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This post has been edited by -mystery-: May 20 2022, 12:17 AM

i matched amoi on tinder last thursday, two days later evening we already met.
its about how you text and what type of girl align with your dating wish (short term/medium/long term)

1. maybe you're at very bottom of their chat list, you have to text her once every few days just to refresh yourself in their chatlist.

2. I will send her some sarcastic texts to try get some attention.

3. suddenly enthusiastic-and then- no reply is mostly time waster, they got off by getting ATTENTION from you but never intended to meet up.

4. matched and never reply is probably window shopping, they like checking out guys but since their DMs is flooded with messages, at the end they GAVE UP replying to so many guys (its important to get a girl out of the app, ASAP).

dating app hunt on those average guys pay for subscription with the algorithm manipulation, since the cads are rare online.

Why are there still limiting beliefs everywhere?
because you project insecurities onto other people.
Its like when a person calls rich people are scammy or bad, its highly likelihood they have never been rich, by themselves. So they project onto them and wanted to bring em down to their same level.

This kind of person is manipulative, and toxic
Ive been meeting multi racial girls as a local chinese and been over hundreds of dates. None of these money and status matter unless you want to stay on the societal-accepted hierarchy environment, which is being a blue pill, beta provider.

if you're tinder platinum user, giving superlike gives you an extra ''standout'' opening message line, that may help if the girl has some unique pictures on it (again, that also means she's more serious with meeting guys)

i also met girls without superlikes

just video call them if they were genuinely real
i doubt it.

why get her instagram? your instagram very good profiled?
for me i will prefer wahtsapp or telegram

up to you, my method has always try to get their personal digit, at least it shows they're serious with this dating thing
any female who has more than 5k followers, she will probably not responding to guys

already asked her out or not? your time is ticking if you're average as myself
you might be forgetten very quick.

have you actually called her up or just pure texting
i met quite numbers of girls since the mid sept mco relifted
a 'casual' meet/date.

telegram is like matured version of wechat
wechat i use still feel like a kid

depends what you meant by waste of time
because i've met some girls we dont exchange much on texts, when IRL she's quite chill person

wechat
facebook dating/direct
omi
coffee meet bagel
instagram
tantan
bumble
tinder

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This post has been edited by -mystery-: May 20 2022, 12:17 AM

you're not giving her which address you exactly stay in
you can show her some picture that you travel that is available, near your place
that will captivate her more than just write down where you from

but still goes back to main issue, most females have bad game, they don't need to train themselves, why should they?

i just removed my tinder subscription last night, got blocked after multiple attempt to message old leads, fucking rigged app haha.

normal girls are those you see everytime you walk around shopping mall those are completely unfiltered except some makeups

i set 15km radius, sometimes their pairing could be more than 30km.
if the distance too far, i will ask the girl the meet me up in middle
if she's open for opportunity, she will come, no excuses.

online dating is mostly for casual chats, don't expect too much of it
the landscape is not like 10-30 years ago where a lot of things were way slower pace, its getting competitive and saturated.
if you want more detail filtering, you can try bumble paid version.

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jul 17 2022, 04:10 PM

its also about generating volume and leads for yourself
it will take some energy time to go out socialize irl

Thats why girl like your pattern are mostly window shopping and couldnt make a decision to make effort to meet up or not. For me its either do or dont. Ive met some chill girl either they work for oversea travel or even single moms, they're straight down for chat irl.

No bull shit. I dont get why these girls or guys esp, chat for what online for how long? The more you chat the more you're going to make mistakes online.