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kissella
post Jan 20 2018, 12:11 AM

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As a malay girl I find chinese guys are so damn attractive. I even confessed to one last year but he rejected me lol hahaha.

My friends said if I don’t wear tudung he definitely will date me. So i guess tudung is a turn off haha

Anyway about where to find malay girls I think around your circle? If online I don’t really know
kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 04:31 PM

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QUOTE(Theoutspokenguy @ Jan 27 2018, 09:35 AM)
What my parents have said if you are a man marrying a Chinese girl is fine but when a Chinese man marry a Malay girl you will be sacrificing your family name or your generation. So as one said above is worth to sacrifice all that and willing die in this land?
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Need to sacrifice family name & generation is so wrong la. It’s a misunderstanding. U see, when a chinese wanna marry a malay muslim he/she convert to islam, not convert to malay. U think those cina muslim in China have malay names ke? No laa. They all live happily with chinese names. No need to sacrifice tradition also. But when become a muslim need to follow what islam says la. Not what malay says. There r huge differences between malay & islam
kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 04:33 PM

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QUOTE(happy4ever @ Jan 27 2018, 04:47 AM)
wanna go on a date? i'm cina guy no mind tudung girl  wub.gif
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U a guy ke? Hahaha
kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 04:43 PM

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QUOTE(BoonieTan @ Jan 25 2018, 04:36 AM)

If no, dont go for this route at all costs. If yes, the big loss is more of an imaginary one, imho. We chinese have been losing our so called "chinese distinctiveness" generation by generation. Im not as chinese as my chinese immigrant ancestor and starting absorbing my surrounding culture bit by bit.

One day im not surprised if all or most of us are assimilated into the local culture much like our baba nyonya counterpart as time goes. So if u think ur true love is a malay muslim and decided this is ur home, does it make that big of fuzz if u decide to marry her and accelerate the process?
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Idk why so many people r freaking out about the so called race distinctiveness. It happens in all races i believe. But if any on us do the genetic testing, for sure there r more than 3 races running in our blood. We are not literally what we claim we are. We are more than that.

kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 04:44 PM

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QUOTE(babychai @ Jan 27 2018, 04:39 PM)
would like to ask. if chinese guy holding malay girl hand at public, will police tangkap? both are gf & bf relationship.
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Hahhaa no la. Malay-malay also hold hand in public
kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 06:30 PM

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QUOTE(Theoutspokenguy @ Jan 27 2018, 05:57 PM)
I have many friends that marry to Malay. His address name is in bin. We talking about in Malaysia. In other country you don't need to change your name but in Malaysia you need.

Why you are in Malaysia talking about China? Are u planning to move to China to marry?
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There is actually no rule about changing name. No need to change name pun. Maybe they changed simply because they want. I know many converted chinese in malaysia who never changed name. They even put the family name like Lee in their kids name. No sin no wrong no fault at all.

I talk about the China bcs same thing applied to Malaysia. You chinese wanna become muslim & marry a muslim be it chinese muslim/indian muslim/malay muslim, it’s never stated in the law of Malaysia or even by Islam that you are obligated to change the name. Unless your name has bad meaning, then u may change into whatever name you want in whatever language you want as long as it has good meaning. Just simply like that.

It is misunderstanding that ppl who want to convert need to sacrifice their family name.
kissella
post Jan 27 2018, 06:44 PM

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QUOTE(babychai @ Jan 27 2018, 05:30 PM)
that's why i want to know because Islam got many rules that i dont understand haha
how about kissing lip to lip at the public?  hmm.gif
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In Islam if you’re not married then you cannot touch each other. But some people do it anyway eventho it’s wrong. So if they do it then got sin la. Have many sins then masuk neraka in hereafter if they don’t repent.

About the police (I’m sure you mean the JAIS) they catch those who berdua-duan (means they’re in a place eg; room/house where only both of them there). Usually like that.

If you kiss mouth to mouth in public JAIS probably won’t catch you but it’s still a wrong thing to do for a muslim
kissella
post Feb 17 2018, 04:25 PM

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QUOTE(amar_arifin @ Feb 14 2018, 07:12 PM)
i wanna date u..may i?  icon_rolleyes.gif
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Lol what
kissella
post Feb 19 2018, 08:35 AM

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QUOTE(Gorgon king @ Feb 18 2018, 10:15 PM)
Got brown skin ?
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Sawo matang i guess
kissella
post Mar 6 2018, 04:41 PM

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QUOTE(gtp777 @ Mar 2 2018, 01:45 PM)
Wow r u really  a malay girl?
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ye laa

 

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