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SUSeaglefly
post Jan 17 2020, 10:00 PM

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Later your father will seduce your wife

Believe me happen to my brother
ycs
post Jan 17 2020, 10:03 PM

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stay in your own house is best
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post Jan 17 2020, 10:03 PM

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QUOTE(eaglefly @ Jan 17 2020, 10:00 PM)
Later your father will seduce your wife

Believe me happen to my brother
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Macam jav plot saja
Jaclow
post Jan 17 2020, 10:04 PM

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QUOTE(eaglefly @ Jan 17 2020, 10:00 PM)
Later your father will seduce your wife

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Jav code pls

SUSFenix98
post Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM

Happy Meal upsized Sir?
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QUOTE(yeezai @ Jan 17 2020, 08:41 PM)
My sis in law alwiz wear lingerie at kitchen after midnite ...hnngghhhh
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Jav plot? Piap2?
SUSPerfect.Stranger
post Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM

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QUOTE(ohman @ Jan 17 2020, 09:13 PM)
what do you think? Share your opinion or experience please.

this is what i can think of
Pros:

1. have some one to take care anak.
2. not so boring ( for wife/husband )
3. can take care orang tua
4. working can stay back late dont need to rush to bring children.
Cons
1. no privacy ( for everyone )
2. need bigger house
3. conflict between people
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QUOTE(ladytarot99 @ Jan 12 2020, 06:30 PM)
Yes yes
A day Before her wedding sheโ€™s already created a tension. I heard that she demands to visited/get access to the royals jewelleries Room, to choose her own jewellery and tiara for her wedding. Instead of let the queen choose for her. The queen said no. She croco tears to Harry, Harry angry and promised her that sheโ€™ll get what she wants. Which unfortunately turned down by the queen. She was crying the whole night before the wedding, and wanted to cancel the nuptial. Harry and her mother had to persuade to stick to the plan. Sheโ€™s insecure, she  always feels that nobody care about her.. love to create drama n tension over small thing. She also upset, that people only loves her sister inlaw so tried to compete almost in everything.
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SUSFenix98
post Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM

Happy Meal upsized Sir?
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QUOTE(eaglefly @ Jan 17 2020, 10:00 PM)
Later your father will seduce your wife

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Stori us....
dman
post Jan 17 2020, 10:10 PM

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Dun stay with them coz once married u are the head of ur own family.

If u stay with them, u still bound to their status and can't raise ur voice bcoz its not ur own home and ur dad status still higher than u.

So get out and be the man of ur own house.

SUSeaglefly
post Jan 17 2020, 10:11 PM

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QUOTE(Fenix98 @ Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM)
Stori us....
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My father is a lonely man. Already over 60 but when my brother leave for work he leave his wife a caucasian origin muslim in house

So beautiful everone like one. Him asking her to kiss on cheek

My brother come back and know. Now he pindah rumah to kl because don't want to fight father and keep silent
SUSTheBornLoser
post Jan 17 2020, 10:18 PM

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First of all, you have to see what type of people your parents / in-laws are lar.

If your parents / in-laws are the tahi ayam type, damn effing demanding, every day demand you or your spouse submit to this or that, can only do things this way or that way.... then better not to live with them.

But damn, if you are blessed with lovely parents / in-laws like I am, you'd be very happy if they are willing to stay with you. Makan - they jaga (while healthy). Their grand-kids, they can teach and accompany (while healthy). House security - there is always someone in the house, which gives you a sense of security. Privacy may be a small issue, but not an insurmountable one.

And on a personal level, I always think that there are only so many more years an aging parent / in-law can spend with you / their grand-kids before they are indisposed. Best to utilize the time they are healthy and sound of mind to be with them for as much as possible. Of course, on the condition, once again, that they are lovely, kind, sensible people smile.gif And of course, if you have the space lar....
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post Jan 17 2020, 10:29 PM

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QUOTE(TheBornLoser @ Jan 17 2020, 10:18 PM)
First of all, you have to see what type of people your parents / in-laws are lar.

If your parents / in-laws are the tahi ayam type, damn effing demanding, every day demand you or your spouse submit to this or that, can only do things this way or that way.... then better not to live with them.

But damn, if you are blessed with lovely parents / in-laws like I am, you'd be very happy if they are willing to stay with you. Makan - they jaga (while healthy). Their grand-kids, they can teach and accompany (while healthy). House security - there is always someone in the house, which gives you a sense of security. Privacy may be a small issue, but not an insurmountable one.

And on a personal level, I always think that there are only so many more years an aging parent / in-law can spend with you / their grand-kids before they are indisposed. Best to utilize the time they are healthy and sound of mind to be with them for as much as possible. Of course, on the condition, once again, that they are lovely, kind, sensible people smile.gif And of course, if you have the space lar....
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Mel2
post Jan 17 2020, 10:34 PM

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Both my parents and parents- in-law siang-siang declared they won't help look after my kids. ๐Ÿ˜ญ
What to do?

After got married, we moved out. No money buy house tak pe, just rent... ๐Ÿ˜‚

Good thing is, I learnt to take care of my kids on my own. No split decisions. I'm the queen of the house... Wahaha... I've my way to do everything ikut my style. Have privacy lor. I sing and dance, wear hot pants or no wear bra, nobody cares ๐Ÿ˜œ. My money or jewellery can simply put anywhere convenient. I enjoy this type of freedom.... Nobody nags me. ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ๐Ÿคฃ

Another advantage is, my relationship with them is great. Seeing each other not so regularly, have so much to talk about. ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ˜‡
teutonic
post Jan 17 2020, 10:41 PM

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QUOTE(hirano @ Jan 17 2020, 09:57 PM)
2 women cant stay in 1 house.
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they either fight or they together gossip about you.
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post Jan 17 2020, 10:42 PM

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QUOTE(hirano @ Jan 17 2020, 09:57 PM)
2 women cant stay in 1 house.
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lol. how true is this.
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post Jan 17 2020, 10:57 PM

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If stay at husband parents = wife and mother got high chance of friction.

If stay at wife parents = Wife and her parents can gang up on husband.

Conclusion: short while OK, maybe 1 year max.


vassilius
post Jan 17 2020, 11:01 PM

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Better avoid staying together to reduce the conflict.
Mel2
post Jan 17 2020, 11:02 PM

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Cannot have two tigers on the same mountain..

Initially will try to tolerate...
Sometimes can work,
most of the time, cannot one.. ๐Ÿ˜‚
gingerrobot
post Jan 17 2020, 11:10 PM

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Rumah asing lerrr.. Rumah kecik pun jadi lah.. Yg penting asing..


yeezai
post Jan 18 2020, 01:20 AM

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QUOTE(Mel2 @ Jan 17 2020, 11:02 PM)
Cannot have two tigers on the same mountain..

Initially will try to tolerate...
Sometimes can work,
most of the time, cannot one.. ๐Ÿ˜‚
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Unless u conquer your sis in law mountain as well
ladytarot99
post Jan 18 2020, 01:33 AM

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QUOTE(Perfect.Stranger @ Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM)

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What?? Lol.. they got their own palace what?? Lol laugh.gif

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