If we dont buy dream car or dream house and save the money, invest in more solid things, will it be bad for you?

Why must have dream car and dream house even though already have a good house and decent car? End up paying installment and mortgage forever, ikat perut.

I dont see the logic.

I know women also buy expensive things no logic sometimes, I dont agree with them also, at least I dont do it, I rather save the money for my daughter future.

If say buy expensive car and house can make my future better somehow, then maybe, but they dont right?

No offense but I think this is kinda shallow mindset, not criticize, just stating the logic.

there's a flaw in your thinking as well. Why keep all the money? it's the same with those guys hoarding after big properties and nicer cars but for your case it's paper.

Personally the most precious thing for me would be time. Money, investment, house, car, they aren't so important in life after all. Most importantly is spending as much time as i could with people who do matter to me. Give what you can and take what you need.

Later daugther grew up charsiew study in exp college but no good grades alwiz change bf and big spender spending on rubbish handbag ..how does that a solid investment ?