Later your father will seduce your wife
Believe me happen to my brother
Married ppl come, stay with parents/in law better?
Married ppl come, stay with parents/in law better?
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Jan 17 2020, 10:00 PM
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Later your father will seduce your wife
Believe me happen to my brother |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:03 PM
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4,217 posts Joined: Jan 2003 From: Selangor |
stay in your own house is best
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Jan 17 2020, 10:03 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:04 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM
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QUOTE(ohman @ Jan 17 2020, 09:13 PM) what do you think? Share your opinion or experience please. this is what i can think of Pros: 1. have some one to take care anak. 2. not so boring ( for wife/husband ) 3. can take care orang tua 4. working can stay back late dont need to rush to bring children. Cons 1. no privacy ( for everyone ) 2. need bigger house 3. conflict between people ![]() QUOTE(ladytarot99 @ Jan 12 2020, 06:30 PM) Yes yes A day Before her wedding sheโs already created a tension. I heard that she demands to visited/get access to the royals jewelleries Room, to choose her own jewellery and tiara for her wedding. Instead of let the queen choose for her. The queen said no. She croco tears to Harry, Harry angry and promised her that sheโll get what she wants. Which unfortunately turned down by the queen. She was crying the whole night before the wedding, and wanted to cancel the nuptial. Harry and her mother had to persuade to stick to the plan. Sheโs insecure, she always feels that nobody care about her.. love to create drama n tension over small thing. She also upset, that people only loves her sister inlaw so tried to compete almost in everything. |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:10 PM
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Dun stay with them coz once married u are the head of ur own family.
If u stay with them, u still bound to their status and can't raise ur voice bcoz its not ur own home and ur dad status still higher than u. So get out and be the man of ur own house. |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:11 PM
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QUOTE(Fenix98 @ Jan 17 2020, 10:06 PM) My father is a lonely man. Already over 60 but when my brother leave for work he leave his wife a caucasian origin muslim in houseSo beautiful everone like one. Him asking her to kiss on cheek My brother come back and know. Now he pindah rumah to kl because don't want to fight father and keep silent |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:18 PM
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First of all, you have to see what type of people your parents / in-laws are lar.
If your parents / in-laws are the tahi ayam type, damn effing demanding, every day demand you or your spouse submit to this or that, can only do things this way or that way.... then better not to live with them. But damn, if you are blessed with lovely parents / in-laws like I am, you'd be very happy if they are willing to stay with you. Makan - they jaga (while healthy). Their grand-kids, they can teach and accompany (while healthy). House security - there is always someone in the house, which gives you a sense of security. Privacy may be a small issue, but not an insurmountable one. And on a personal level, I always think that there are only so many more years an aging parent / in-law can spend with you / their grand-kids before they are indisposed. Best to utilize the time they are healthy and sound of mind to be with them for as much as possible. Of course, on the condition, once again, that they are lovely, kind, sensible people |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:29 PM
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QUOTE(TheBornLoser @ Jan 17 2020, 10:18 PM) First of all, you have to see what type of people your parents / in-laws are lar. If your parents / in-laws are the tahi ayam type, damn effing demanding, every day demand you or your spouse submit to this or that, can only do things this way or that way.... then better not to live with them. But damn, if you are blessed with lovely parents / in-laws like I am, you'd be very happy if they are willing to stay with you. Makan - they jaga (while healthy). Their grand-kids, they can teach and accompany (while healthy). House security - there is always someone in the house, which gives you a sense of security. Privacy may be a small issue, but not an insurmountable one. And on a personal level, I always think that there are only so many more years an aging parent / in-law can spend with you / their grand-kids before they are indisposed. Best to utilize the time they are healthy and sound of mind to be with them for as much as possible. Of course, on the condition, once again, that they are lovely, kind, sensible people i can even feel that you are smiling while writing this. but damn your avatar is scary |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:34 PM
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Both my parents and parents- in-law siang-siang declared they won't help look after my kids. ๐ญ
What to do? After got married, we moved out. No money buy house tak pe, just rent... ๐ Good thing is, I learnt to take care of my kids on my own. No split decisions. I'm the queen of the house... Wahaha... I've my way to do everything ikut my style. Have privacy lor. I sing and dance, wear hot pants or no wear bra, nobody cares ๐. My money or jewellery can simply put anywhere convenient. I enjoy this type of freedom.... Nobody nags me. ๐คฃ๐คฃ๐คฃ Another advantage is, my relationship with them is great. Seeing each other not so regularly, have so much to talk about. ๐๐ |
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Jan 17 2020, 10:41 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:42 PM
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Jan 17 2020, 10:57 PM
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If stay at husband parents = wife and mother got high chance of friction. If stay at wife parents = Wife and her parents can gang up on husband. Conclusion: short while OK, maybe 1 year max. |
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Jan 17 2020, 11:01 PM
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Better avoid staying together to reduce the conflict.
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Jan 17 2020, 11:02 PM
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Cannot have two tigers on the same mountain..
Initially will try to tolerate... Sometimes can work, most of the time, cannot one.. ๐ |
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Jan 17 2020, 11:10 PM
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Rumah asing lerrr.. Rumah kecik pun jadi lah.. Yg penting asing..
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Jan 18 2020, 01:20 AM
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Jan 18 2020, 01:33 AM
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