facebook dating
bumble
coffee meet bagel
tinder
omi
instagram
wechat

instagram been toughest app, a lot of girls will not reply me
omi is 99% muslim
my first few malay asked out was actually from HAYAT, 19 year old and someone older from bahrain (middle east country)

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Oct 13 2021, 10:52 AM

there was one girl gifted me one box of moon cake on that first evening, we actually texted and sexting sometimes along the lockdown.
found out she's actually not my type fully, physically
but we still hung out for few times for dinner.

i mean u using all tis apps ?
then able to met up with 5 different new females in a week?

yes, but i think it had been 4 months lockdown
i had some numbers in my phone along with these apps

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Oct 13 2021, 11:34 AM

wow, really can do a review on dating apps already

so far which apps u prefer most?

in term of the quality of match, not fake profile, matching rate, etc.

Tantan
had the fakest profiles around (you will see their location put around china/too pretty picture)
but i think i asked out around 54 females so far, since 2018/2019 (best year of tantan)

Tinder
had some quality matches too, professional women and dancer for me recently
not necessarily crappy as most people thought tinder's reputation

Facebook dating
had some decent filipinas and indonesians too

CMB
hooked up 1 out of probably 13 females, might said this is more relationship app

Bumble
decent dates, hooked up with one expatriate recently

Conclusion: matching rate had been Tantan > Fb dating > Tinder > CMB > Bumble

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Oct 13 2021, 11:49 AM

They actually interested in going out rather than just looking for chat to kill time (which wastes our time)?

What is the age range of the dates u have? It's possible younger ones tend to be time waster while women past their teen maybe be more keen to go out, dunno, just my guess.

So far my experience with dating app has been subpar, plus need to deal with scammy profiles, too much hassle. I had more success randomly adding girls in fb and chat then up to get dates. Younger girls in dating app all look for top end males (which I don't consider myself one, I'm only above average), top end as in very tall those 180cm which is quite unreasonable for most men, and then buffed up body like super defined 6 packs.

girls i dated, age around 25, the oldest one i seen was in her 50s

a lot of them had too many chats, so they can be nonchalant not replying you at all, thats why its important to ask these girls out, asap

your bold sentence at the end can be incorrect, i had girls say they came out to see me because im direct im the most average looking guy you can see on the street.

I'm fairly okay in discerning when to ask out, once I think enough chat to know each other's basic details like food, university, some events, travels in the past, then I'll ask out.

But sometimes despite that (conversation also going very well) , they're still not ready and will reply your texts except the invitation, essentially dodging the invitation. Some will play hard to get a bit before agreeing.

Few days to a week normally is sufficient before running out of topic and kill the momentum, sometimes need more time than that to make her feel comfortable, you'll know when she's still quite happy to text you but not yet ready to go out but eventually will.

So what's your definition of Ask out quick?
And what's your physical attribute? Face, height, weight.

find girls who mirror your pace
find women who traveled abroad or busy with their work (professional woman)
this kind of woman dont like to waste time, they actually want someone who's direct and can be honest.

i dont have time to greet someone, every single day
i have other clients and girls to follow up, things to do.

i remember i asked this tantan malay johorean?
texted her, 2 hours later we met
eventually we met twice, nothing happen because i was slow and stupid.
that was the quickest.

it really depends on the girl's window, if her window is big, capitalize on the opportunity.

im below 5ft11 but not short, i believe this height is IDEAL for most girls

This post has been edited by -mystery-: Oct 13 2021, 01:40 PM

I'm somewhere between 170 and 175, this is just barely enough to be called a man, i can't imagine how's my life like if I'm below 170, girls refer that to midget or pikachu lmao.

Kindly provide some juicy stories for us all, I'll be your first audience / subscriber.

Looping in, Zoo Howl, Chobits

I had a male cousin who's just below 160
still can marry someone, but use another advantage lah

But height matter is true, i gone out with at least 5ft7 girl
Most of them say they want a taller guy than em.

Of course, there has to be something someone has to be good at, no height then perhaps money, if no money then perhaps he's godlike in doing conversations or jokes.

But in general, height is a make or break deal if you don't have other advantage to back you up, it's a cruel harsh world out there. My friend is short and got visible tummy, but scored a godlike beauty girl, and you guessed it, he's mega rich.

Come on man, where's stories

any good recommendation ?

Lots of dating apps and all need to pay

anyone use Bumble?
how is the review and please share your experience especially for guys

from what i know this platform was founded by former co-founder of Tinder, is very women centric although still not yet to the level of feminist

This post has been edited by dattebayo: Nov 7 2021, 12:31 PM

i hooked up with a few expat student and worker there,
overall its similar quality compared to CMB

it is more challenging than the rest of the platforms

you need to get ice breaking from women before you are allowed to type anything

which makes me wonder the % population of women in wanting a hookup in bumble platform compare to the rest

if your profile pic is decent, they will pm you anyway with hi
or they will just match you and chose not to respond, and disappear after 24 hours
any platform the females out there will keen for hookup
maybe its 20-30% overall. Other women are just looking for attention and no intention to meet up or looking for beta guy.

Tinder
Had the most matches, probably because it's the most popular app, but overall match quality was mixed. Some were great, some were dry, some never replied after matching, some just couldnt click

Facebook dating
It is bursting with fake chinese bots and immigrants. Still managed to match a handful of decent girls, but filtering through all the rubbish profiles got tiring

CMB
Quality of matches probably a bit better than Tinder, but a lot less. I hate the 7-day time limit for chats before it self-closes

Bumble
Even less matches than CMB. I also really hate the 24 hour time limit for girls to message first before automatically unmatching

OKC
I use it a lot less than the rest, mostly because simple filters like age need a paid subscription to use and most profiles arent interesting to me.