not that simple... you wont understand........
I Feel Suicidal How to gain back her trust?
I Feel Suicidal How to gain back her trust?
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Sep 24 2007, 11:13 PM
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not that simple... you wont understand........
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Sep 25 2007, 02:16 AM
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buy her a trust fund?
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Sep 25 2007, 03:20 AM
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QUOTE(Perfect-Stranger @ Sep 23 2007, 02:31 PM) Well, seriously, sometimes our words might offence their feeling. Seriously, in my point of view, if my bf suddenly buy me 'Roses + chocolate drink + cheese cake' everything so planned and romantic, it makes me more suspicious...... I suppose if i were she, i will felt that, " Why my boyfriend will simply think of that ? Don't he know that im having exam recently, i have lots of subjects need to cover up, why he don't understand me at all ? Why ? He dont even care about me !! T.T " Assuming if my statement is correct, then i have a suggestion to you, give it a try. First of all, for your information, girls like guy to be honest to them and let them know exactly what are you thinking. Because sometimes, they are kinda tired on guessing what their partner thinking. So, the interaction between both of you must be good. Find one day in which she 's not so busy and kinda free, ask her out to somewhere peace and provide good atmosphere with nice food and music. Recommended : Starbuck, coffee bean and etc. Order a piece of cake and coffee. Sit down, speak softly but seriously. " Seriously " is to let her know you care about the relationship between both of you. Speak out the reason why you said to her like that in the previous conversation. Tell her, you are sorry for that incident, but you really still care about her alot alot alot. ( Your expression must be good and honest enough, dont smile and laugh, she will think that you are not taking it seriously.) After that, tell her, you wish to listen to her words too. Im sure, she will definitely vomit out all the words that she kept so long in her heart. Well, at that moment, i believe you will listen to lots of issues in which it might be normal and nothing special to you, but meant alot to her. At last but not least, of course must end with something romantic. At first, Prepare a bonquet of roses and ask the counter to keep them for you. Present your roses to her and say you love her very much. Roses + chocolate drink + cheese cake = 100% make her sweet deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeply in her heart. Well, how to maintain the relationship btw both of you, its all up to you. All the best ! From your message, i know you love her. exactly the same i love my gf. Regards, Perfect-Stranger To me, just be normal can d... if best, can brust into tears and then keep on saying that you can't lost her.... be very emotion. then hug her tightly... until she says she can't breath. How's this idea? ok anot? |
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Sep 25 2007, 05:02 AM
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i know u already make a mistake, yeah sure it must been hurting her. But come on, its not like u betray her or whateva. To ignore u like this is too much. Ur gf got too much ego. Just let her be alone. Dont contact her anymore. Just go to aus. If she really love u, she will start to wonder where have u been n why u already stop to contact her.
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Sep 25 2007, 06:42 AM
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@blackamikaze
Not so true, some girls they don't care one. They can live on their own and don't need you. |
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Sep 25 2007, 08:00 AM
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Sep 25 2007, 02:30 PM
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QUOTE(ladymys2001 @ Sep 25 2007, 03:20 AM) Seriously, in my point of view, if my bf suddenly buy me 'Roses + chocolate drink + cheese cake' everything so planned and romantic, it makes me more suspicious...... Its hard to date her out,i can only see her for maybe 2 times in a month,sometimes maybe lesser..normally we will chat ,almost everyday. I dont think so it will work,if i keep telling her i cant lost her,i think that she will think that im annoying somemore hug her tightly,i think she will really be annoyed evenmore..Shes unique,aint like those common girls.To me, just be normal can d... if best, can brust into tears and then keep on saying that you can't lost her.... be very emotion. then hug her tightly... until she says she can't breath. How's this idea? ok anot? QUOTE(blackamikaze @ Sep 25 2007, 05:02 AM) i know u already make a mistake, yeah sure it must been hurting her. But come on, its not like u betray her or whateva. To ignore u like this is too much. Ur gf got too much ego. Just let her be alone. Dont contact her anymore. Just go to aus. If she really love u, she will start to wonder where have u been n why u already stop to contact her. I told her about my aus trip. Seriously,shes actually a very very sweet girl....but...i dont know how to say...if i wonder off away like that,i think that,she will just ignore me.QUOTE(blackamikaze @ Sep 25 2007, 08:00 AM) so if she can live by herself n dont even think even think about TS, it mean she not love Ts anymore, simple as that... tS should move one then... Well said,but not easily done....i've chased her for years...and before her,i've never met any girl in my life that is so special...i really love her,and i seriously do think that i won't last for long if without her..i want us to be happy,like we used to be....its very sad to end a relationship that i've poured almost everything of me into.....i know deep down inside her,she wants to be together happily with me as well. |
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