Hi Guys, so yea I had a failed relationship last year, was betrayed. Not going into the story though.
I just started trying all the various dating apps late last year.
Surprisingly an average guy like me with no fancy profile or fancy photos or fancy pickup lines, I still get quite a numbers of matches. It may sounds very less to some of u. HAHA

At first I was just chatting with them, as an introvert myself I don’t really knows how to ask them out.
But still, so far I already went out with 2 girls. 1 from Bumble, went for a dinner and a walk in the park, but we just doesn’t click.

The second one was from Tantan, already went for 3 dates so far. We spoke a lot, she shared a lot with me. I read quite a lot in cupid corner, so tried some physical touching, she didn’t show discomfort or rejection.
We even went out yesterday, at first I thought it will be awkward but its still fine, just a regular date, not treating it as a valentine day.

I know it’s positive for me, I will want to get to know her more, spend more time with her. But tbh, I don’t know does she think the same, who knows she is just bored and went out with me just to kill her boredom.
I don’t hold much hope, as there is many more matches, although it is tiring to go through the same thing from the start.

LOL enough story, my question here would be, normally how long will you guys went out/date before its time to confess?
And normally how long will you guys chat before asking them out?

Same day? So fast?

Sometimes I just don't know how to ask for their contacts to chat in whatsapp, and asking them out is even tougher for me.

If doesn't confess then how do we even know if we would like to be together? Just hang out have fun and let it happen naturally?