no face like that

be grateful ... bercukur

Lol. When u invite people for your wedding, might as well write big big on the invitation card "Ready angpau rm100 minimum or don't reply to the RSVP". Ok? Do it.

No money do it cheap then. My fishing village friend, not the rich fisherman son,, do it buffet style only. Don't even tries to collect ang pow. People just give whatever they want. Don't even have name written on the ang pow.

What happened to just plain sharing your happy day with your friends and family?

Maybe those angpows were from not so close friends who didn't attend the dinner. Bersangka baik lah.

Deswai Malay wedding host will order extra about 1.5k pax of food. Invite 1k people but order food for 2.5k pax.
Tak habis then pack in small plastic bags give to neighbors

Why not ? The term is RSVP, not pay if you fuckin don't come.

I think cunts who expect people to pay after declining invitation should go burn in hell.

This again

If all his guests are loaded then yes there are 15 assholes in his party

But if there are some there who are poor then they probably only give what they can afford. This is common especially with poor elderly widows invited to wedding dinners

agree

its like not sincere want invite ppl eat, expect ppl pay it back, if like that dont invite me if u want me to pay my meal

Pay food you going to eat.... didt'n eat sendiri rugi, so eat as much as possible.

Don't just say it like Chinese only pay for Chinese wedding la..

I got invite for kenduri kahwin from my malay colleague I tapao angpow RM100 to them also. It's a sign of me trying to help ease the budget of the kenduri. ( kinda like people gotong royong help the kenduri ). It's cultural difference only.

But when pipul like TS go bitching about pipul give angpow RM10, this one if can I minta refund then pui on their face. This type of pipul don't earn my respect.

if you expect, guest that come give you angpao as the per pax dinner or more. dont invite.
you can ask them first via FB, oi i getting married your angpao more than RM100 or not? if not no need to come.

lots of people butt hurt about DAP here

its a DAP wedding man. u come, you pay. you dont come or cant pay, ur BN.

This post has been edited by Nachiino Etamay: Feb 7 2018, 03:41 PM

so its like
RM10 = can't feel blessing
RM100 = can feel blessing

for me its simple, its either you give with sincerity amount or might as well don't give

things got quite simple, people that don't willing to give angpow or not willing to give certain amount of angpow can just pre-notify the bride that you are not able to attend due to "creative excuses" but yet when you committed into it and still so attached with the angpow then what for?

my emotion would not be that angry for seeing "Nothing given" to "RM10" angpow

its ridiculous and make no sense at all

lol

Let's put it this way.
There are 2 concepts on chinese wedding.

1. Just by showing up at the wedding, means the guest "give face" to the host
2. Host dont care you come or not, the most important thing is angpao must come.

Now, the first concept don't work anymore. Chinese now don;t really care. Most old people will look on face, but newer generation of chinese now demands money and face.

So, the more you give, the better your relationship to the host? Don't be naive. We are all human, and we are hypocrite. Relationship are not quantified by monetary, but rather emotion. And if just RM10 can cause the host to complain, you can expect that the host don;t even give a shit about the relationship with the guest.

And trust me, the host are hoping to earn as much as possible on the wedding to either pay back the money they owe due to how they spend on the wedding, or they plan to make a profit on this.

And yes, of course, we are not talking about rich people here. We are talking about middle class chinese.

I read all these replies here about bride and groom needing to see the economy, people's income and even blame on the groom or bride not choosing wisely.

First of all, Yes, if you are being invited through anymeans you are important. If you chose not to reply or go. it is your loss. Just so you know people have to plan who to invite and that alone takes effort. and even know your attitude unless you are a freaking plus one. so they might already know you will give rm 10.


2nd, what can you really buy nw at RM 10??? Yes even KFC & MCD cost more than 10. So figure out yourselves.

Furthermore.... people who are invited are definitely accounted for (income). please understand, and know this, all bride and groom expected to bear all cost even if guest dont pay. But you are important that is why you are invited.

And there are always those who asked to be invited and dont pay anything.(IS ACCOUNTED FOR)

So for those of you who said whatsapp, or snapchatt are not formal enough... then think again why should they invite someone who might even give rm 10 and then still expects a formal invitation and cards etc. IT IS A NO BRAINER. OMG.

Dear guests, all of you should know, they are kind enough to call you and bear all cost even if you dont pay. end of the day. i think they can rant a lil is not wrong.

After all there are still people who blame them. So... i truly hope no one treats you as how you mentioned here. Because you definitely did not respect the couple and yourself. Thank God this is a private non real account people can recognize you. if you so happen to be my friend, i will definitely not go to your wedding as well.

PS. RM 10...

Dah la register today

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Haram jadah

no money , dont merid