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kapitan
post Sep 23 2007, 03:11 PM

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Mayb you are giving her too much pressure that she feel like taking a break from you. Anyway, help yourself, not us. We can only help you by spanar'ing her. LOL... you are her BF, not us...
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post Sep 23 2007, 03:19 PM

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QUOTE(Perfect-Stranger @ Sep 23 2007, 02:31 PM)
Well, seriously, sometimes our words might offence their feeling.

I suppose if i were she, i will felt that, " Why my boyfriend will simply think of that ? Don't he know that im having exam recently, i have lots of subjects need to cover up, why he don't understand me at all ? Why ? He dont even care about me !! T.T "

Assuming if my statement is correct, then i have a suggestion to you, give it a try.

First of all, for your information, girls like guy to be honest to them and let them know exactly what are you thinking. Because sometimes, they are kinda tired on guessing what their partner thinking. So, the interaction between both of you must be good.

Find one day in which she 's not so busy and kinda free, ask her out to somewhere peace and provide good atmosphere with nice food and music. Recommended : Starbuck, coffee bean and etc.

Order a piece of cake and coffee. Sit down, speak softly but seriously. " Seriously " is to let her know you care about the relationship between both of you. Speak out the reason why you said to her like that in the previous conversation. Tell her, you are sorry for that incident, but you really still care about her alot alot alot. ( Your expression must be good and honest enough, dont smile and laugh, she will think that you are not taking it seriously.)

After that, tell her, you wish to listen to her words too. Im sure, she will definitely vomit out all the words that she kept so long in her heart. Well, at that moment, i believe you will listen to lots of issues in which it might be normal and nothing special to you, but meant alot to her.

At last but not least, of course must end with something romantic. At first, Prepare a bonquet of roses and ask the counter to keep them for you. Present your roses to her and say you love her very much.
Roses + chocolate drink + cheese cake = 100% make her sweet deeeeeeeeeeeeeeeply in her heart.

Well, how to maintain the relationship btw both of you, its all up to you.  wub.gif
All the best ! From your message, i know you love her. exactly the same i love my gf.

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Buddy,thanks for ur advice,really appreciate it. Will try my best....


Added on September 23, 2007, 3:21 pm
QUOTE(kapitan @ Sep 23 2007, 03:11 PM)
Mayb you are giving her too much pressure that she feel like taking a break from you. Anyway, help yourself, not us. We can only help you by spanar'ing her. LOL... you are her BF, not us...
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I do admit it,sometimes i really do give her pressure..My fault..If shes willing to tell me her problems,im willing to listen and willing to change.. It hurts me when 2 persons that love each other so much become like this..I just want to fix things up.

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post Sep 23 2007, 05:35 PM

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post Sep 23 2007, 05:43 PM

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QUOTE(aladdin @ Sep 23 2007, 05:35 PM)
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Apa itu ahem ahem laaaaa
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post Sep 23 2007, 05:47 PM

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wahaizz !!!
ppl wait for u 2 years and then now, u doubt her ah ?!?!?

kapitan
post Sep 23 2007, 05:49 PM

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Not doubt, COLD WAR...

LOL..........
TSKunikatu
post Sep 23 2007, 06:16 PM

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She logged in MSN,and ignoring me just like that.

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post Sep 23 2007, 06:18 PM

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What you expect?

LOL... you expect her to say sorry to you?

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post Sep 23 2007, 07:37 PM

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Err.. I never experience this before, but I think after the exam, she'll come back with apologies for treating you that way, if not... You'll know
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post Sep 23 2007, 07:44 PM

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no.....just hope that atlest send me a Hi..You dont know how my life is....Most of the time,i'll be thinking about her.The whole noon i'll just log in my msn and sit infront of the monitor waiting for her to online,thats all. I wish she'll understand that i SERIOUSLY do trust her.
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post Sep 23 2007, 07:50 PM

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more action should do the trick....lik how they said...buy flower....choc....anything

more action...but not sex la...if u go for it now...u can say byebye 2 her forever...hahaha
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post Sep 23 2007, 07:52 PM

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Yup, you can't just go telling her "I love you" etc =) Needs moar action!11!11!
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post Sep 23 2007, 07:54 PM

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im facing the exact same situation as u. but mine slightly different. i have moodswing and i let it out on him. tellin him crappy stuff and he couldnt take it anymore. at least its better now.
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post Sep 23 2007, 08:03 PM

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QUOTE(@nn@nn @ Sep 23 2007, 07:54 PM)
im facing the exact same situation as u. but mine slightly different. i have moodswing and i let it out on him. tellin him crappy stuff and he couldnt take it anymore. at least its better now.
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Woah, that's bad.. Try chilling x.x Don't even let out your anger on your partner. Sheets will happen
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post Sep 23 2007, 08:09 PM

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I'm going australia coming wednesday,alone,will be there atlest for 2 weeks. Honestly,i really want to see her before i leave,but things are like this,really dont know what to do.
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post Sep 23 2007, 09:32 PM

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give her sometime..since u said u going to aus..give her a call..then buy a present(dont tell her)..
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post Sep 23 2007, 09:36 PM

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Hope so......if not,i dont know what to do d...
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post Sep 24 2007, 12:28 PM

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tell her how you felt that time. and tell her how you feel everyday. spend most of the time together and talk about what both of you did when guys were not with each other. whenever you miss her or whatever, just tell her smile.gif

good luck in your relationship. dont give up! dont waste your 2 years of love for her. once you lose her, you can hardly get her back. hope she forgive what you have said.. and get them out of her mind
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post Sep 24 2007, 04:15 PM

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I just called her, i asked if shes free coz i wanted to see her,she told me she doesn know...people,seriously,at this exact moment,i no longer can withstand this anymore...I've tried everything in my power,to fix things up. I SERIOUSLY NEED HER LOVE NOW....she wont look at me and i cant betray her and ask the love from another girl..betrayin her is the last thing on earth i want to do.. I cant bear this pain of watching 2 persons that love each other so much,became like this... I really,feel like cutting my wrist and end all my pain now.

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post Sep 24 2007, 04:25 PM

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Just goto her house directly..


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