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Discussion about Dating Apps & Agency, Tinder, OKC, CMB, Lunch Actually, others
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Jan 18 2024, 10:24 AM
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QUOTE(Ramjade @ Jan 18 2024, 07:17 AM) It's a western thing. Hook up and fwb are all YOLO lifestyle. I don't endorse and certainly don't support. Promiscuous bring harm to both the man and woman in the long run. You do you. I do mine way. So drinking and smoking is not YOLO? Its funny to even do a comparison if you have anxiety about your wife sleeping with other guys, maybe yourself have massive insecurity who doesn't even have capacity to exercise your dominance instinct where is the open communication? Lol This post has been edited by -mystery-: Jan 18 2024, 10:26 AM
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Jan 22 2024, 03:15 PM
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QUOTE(TOS @ Jan 22 2024, 12:34 PM) Of course still virgin bro... I admit I have sexual needs and I usually just "settle it myself" in my own room. You can still explore sexuality without losing your virginity. 25 and still Virgin? Its either being a "high" quality guy or just being naive in this sexual marketplace. Just stay blue pill yah
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Jan 25 2024, 08:54 PM
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QUOTE(Agent 45 @ Jan 25 2024, 10:41 AM) Hi, how to approach type D girl? She told me that theres no chemistry because of her personality as she takes very long time to bond with people. We went out twice before but after that she's always busy with work, or something came up after we set the date. So I always can't get to ask her out. She felt guilty for wasting my time and energy, told me that I deserved someone better. I felt like I bother her too much but according to her, i'm not a burden to her but it's due to her own personality problem, so she said it's better to just be friends. But then she told me that she's happy to get my msgs. She would just go with the flow, 顺其自然.... I feel she's not sure and not really rejecting relationship. its either a) you're not very attractive based on previous guys she hung out with b) she has avoidant personality that can be due to many factors obviously she didn't make you as priority thats why refer to (a), she maybe only appear avoidant to you but she can also hooking up with some guys behind your vision (you never know). If a girl still reply you but no further actions just continue see other girls no hard feelings. If she find out you have other things going on on Instagram, she might start get curious again
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Jan 25 2024, 08:56 PM
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QUOTE(sourcream47 @ Jan 25 2024, 04:27 PM) Looks like a lot people using tinder and tantan, but did anyone use sugarbook? I got saw this apps but not sure is it same like tinder, anyone got use before can give some advise? the paid ones can be scammy ie donate "gifts" to the broadcaster so that you can get further "benefits"
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Jan 25 2024, 09:01 PM
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QUOTE(Takudan @ Jan 25 2024, 11:05 AM) Any red flags? I'm concerned that some women may string along a guy for free meals and rides, so you need to protect yourself. i was flaked thrice by a malay coincidentally i able to ask her out after my work, she wanted to eat dinner i didnt fall onto trap by bringing her to eat haidilao. During the conversation, she talked badly about the food (overall she's a negative kind of woman no wonder she still single at mid 30s), i was like ffs its only rm20 never mind and then later she excused herself away quickly to avoid me slaying her pussy (cause i knew she's staying alone) few days later, she blocked me on whatsapp disgraceful, but its not the first time girls do this kind of shit without telling upfront lmao
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Jan 28 2024, 12:24 PM
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QUOTE(Agent 45 @ Jan 26 2024, 09:34 PM) For my case, she never see getting into relationship as a thing for her, maybe just optional. I'm worried that I'm being too pushy. if you're too aggressive, she will be repel or avoidant Its the way its, either you try achieve a balance or move on seeing other girls. She's not invested onto you now you can ask yourself why you want the "label" do you feel the void or feeling of near to death when you not getting replies from her (so u appeared pushy)
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Jan 28 2024, 12:29 PM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Jan 27 2024, 07:48 PM) Overall, she was being difficult. if a girl doesnt block us, still have chances to maneuver. There are girls who straight away block the guys after getting free dinners those are the vindictive types, they even dont bring conversations to the table aka pasu bunga some are the worse kind. majority of females (asian standard) sleeps with guys on 3rd date.
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Jan 28 2024, 12:33 PM
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QUOTE(Agent 45 @ Jan 27 2024, 09:09 PM) she said she was impressed and a bit guilty for me spending money for the gifts. After that, never really had chance to meet her till now. Damn I just saw your thread and I think I have missed my chance. I thought of physical contact on first date but I was hesitant about it. Should have done that earlier. Do u think I should go for it if I managed to date her after this? It's a bit awkward now, she rarely reply. She knew I was going after her and this could be pressuring her. I am thinking to tell her that I have no more expectations and to just let things go naturally, so that she won't feel pressure going out with me again. firstly, its a good thing that you've awareness on some of her feedbacks onto you there are things already taken place, you just recognize the mistakes and not doing the same thing next time cure your nice guy tendencies if you have anxiety around these things, seak a qualified psychiatrist or family therapist
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Jan 29 2024, 01:05 AM
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QUOTE(Cubalagi @ Jan 28 2024, 02:26 PM) This. Unfortunately, being a nice guy is the long hard road to attract girls. Bad boy is like a cheat code. I remember when i was around 10 years old I extend my arm to hug a girl in front of my class while we both seated talking to two fellows behind me then she told teacher come she stared at me straight for few mins I remember the scene and it kinda traumatised me lmao and most guys played it safe reaching their secondary school
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Mar 1 2024, 12:52 PM
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QUOTE(ahjummma @ Feb 29 2024, 03:08 PM) to the guys who are on dating apps, do you send selfie to your matches like every single day? if so, what's the purpose of it? thanks. If you have an interesting life and not cheesy looking background sure send your selfies, but most guys probably have old photos ready to ping the girl if she asked for it
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Mar 1 2024, 03:39 PM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Mar 1 2024, 01:17 PM) all they do is talk abt themselves non-stop and won't bother to ask the other party any questions abt themselves. Its mostly guys who are bad texters
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Mar 5 2024, 10:18 AM
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QUOTE(parisiansky @ Mar 4 2024, 12:56 PM) Hahahaha let me correct them. They only want to have interesting communication....with the ppl that they're attracted to 🤣 Some just matched with pp just to get validation n attention from them like narcissists. If you are annoyed, then just change yourself to daytime approach you'll be amazed by these 00 girls change their attitude become shy while at online they can act like a cold entitled princess
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Apr 22 2024, 09:38 AM
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QUOTE(johnsonlim777 @ Apr 21 2024, 10:49 AM) Hey guys wanna ask- how fast are we expected to reply girls messages these days? Is 1 day gap too late? Usually will match on CMB then bring forward convo to IG; but usually convo dies off over time I chatted a filipina on cmb moved her to ws within 1.5 hours (because she replies me immediately on cmb there) we met on the same day and proceed to her own renting place and fark her you dont linger on dating apps too much ask a girl out when there's a window
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May 11 2024, 09:27 AM
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QUOTE(Azran1979 @ May 9 2024, 11:37 AM) hi im new here. as a 40 year old im having trouble to find partner. i dont have any fb, ig or any social media. i never interested on those things coz my life also is not very social. is this a problem? unker tried tinder litmatch and few others but seemed hard to continue the conversation. how can unker find date among likeminded young people and not look creepy? there's no trouble. Only limitations that you set for yourself Ive met up over 300+ females (irl) from age 16 to 50 over the past 10 years
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May 20 2024, 02:17 PM
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QUOTE(NAVEE @ May 20 2024, 10:41 AM) I am skeptical about dating agencies too but have you considered speed dating? I am thinking of joining for the experience and maybe trying something that is out of my comfort zone. you dont need to join agencies or events you can just technically walk up to anyone in public places and start a conversation the world is your playground only you limit yourself.
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Sep 1 2024, 12:38 PM
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QUOTE(MoneyChaser @ Aug 15 2024, 04:19 PM) its august 2024 , what are the latest trends in the dating app scene more and more people will unsubscribe from dating apps just look at tinder subscriptions it already charges ridiculously expensive compared to last time (i only used tinder platinum during covid, it works just fine) they use algorithm to alter your perception so that you will keep spending money on apps to get attention
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Nov 6 2025, 06:04 PM
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QUOTE(Redshelf411 @ Nov 2 2025, 09:55 AM) Anyone having luck finding your long term partner off dating apps? I've tried = no luck. I think the primary reason why a guy cannot find long term partner from dating app is money issue nowadays, one fish n chip already rm30+ for a decent looking venue for just a normal man and woman date. If the guy is making an average salary of rm3000 per month he will still find a hard time date someone
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