i have seen gold diggers before...but this one is super obvious since the start
good thing for you as you can cut ties earlier in the game
My Experience Dating a Gold Digger
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 Sep 3 2018, 03:40 PM
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Sep 3 2018, 05:56 PM
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QUOTE(tidak kisah @ Sep 3 2018, 05:55 PM) because bitter that the girl dowan him because he is poor Wah dino buat new dupe to reply this tered. Need like that meh?  |
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Sep 3 2018, 06:01 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:22 PM) Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place. and not some people who only see her as a gold digger... |
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Sep 3 2018, 06:48 PM
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gold digger must pretty. i know one who keep changing BF.
the one you date i think not pretty enough |
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Sep 4 2018, 05:20 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:47 PM) I forgot to add something. Another friend actually went for this girl. He sends her flowers and she said to him: "Instead of giving me flowers, why not give me cash?" She must be a damn hot spicy chick. But this guy came from money, so he has the cash to pour all over her. Went on a trip to Japan, Australia, Hawaii, and Europe. When I talked to my friend, she never even take out a cent. Even when renewing her passport. She expects my friend to fork it all up. So finally they broke up when they got into an argument over her never even paid for a restaurant for a measly RM75 on some western food. I asked him what's his damage. His pocket burned RM125,000. Damn, with that money can even buy a full Honda Civic now.  |
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Sep 4 2018, 05:42 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:22 PM) Hey guys, just wanting to share my experience here. First of all, I know that she's a gold digger and willingly to date this particular girl knowing the outcome. Basically like my friend said, trying dating one for experience and boy he is right. kecian after spending close to 1k not a single piap u got from herThe first date, I get to choose where to eat so I took her out to Chili's and she ordered one of the most expensive items on the menu. I know I was getting into and got some cash to burn (not that I'm rich, mind you but just for the purpose of this experience). Pocket burn: RM250 The second date we went out, she suggested we go to some high-end French (or Spanish? I don't remember) restaurant where she ordered some old wine (which I have no idea). Pocket burn RM450 By the third date, I tried taking control of asking her to go to a food court. I can see it in her face that she repulsed by it. Having no choice, she followed. Pocket burn RM50. On the fourth date, she wanted to go to some Japanese restaurant. And the ones she chose ain't cheap either. Pocket burn RM150. After the fourth date, we held hands and had a walk on the beach. She asked me what are my plans. Told her I wanted to date her and perhaps marry her in the future. It all went lovey-dovey and then suddenly she asked me how much I have in savings for marriage? I told her I got only 10K of saving ever since I worked 5 years ago. I can immediately see her reaction saying that she's not feeling that well and ask me to send her home. Home it is. After that, she never even call. I never even bothered to call first. Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place. |
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Sep 4 2018, 05:45 PM
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good story i have been reading today
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Sep 4 2018, 06:44 PM
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Did your friend who spend rm125k get to piap her
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Sep 4 2018, 07:19 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:22 PM) Hey guys, just wanting to share my experience here. First of all, I know that she's a gold digger and willingly to date this particular girl knowing the outcome. Basically like my friend said, trying dating one for experience and boy he is right. You only lose about like.... 1k outta 4 dates? The first date, I get to choose where to eat so I took her out to Chili's and she ordered one of the most expensive items on the menu. I know I was getting into and got some cash to burn (not that I'm rich, mind you but just for the purpose of this experience). Pocket burn: RM250 The second date we went out, she suggested we go to some high-end French (or Spanish? I don't remember) restaurant where she ordered some old wine (which I have no idea). Pocket burn RM450 By the third date, I tried taking control of asking her to go to a food court. I can see it in her face that she repulsed by it. Having no choice, she followed. Pocket burn RM50. On the fourth date, she wanted to go to some Japanese restaurant. And the ones she chose ain't cheap either. Pocket burn RM150. After the fourth date, we held hands and had a walk on the beach. She asked me what are my plans. Told her I wanted to date her and perhaps marry her in the future. It all went lovey-dovey and then suddenly she asked me how much I have in savings for marriage? I told her I got only 10K of saving ever since I worked 5 years ago. I can immediately see her reaction saying that she's not feeling that well and ask me to send her home. Home it is. After that, she never even call. I never even bothered to call first. Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place. Why still so affected by it? She has clearly moved on and so have you. |
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Sep 4 2018, 09:52 PM
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She ain’t no gold digger. Real gold digger bangs no broke nigga. What’s more marrying one.
Don’t really know what’s the point of this thread. P.S. many years ago and still remember so well how much does the date cost. It’s either the 1k is a lot to you or u married the girl after her. |
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Sep 5 2018, 12:28 AM
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i support you TS.
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Sep 5 2018, 01:38 AM
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QUOTE(cfa28 @ Sep 4 2018, 06:44 PM) Did your friend who spend rm125k get to piap her my condolence to someone who spent that fortune.....and no ROI.if that just 10% of my annual income then its fine for fun. |
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Sep 5 2018, 11:02 AM
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how to know a women only want free meal
- women suggest a high end place - ask the women to pay this time since all this while the one paying is you - women suddenly u-turn and choose much cheaper place |
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Sep 7 2018, 12:39 PM
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Hah, I don't know why the negative aspect saying that I should move on, or I was a poor man. Like I said, this is an experience only. I've moved on, and so did she. But the experience here is valuable to me and I decided to share. Sigh, sad to say probably won't be sharing much since there are so many people who hated this kind of story.
Maybe I came to this all wrong. |
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Sep 7 2018, 02:46 PM
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luckily you not dating her during her bday month! Otherwise you need to burn another 20k for chanel bag.....
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Sep 7 2018, 02:57 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:22 PM) Hey guys, just wanting to share my experience here. First of all, I know that she's a gold digger and willingly to date this particular girl knowing the outcome. Basically like my friend said, trying dating one for experience and boy he is right. how 900 in 4 meals can be declared as gold digger? The first date, I get to choose where to eat so I took her out to Chili's and she ordered one of the most expensive items on the menu. I know I was getting into and got some cash to burn (not that I'm rich, mind you but just for the purpose of this experience). Pocket burn: RM250 The second date we went out, she suggested we go to some high-end French (or Spanish? I don't remember) restaurant where she ordered some old wine (which I have no idea). Pocket burn RM450 By the third date, I tried taking control of asking her to go to a food court. I can see it in her face that she repulsed by it. Having no choice, she followed. Pocket burn RM50. On the fourth date, she wanted to go to some Japanese restaurant. And the ones she chose ain't cheap either. Pocket burn RM150. After the fourth date, we held hands and had a walk on the beach. She asked me what are my plans. Told her I wanted to date her and perhaps marry her in the future. It all went lovey-dovey and then suddenly she asked me how much I have in savings for marriage? I told her I got only 10K of saving ever since I worked 5 years ago. I can immediately see her reaction saying that she's not feeling that well and ask me to send her home. Home it is. After that, she never even call. I never even bothered to call first. Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place. seriously, if i heard you said you got plan for marriage yet you stated you just have 10k of saving, my reaction also will change as you are just dreaming the truth is that on that particular time, she notice that you are bull-shitting him gold digger don't act that way, it just that you think your 900 is too big for dating a girl |
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Sep 8 2018, 08:30 PM
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QUOTE(aemon @ Sep 3 2018, 02:22 PM) Hey guys, just wanting to share my experience here. First of all, I know that she's a gold digger and willingly to date this particular girl knowing the outcome. Basically like my friend said, trying dating one for experience and boy he is right. You’re one hell of a gentleman to mock a lady when she’s down yeah? As a married man you would bring up this so called “experience” so many years later? Does your wife / children know that you’re spending time on the Internet berating someone’s husband’s income?The first date, I get to choose where to eat so I took her out to Chili's and she ordered one of the most expensive items on the menu. I know I was getting into and got some cash to burn (not that I'm rich, mind you but just for the purpose of this experience). Pocket burn: RM250 The second date we went out, she suggested we go to some high-end French (or Spanish? I don't remember) restaurant where she ordered some old wine (which I have no idea). Pocket burn RM450 By the third date, I tried taking control of asking her to go to a food court. I can see it in her face that she repulsed by it. Having no choice, she followed. Pocket burn RM50. On the fourth date, she wanted to go to some Japanese restaurant. And the ones she chose ain't cheap either. Pocket burn RM150. After the fourth date, we held hands and had a walk on the beach. She asked me what are my plans. Told her I wanted to date her and perhaps marry her in the future. It all went lovey-dovey and then suddenly she asked me how much I have in savings for marriage? I told her I got only 10K of saving ever since I worked 5 years ago. I can immediately see her reaction saying that she's not feeling that well and ask me to send her home. Home it is. After that, she never even call. I never even bothered to call first. Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place. If her husband earns 2.5k and I’m guessing she earns around the same then anyone can guess your income range because you guys live in the same apartment.. man, at that price point I would say it’s pretty low cost for KL so there’re a really nothing to be proud about, even with joint income. Must really feel manly to bring up your spends at chillis and all those mid range eateries YEARS ago. Embarrassing. |
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Sep 9 2018, 11:32 AM
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QUOTE(blossom_peach @ Sep 3 2018, 06:27 AM) i dont think it is wise to call someone a gold digger just because her lifestyle is different.. So in your opinion....what constitute a gold digger?i truly and sincerely believe you have your part to play, because, you created the precedent.. so both of you, didnt manage each other expectation. |
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Sep 9 2018, 01:01 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story
Some people only cares about money, obviously cause money matters and caused many ppl fall into money trap so easily. Just feel sorry for her..money is an infinite material. No matter how much u chase it, there wont be a stop/satisfaction. Plus, happiness from money is like an illusion, or drugs. It gets u super high feeling and u get addicted to it. |
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Sep 12 2018, 10:33 AM
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QUOTE(skylee18 @ Sep 7 2018, 02:57 PM) how 900 in 4 meals can be declared as gold digger? back 15 years back i date my ex gf (currently is my wife), think i spend less than RM50 for 4 dates meal... even lunch meal i buy together with her is like RM6 for 2 mixed rice box. Only time i will really spend is birthday meals. I consider very lucky that my partner doesn't mind how i spend on her... and of course i pay most the meals, at times she will pay at her own will. seriously, if i heard you said you got plan for marriage yet you stated you just have 10k of saving, my reaction also will change as you are just dreaming the truth is that on that particular time, she notice that you are bull-shitting him gold digger don't act that way, it just that you think your 900 is too big for dating a girl ** i never buy flower gift to her thru out my relationship  This post has been edited by cycheah: Sep 12 2018, 11:22 AM |
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