Hi Guys, so yea I had a failed relationship last year, was betrayed. Not going into the story though.
I just started trying all the various dating apps late last year.
Surprisingly an average guy like me with no fancy profile or fancy photos or fancy pickup lines, I still get quite a numbers of matches. It may sounds very less to some of u. HAHA

At first I was just chatting with them, as an introvert myself I don’t really knows how to ask them out.
But still, so far I already went out with 2 girls. 1 from Bumble, went for a dinner and a walk in the park, but we just doesn’t click.

The second one was from Tantan, already went for 3 dates so far. We spoke a lot, she shared a lot with me. I read quite a lot in cupid corner, so tried some physical touching, she didn’t show discomfort or rejection.
We even went out yesterday, at first I thought it will be awkward but its still fine, just a regular date, not treating it as a valentine day.

I know it’s positive for me, I will want to get to know her more, spend more time with her. But tbh, I don’t know does she think the same, who knows she is just bored and went out with me just to kill her boredom.
I don’t hold much hope, as there is many more matches, although it is tiring to go through the same thing from the start.

LOL enough story, my question here would be, normally how long will you guys went out/date before its time to confess?
And normally how long will you guys chat before asking them out?

my quickest date is match on same day 3 or 4 hours later go out together.

Dont need to confess, just hang out and have fun
If she press on relationship too quick, either she's needy or she's getting old want a fat cash cow to extract.

Same day? So fast?

Sometimes I just don't know how to ask for their contacts to chat in whatsapp, and asking them out is even tougher for me.

If doesn't confess then how do we even know if we would like to be together? Just hang out have fun and let it happen naturally?

if she asks you question, or she writes she's busy or seldom in that application, just ask her whatsapp
yes, dont need to confess
that you way you can protect yourself if she didn't see you sexually or romantically, avoid that awkward situation
use your gaze, touches and words to seduce her.

just have fun and let it happen naturally. you can tell if she is paying attention to you more if she is interested in you, or less if she isn't.
its not wrong to have more matches but if your heart are not fixed on someone, you will keep having this mindset of having a 'backup plan' if things doesn't go as expected.

Dating apps can find love, just be careful of scams and catfish

My friend got married with girl he found on dating apps. Not impossible but very rare

Phone number is easy to get

Ask her to play a math game with you

1st ask any simple math Q, 3x 12 bla bla bla

2nd Question just randomly drop 3 x 'your phone number' then you got it. Goodluck

i changed my photo
surprisingly these few days CMB gave me higher matching rate, where tinder paid version has slow down a lot.
it really depends

Just go slow dude

Dont jump the gun 2 much hahahaha

Since she already fixed her eye on you

Assurance is there already

how to be loyal if its not even relationship yet?
unless you commit yourself to wait for the opposite sex.

many that i know actually resorted to dating apps for a life partner and it works for them.

My experience - I dated quite a bunch of girls from dating apps.
Usually i chatted with them for like 3 days to 1 week before asking them out.
Things to note: IF they agree to go out with you, then you already have high chance.
Surprisingly, most girls don't mind to have fun if you can get close and click with them. They know what they sign up for when they use dating apps.
I never confess, things will flow naturally.

There are many fishes out there. Dont be afraid to fail. There is always the next one out there.

waitaminute i heard from ppl tht Tantan is the lowest grade of dating app (even lower that tinder) is that true?

Anyone experience a girl from Dating FB asking for sexcam at wechat and refuse to come out meet? she keep saying want to satisfy her by showing my D and say if i dint show at video call with her showing her's then we dont meet. and i notice is it possible for her to give fake video while during live video call?

obviously scam

yea that what i thought too

tantan in 2018, 2019 is best years for me
since 2020 already started china scammers
i have already invited 54 girls out (solely from tantan)

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Apr 13 2021, 12:15 AM

dont be sohai give her your dick pic
later she can crop your head and paste it onto a random video where you masterbate
then con you for money

Dem. I started in 2020. Yeah scammers more than date

have to agree that when the app first released in malaysia, it was nice and good. all quite genuine. but thereafter, lols.... scammers aare everywhere!