first glance, it might seen normal but take note, she did lie and deny about it. There is littlel trust between the two of you. And to me, she seems more like... haven't gotton over him and yet she started relationship with you. Is this not rebound you say?

Is either you talk to her, talk about the issues you guys facing. Or you just let her go. I can guarantee you, no girls can forget a guy in such a short period of time. If she could, you might want to think twice if you want her to be in your relationship. Girls are emotional animal, remember?

give her time,it's not easy to forget those memories..stick with her n support her through this period =D

dude..i think u should give her more time..some ppl may be hard for them to forget someone who they really love before..give her some time,now i think u should treat her nice & its damn nice..make her feel sorry for you cause u treat her so nice but she at another side keep thingking her ex..then maybe she will forget about it & love you more..put more trust on her

and dont listen to those who ask you to dump her..never ever teach ppl to dump their bf or gf..this decision is up to TS..

dump that biatch already

gosh, i cant believe u r so sux~

what both of u need is sit down n talks about it in calm, if she got upset again, i would suggest let not meet each other for a period of time cuz both of u really need time and free space to cool down n think what is important now . becuz she still can't forget him and new relationship has started.

i think this way is good for u n for her.

n if back together after this cold war, it;s mean either she clear what she wants now or you willing to continue suffer