what do you think? Share your opinion or experience please.

this is what i can think of


Pros:

1. have some one to take care anak.
2. not so boring ( for wife/husband )
3. can take care orang tua
4. working can stay back late dont need to rush to bring children.


Cons
1. no privacy ( for everyone )
2. need bigger house
3. conflict between people




This post has been edited by ohman: Jan 17 2020, 08:14 PM

Share household utilities, can tumpang jaga anak, Got to eat homecook after work.

I believe staying with family is the best.

Although there are more opinions from everyone, so long family is happy.

Stay on your own.

Can piap on the table, sofa, kitchen etc anytime

Buy a house next to ur parents house la. When dinner jus go to next house

Maybe short term but long term better own stay. Later xxx parent complain too noisy.

no. better rent a house.i pay rm 1300 a month double storey house.

this.. especially home cook meal.

takde duit duduk je la dulu

Stay in old folks home la..

My sis in law alwiz wear lingerie at kitchen after midnite ...hnngghhhh

Deillz o fuk off

Can, but there can only be 1 head in the house. Conflict can happen when theres 2 individual fighting over influence.

So 1 side must beralah. If u think ur ego very high and the old folks also bossy, better dont.

Naughty amerika nobody does it betta

Ive heard lots of infighting among families that practice staying together.

after married, better stay separate...not good for relationship....

2 women cant stay in 1 house.

Tolerance..your inlaw will head..
U as man cannot raise voice in ppl hse.
Everything have to jaga jaga.