Hey guys, just wanting to share my experience here. First of all, I know that she's a gold digger and willingly to date this particular girl knowing the outcome. Basically like my friend said, trying dating one for experience and boy he is right.

The first date, I get to choose where to eat so I took her out to Chili's and she ordered one of the most expensive items on the menu. I know I was getting into and got some cash to burn (not that I'm rich, mind you but just for the purpose of this experience). Pocket burn: RM250

The second date we went out, she suggested we go to some high-end French (or Spanish? I don't remember) restaurant where she ordered some old wine (which I have no idea). Pocket burn RM450

By the third date, I tried taking control of asking her to go to a food court. I can see it in her face that she repulsed by it. Having no choice, she followed. Pocket burn RM50.

On the fourth date, she wanted to go to some Japanese restaurant. And the ones she chose ain't cheap either. Pocket burn RM150.

After the fourth date, we held hands and had a walk on the beach. She asked me what are my plans. Told her I wanted to date her and perhaps marry her in the future. It all went lovey-dovey and then suddenly she asked me how much I have in savings for marriage?

I told her I got only 10K of saving ever since I worked 5 years ago.

I can immediately see her reaction saying that she's not feeling that well and ask me to send her home. Home it is.

After that, she never even call. I never even bothered to call first.

Years later after I got married, I found out that she bought the same apartment as mine, just that its a different tower. Surprise surprise found out from my friend said that the husband that she married to earns less than RM2.5k per month and she had to ration her spending to RM5 for lunch per day in order to afford that place.

back 15 years back i date my ex gf (currently is my wife), think i spend less than RM50 for 4 dates meal...  even lunch meal i buy together with her is like RM6 for 2 mixed rice box. Only time i will really spend is birthday meals. I consider very lucky that my partner doesn't mind how i spend on her... and of course i pay most the meals, at times she will pay at her own will.

** i never buy flower gift to her thru out my relationship

triggered? nothing is triggered. It's just sharing only. both are lady but different expectation, why choose a lady who spend more when u still can choose other lady who are more efficient in spending money? my wife is beautiful to me is enough.  i don't need model kinda face and good in bed just to make other guy feel jealous or admire. Money i saved for investment, bought a house, renovation/ repairs, marriage, vacation...

  and yea... 15 years back, like our grandparent or great grandparent, i dont even have car, go dating we walk or take public transport. Nowadays which girl wanna walk with you under the sun and take public transport?  there are times we walk from sunway pyramid back to USJ