U sendiri want to jemput the guest, the guest are not obligated to pay u to cover ur wedding expenses.

If you need others to cover your expenses, U shouldn't get married at all

Nowadays normal chinese restaurant rm1500 per table yo hahahha

I hope more of this happen. Guest are not obliged to subsidise ur wedding dinner cost.

U give people angpow is different case, i also do that when i attend wedding.

But i cannot digest people throw wedding party but expect guest to cover the expenses... niama even if u really expect also, keep it in heart la
Don't say that out.
It reflects who you really are.

Here comes the legendary basher.

Shot fired! Ini tembak pakai ak47?

all 15 were from the same person. total rm150.

Honestly, I also feel ashamed giving RM300 only. Sad truth.

A famous lawyer once told me, you are who you mixed with. If TS is a kiamsiap person, you have kiamsiap relatives and friends.

Lain kali buat kenduri like malay. 1 kepala just RM20.
So they come with RM10 also didnt feel the sting.

Ini nak makan banyak2 serve in hotel with many courses mau tunjuk kaya.
But when got RM10 angpau sakit sebab already habis duit bayar for the show.

Bila marah kata budaya.
Adoi.

Terasa ke? pasti lah arang tu you. hahahahahaha

U lah yang terasa

Siap buat dupe bagai, i just mention the obvious thing here many /k agree with that ur sharing of info is stupid

Top kek

Buat dupe account just to reply to the tered

Siapa butthurt sape?

Wahahahahahhahahaha

Bongok

Takut pakai real account

ptuik

not acceptable at all.

I give 180 and eat 1 meal per day for entire month. Pray hrad that fren weddin is once in a lifetime only.

Dafuq who necro last year thread

This post has been edited by party: Jun 18 2019, 12:40 PM

My colleague wedding, malay, buat kenduri, he told me, relative bring 5 anak just give rm 10... how ah..? but you are right people should start doing kenduri. cheaper.

Kid makan sikit je. And the tradition say, we do kenduri to feed people, to announce wedding and let the village know that these 2 ppl already married.
So if 5 kids can enjoy themselves eating the kenduri food, let them. And we tapao summore door gift.

You want ppl to come
You want ppl give face
Ppl didn't no look up you
Or ppl think you're too rich enough
How much inside by tradition should not matter
Just like the angpau you receive during cny for any occasion
Ppl bagi you is beri you muka
You as the receiver has no rights to complain for receiving something for free even if it's 10 sen

If you really want receive big m9ney
Ask yourself what kind of a person you are first
If you are not a smart ass and generally a nice person ACCORDING to others, ppl will show their appreciation for you.

If you receive too little, then best ask yourself why kinda jibai face you are in everyday dealing with the society.

Jibai macam jibai kid crying foul for receiving Christmas present.

In short 你誰，給你醬多，幹琳啊

it's a bit cheapskate but this entitlement attitude/cultural is just wrong nowadays.

this is the problem.
you force people to go ur wedding dinner by sending the invitation.
indirectly forcing people go see you happy and fashion show.

some family really in bad shape or financial problem.

I think next time guest also should be calculative.
Take out calculator and check prices of each dish and also portion that they ate and calculate from there.
And then just throw the cash infront of them since they so desperate.