But for some the kids save the marriages

So it is either he is really really bored with me or he is really cheating? I am not really sure if consulting doctor would be the best because sometimes when he really wants it, he can go really hard.

I don't think having kids to savage a relationship helps in any way as what if things turn out really ugly? I could work for some people but I do not think that would work for me though... I mean, wont all party suffer especially the kid to either lose the dad or mum if the parents were to divorce.

Another suggestion is to bring back the spark.. well okay, this might be a good idea but i don't think i will go with 3some or some fetish stuff.. or does guys actually like those things? I wouldn't mind to introduce some sex stimulants like toys or yeah maybe a little bit of enhancement supplement perhaps? Any suggestion on this?

The kid does not "save" the marriage.

The parent were forced to stay together because of the kid, despite not having anymore "love".

The kid does not "save" the marriage.

The parent were forced to stay together because of the kid, despite not having anymore "love".

Hello ladies, i need some serious opinion here. Me and my bf have been together for almost 8 years now. I believe almost every relationship also goes through the same periods ie; start with sparks & fireworks, then slowly subside, then stabilise and then here's the scary part which is getting bored/ nothing much to talk about. I think im around the stage of getting bored/ lesser things to talk with each other.

The thing is, sex is no more a regular or exciting thing. I am not sure if I did not perform so well (like the beginning of a relationship) but I am pretty sure I did my part as a gf or girl. Last time we can have it twice or even 3 times a day but now, its only once a week or not even once a week! and i freaked out that maybe he is having an affair outside???

FINALLY after a few rounds of confrontation and argument, he spilled the milk. He said he is encountering a problem with his 'brother'. He finds it difficult to stand or stand long enough to satisfy me. He only tell me about his problem after we fight and almost had a break up. Is this how guys work???? They just cannot let down their ego, be honest and open about anything? It is not like i am going to leave him if i know about his problem although this is a serious problem.. I still love him a lot though but im afraid what if next time he is still good with his ego and hide things from me?

do you ladies have this 'guy ego' problem too?

I think this is normal la.
I have a friend, had sex almost everyday when they first together, and after few months, they didn't have that regular and later on, not even once a month. But they still live happily ever.

For your case, it is ego problem for not letting you know but it is very normal for a guy. After he split out, now you should try to understand him.

BTW, 3 times a day, i think a normal guy's little brother would not be able to stand for 3 days after that battle.

maybe u can encourage him to starting taking supplement like candy b or vimax. and yeah some cosplay to spark up a bit.

anyway does your bf love playing pool or snooker ?

The kid does not "save" the marriage.

The parent were forced to stay together because of the kid, despite not having anymore "love".

8 years relationship? That's a bit too long. Even marriage stale before reaching that long.

As for sex though, I don't think you should force yourself and think negatively. Men loves to fuck at first, regardless of quality. However, that will change. It's not about quantity, but quality.

For quality wise... I think i have kept myself quite fit with regular kegel exercises... and quite flexible in terms of sex. Is there anything that men won't get bored with?

would the supplement help?    would it trigger his 'ego' more by making him feeling kinda 'useless' that he need to take those supplement

I think this is normal la.
I have a friend, had sex almost everyday when they first together, and after few months, they didn't have that regular and later on, not even once a month. But they still live happily ever.

For your case, it is ego problem for not letting you know but it is very normal for a guy. After he split out, now you should try to understand him.

BTW, 3 times a day, i think a normal guy's little brother would not be able to stand for 3 days after that battle.