Lately found out malay girl.is.attractive anyone here have any idea where can I know more malay gurls

As a malay girl I find chinese guys are so damn attractive. I even confessed to one last year but he rejected me lol hahaha.

My friends said if I don’t wear tudung he definitely will date me. So i guess tudung is a turn off haha

Anyway about where to find malay girls I think around your circle? If online I don’t really know

malay girls are better than chinese girls in many ways
fell for a malay girl before
we like each other
but stop as we both know we cannot break the religious barrier

This is true they are more sincere n loyal than chinese girl.they dun t care whether u got money or not unlike chinese girl most r materialistic no milkney no honey

not all chinese gals r materialistic....

yes not all but mostly

got one malay girl confessed to me before, sorry ya, my family sure cannot accept one

personally, yes, malay girls are indeed attractive for those above average wan... personality definitely better than cainis girl.

Can elaborate more ah

True. A lot of cainis girls are shallow bimbos who only care about looking glam.

That said, there are also melayu girls who are like that.

Women are the same regardless of skin colour. On the surface you think that Malay women are better. Chinese women might be outspoken and Malay women are more reserved and polite due to their upbringing.

You need to dig deeper to get a better understanding of women.

Malay girls are attractive, but too bad most of chinese parents dont really like it. I fall for 2-3 malay girls before. damn sporting and friendly, heck they even speak bttr english than ah lians.

Now, can just sightseeing but cannot pikat jadi istri

Me too a fan of malay girl..but because of religion always maintained distance with them..from my 20 years observation:
Pluses
-soft spoken and respects bf/ husband even they are more educated than the guy(relates to religious upbringing)
- good physique
- wild ( can be a disadvantage if you cant match them)
Minus
- tend to get over friendly with guys even after married
- high probability of having affairs if you cant satisfy her physical and emotional needs

This post has been edited by youngblood29us: Jan 21 2018, 07:21 AM

Most of the malay girls I met is so easy to approach. Don't know why I still can't find such Chinese girls? Til today fed up with their jual mahal attitude.

Im a product of the mix, my grandma has Nyonya heritage and I'm proud of it. Those days people are people, can mix, fall in love - just proceed lah. Nowadays religion gets in the way, what a pity.

Ur fren probably dunno this

What turn away Chinese guy from Malay gul is the convert thingy
Tudung not the major reason

Trust me...

This post has been edited by Lyu: Jan 21 2018, 04:56 PM

U have forgotten who is mo1 wife...

without religion restriction, please go ahead

This is so true... too bad, religions barrier for chinese guys and malay girls

Don't think so, still consider own Chinese girl is the best

Mostly not all the Chinese girls are materialistic, don't generalize it with your prejudice

yeah this one is true. malay girl easy to spoke and get along. trust me if there is no religious barrier. I bet a lot Chinese man already married with Malay girl.

yup. like you say la. not all. but mostly not easy to get along.

agreed

I don t think tats possible

Yes religious barrier is a big issue but I think its blown out or proportion due to our fear of being ostracised and rejected by own community and the fear of losing own identity.

But what i can see outta the chinese who married a malay wife is having a good life generally. The malay wife generally accomodate the husband n even tolerate some of his preIslamic habits like eating p**k once in a while, drinking beer and observing traditional culture like cny or funeral. Its not the right thing but we all are human. Some will look past this.

Before u jump into this ocean of uncertainty, just consider the bigger picture. Do u see urself staying and dying in this land? Do you foresee you and your descendants will settle here for long after your death?

If no, dont go for this route at all costs. If yes, the big loss is more of an imaginary one, imho. We chinese have been losing our so called "chinese distinctiveness" generation by generation. Im not as chinese as my chinese immigrant ancestor and starting absorbing my surrounding culture bit by bit.

One day im not surprised if all or most of us are assimilated into the local culture much like our baba nyonya counterpart as time goes. So if u think ur true love is a malay muslim and decided this is ur home, does it make that big of fuzz if u decide to marry her and accelerate the process?

unless you guys marry elsewhere...but what are the possibilities on that?

Meanwhile Malay/Indian targeting amois, while Indian gurls only left to Indians

wanna go on a date? i'm cina guy no mind tudung girl

Tan Weng go live in a farm or kampung area outskirts of city plenty of Malay girls. Malay girls ride their bikes at night.

What my parents have said if you are a man marrying a Chinese girl is fine but when a Chinese man marry a Malay girl you will be sacrificing your family name or your generation. So as one said above is worth to sacrifice all that and willing die in this land?

I don t know ride bike haha

Need to sacrifice family name & generation is so wrong la. It’s a misunderstanding. U see, when a chinese wanna marry a malay muslim he/she convert to islam, not convert to malay. U think those cina muslim in China have malay names ke? No laa. They all live happily with chinese names. No need to sacrifice tradition also. But when become a muslim need to follow what islam says la. Not what malay says. There r huge differences between malay & islam

U a guy ke? Hahaha

would like to ask. if chinese guy holding malay girl hand at public, will police tangkap? both are gf & bf relationship.

Idk why so many people r freaking out about the so called race distinctiveness. It happens in all races i believe. But if any on us do the genetic testing, for sure there r more than 3 races running in our blood. We are not literally what we claim we are. We are more than that.

Hahhaa no la. Malay-malay also hold hand in public

that's why i want to know because Islam got many rules that i dont understand haha
how about kissing lip to lip at the public?

I thinkvtat want cannot scare kids learn fr adults haha

I have many friends that marry to Malay. His address name is in bin. We talking about in Malaysia. In other country you don't need to change your name but in Malaysia you need.

Why you are in Malaysia talking about China? Are u planning to move to China to marry?

Then your friends either DIDNT KNOW or they willingly want an Arab name.

My wife is Teochew, she changed NOTHING except her religion.

Our JAWI marriage cert has her CINA name on it. During nikah, the kadi pronounced the akad using her CINA name.

Changing to an Arab name is not a requirement. Nowhere in the Koran or hadis does it say when masuk Islam die-die must hv Arab name.

This part ramai orang kena tipu.

There is actually no rule about changing name. No need to change name pun. Maybe they changed simply because they want. I know many converted chinese in malaysia who never changed name. They even put the family name like Lee in their kids name. No sin no wrong no fault at all.

I talk about the China bcs same thing applied to Malaysia. You chinese wanna become muslim & marry a muslim be it chinese muslim/indian muslim/malay muslim, it’s never stated in the law of Malaysia or even by Islam that you are obligated to change the name. Unless your name has bad meaning, then u may change into whatever name you want in whatever language you want as long as it has good meaning. Just simply like that.

It is misunderstanding that ppl who want to convert need to sacrifice their family name.

In Islam if you’re not married then you cannot touch each other. But some people do it anyway eventho it’s wrong. So if they do it then got sin la. Have many sins then masuk neraka in hereafter if they don’t repent.

About the police (I’m sure you mean the JAIS) they catch those who berdua-duan (means they’re in a place eg; room/house where only both of them there). Usually like that.

If you kiss mouth to mouth in public JAIS probably won’t catch you but it’s still a wrong thing to do for a muslim

Totally agreed with this!

There is absolutely nothing special abt dating Muslims. They're just people, like everyone else.

The only requirement is that you use your common sense & powers of observation.

In plain language, don't be a dick.

If you go suck her tongue in a crowded LRT station, you will surely kena sound lah regardless whether she's Malay, Cina, India atau lain-lain... and it has nothing to do with religion.

See Love Classified, maybe?

Unluckily in Malaysia, if you converted to Islam or originally Islam, you can't change your religion.

Kissing in public is seen as immoral act no matter what your religion is. That is our Malaysian society.

Ah, Malay girls are probably my Kryptonite. Dated one, loved her but religious barriers ended it.

It's funny, a Malay girl once told me that they actually like Chinese guys. Her generalization was damn funny:
"Malay girls like Chinese guys! You people smell like responsibility and good financial sense!" xD

is it so far i haven t heard malay girl like chinese guy heard they like korea like big bang g dragon saw many malay girl craze for korea artist. i remember my ex colleagur malay girl say they want kahwin korea guy

Hahaha, well, the woman who said that was from the pre-KPop time wan.
Now ah? KPop craze, I don't understand at all. No offence to the artists, but men are supposed to look like they can handle themselves in combat, not snap in two if you sneeze hard at them.

maybe they think k pop handsome

ok ah ada thread boleh bincang n give suggestion n comment

Sure la baby

how about potong ? Izzit nessesary ... if Tak nak Potong how ??

I think no potong cannot together

Ini lagi satu bab yg ramai orang asyik kena tipu.

Come on, lemme see you use your head... if die-die must potong, tell me who's going to check and enforce this? Got dick police meh?

Tudung is not a turn off, i feel tudung more sexy, more mysterious

Its about the religious barrier, not the clothing

Tipu, where got gdragon look alike here? I never found anyone close to his look..

Tudung with body cutting Baju Kurung always turn me on, not Tudung with fit t shirt with jeans.

1. make more friends
2. open ur mouth more.
3. brush up ur language skill. english is a must, malay is a plus.

IMO just go out and make more friends, no specific place or anything

There is no need to change name, even for offspring.

ok noted

Too bad this stereotype or previous wrong doings, is still continuously being propagated, not just by non-muslim, but also by muslim alike too.

Kinda hard to go by, when even malay ask me, why you want to be "bin abdullah"?

All of this, just make it hard for my family to accept.... as it actually meant loosing a son to them.

Guess what my parents will say, when I am Chinese married another Chinese wanted to become a muslim

oh

i wanna date u..may i?

Lol what

This is so misleading

Theres no law required you to change name if you change your religion to muslim.

Most that change are done so willingly for whatever reason like government benefits and so on.

I tend to agree.

Most Malays are cocooned inside the system set by local customs and the local understanding of the religion and it's a massive handicap. For example, this hoo-haa about having an 'Islamic name'. There is simply no such thing as an 'Islamic name' - what the local Malays define as 'Islamic names' are actually either Arab names, Malay names, Indian names or Angmoh names.

The prophet himself was named Muhammad BEFORE Islam even officially existed (he didn't become a prophet until he was in his 40s). So that's an Arab name. He was raised by his uncle Abu Talib - and that's not an Islamic name either, because he was a non-Muslim at the time. That too is an Arab name.

Too many people are unable to distinguish between culture, race and religion. They get confused when they meet Arab people with 'Islamic names' but who are non-Muslims.

I was wondering, do you guys like brown/ tanned skin women ?

Got brown skin ?

I think Malay women are more expressive of their interest towards men they like. That explains why men like this directness and find it attractive. It is beyond the first attraction that men need to consider.

Sawo matang i guess

If you're interested in chinese looking malays, I'm available

so,ayam got update ?

My friend is malay but she dates chinese guys. She's the clingy type and also moves very fast in relationship. Sometimes I get worried, have to remind her that guys only want to get in her pants.

You missed the train tho, she's seeing someone right now and shes only seeing one person at a time.

Malay girls are everywhere... xD
But i never see chinese guy courting them.

religion barrier is the problem to be honest yeah ,otherwise i too will pikat them kao kao. Sometimes people don't change because of family inheritance and culture responsibilities.Relatives all don't want to take their initiative to proceed maintain the Chinese culture and straight convert to Christianity(fanatic type ).In this case ,ayam the best example

Got one friend married a chinese guy and so far could see that both families are okay with it. Rare but possible

Actually only malaysian chinese.
At least the chinese from china/taiwan don't give out these vibe.
Or perhaps they respect you enough to hide their own agenda.
My friend's gf just "hint" him for iphonex last month. lul

Iphone xcostabt 4-5k don t twll me yr friend gonna buy tat phone oh

Of course not, he's so damn anjing.
He is dating another china girl at the same time, going to ditch her anyway.
That's why he print screen and we have a laugh.
China girl: openly admit she went to club and actually did reduce the frequency of visit.
Malaysia girl: act innocent and said she never went to club but kantoi by my friend's friend.

Wah yr friend very hamsap got one alrdy stil not enough .girls go clubbing normally got chance they do one night stand better find malay girl

Dude, if u wanna find those with similarities and doesnt need to convert, those sabah sarawak native are the choices and prettier.

yes, agree

Malay girls are much more sensual

but must stay at there le otherwise cannot

Isnt it worth.

My dad 's ex was a sarawakian and damn preety macam ekin cheng's wife .Of course is a cheena but still i am impress la with east malaysian girls preety macam apa only ,After all i stay at Penang ,got fiber optic connection like Time i cannot haha.

Back to topic :Tbh if there no concern about religion good also but soon or later also got people kacau ,people like me i always concern about my parents punya kubur and stuff like ancestral praying in future ,how many are there for these diff religion woman to help their husband to clean every festival occasion like Qing Ming .Different religion ,what matters ,are they willing to help you take care of this ?

u can just install dating app.. u can find malay, chinese an indian girls

Agreed. If not becoz of religion barrier, even I would have dated Malay girls

- Change name (Nobody will care, go eat at Bak Kut Teh shop nobody will look at you)
- Change religion (Nobody will care, u pray no pray who'll will look at you)
- Potong? (Come on la everybody knows we only use that as sarcasm)


My only concern is got alot of things I want to do is consider haram for Islam, eat pork drink alcohol. CNY don't tell me I have to stop eating Bak Gwa? No pork ribs? No dim sum? No way man.

Oh the other one as I know is your kids no choice have to follow back the Islam religion. They won't have freedom of choice. You can bet ur Malay waifu would encourage them kids to takeup Islam instead of giving them a freedom of choice.

Only way to have free headache from all of this is to have the super modern Malay chick that does not enforce her religion onto you and ur kids and then move out from malaysia and marry there, so you don't have stupid issues like jais come knocking ur down

p.s Almost forgotten to mention, u can forget about hanging out together with ur gf/waifu together at bak kut teh shop, clubbing places drinking alcoholic drinks together not forgetting CNY festival with friends and relatives. Oh the CNY gambling part too.

This post has been edited by ZNS: Feb 25 2018, 04:47 AM

Alrdy try very hard to.find man

Me too. So any malay girl here wanna be friend? PM me

I have a few chinese friends, i think u need to be honest with Malay gals. No need to rush and its take time to be a friend.

alrdy try but still cant find

no need liao. if jabatan agama say must change name, just say want keep own name. as long as name not register with jpn, chinese/indian/any race name still valid. the valid name is the one registered in jpn. other name not valid.

just go jpn to register new religion only can d.

also in islam, not compulsory change name to arabic. dunno la wy pipu so strict much change name to arabic. arab =/= islam.

This post has been edited by Invince_Z: Feb 27 2018, 04:20 AM

circumcised is there to ensure the cleanliness after pee. if no circumcised, need to really clean the inside of extended skin. rather than all the hassle, better circumcised, but see doc for advice 1st.

This post has been edited by Invince_Z: Feb 27 2018, 04:38 AM

Tudung isn't the turn off point, it is the conversion policy.

Trust me I been there.

YES many also think because of tat

I though malay girl most are not so open

i think la malay girl in malaysia is less ambitious and more dependant

i only see a few that can attract me in term of how they think. Look, physique and status come later.

If they are good at planning, we can empower each other, less reliant, open minded then i wont really care. Its a lot to do how they were raised in their family. English educated malay usually can attract me.