- Guy and girl met and started dating
- Guy has his own landed house and a 10-year old car, has a 9-to-5 job
- Guy behave frugally, bring gal to cheap dinner dates, park walks and watch torrented shows at his house
- They dated for a year, then the girl ask him why you so cheapskate and no ambition
- Girl thinks the guy has no future, want to break up, guy just ok.jpg
- Girl later found out the guy actually has a huge passive income source
- Girl regret and blame the guy for not telling her the truth about his wealth, still hope can reconcile with him.

Is the girl correct? Or she just another gold digger?

TS is the gold digger.

guy = ts

cancer
go get better girl

certified gold digger over 9000

TS = guy


DAMMED Obvious
Girl = GD

Piap je la

Not me ler...

Who is GD?

sudah tau jawapan. now can /kolos

if the guy got piap the girl, he is the winner

GOLD digger. One last piap then dump

Gaddy Deddington = GD

GD = gold digger lor , moron...

Better not. Later the girl poke holes in domdom, get pregnant, guy gg.

Sorry ah boss. Unker's brain not functioning properly

Confirm 9999999999% GOLD DIGGER !!!!

girl is correct. guy is a loser and coward

ppl already become his gf..he still keep so many secrets.

such guys usually makan outside and very good at keeping secrets.

so not worth the girl's time and effort.

if cannot trust ur partner, whether before or after merrid, then better get a dog.

sekian

both shud jus ignore each other.

janji sudah piap

lol

They both wasted their time.

well if piap oredi consider ok ...just let the gold digger go ...

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dig gold pun bodoh,

break liao only know got passive income

That is a problem too, since later the gg guy are raising other men children.

Hence don’t piap before break up.

True

Find other girl

describe the girl first, what is the condition? new? unused? investment value? airport condition? abalone condition?

Girl wants guy with potential.

Ts showed that he has no future earning potential.

Girl dumps TS.

TS went out and lease a BMW.

TS purposely stalk girl and drive by her house and work place to show off car.

Girl now taking out restraining order on TS.

TS have to file for bankruptcy as he is unable to service his car lease after 2 months.

TS come to /k to post about gold diggers..

This post has been edited by friedricetheman: Oct 31 2017, 03:48 PM

nope...no need declare balance sheet
but obviously the guy keeping secret from her
why the guy didnt tell her he's not working and rely on passive income? why need to put on a front that he works as something else?
and why didnt explain to the girl why when she ask?

remember, what TS stated shows that the girl asks this and that..and the guy just go, believe me and shut up..or walk...that's the perception i get..

no communication from the guy when the girl kept asking for info and sharing.

u cant get to know the other person better if he jst keeps quiet on everything

2 way communication needed in a relationship mang..doesnt matter whether ur rich or poor

Err... not sure what you mean. Girl face is 8/10 imo la, should be virgin, have 2 ex-bf excluding this guy, definitely at least C cup.

gf no land no saving, no plan for future....

y always girl demand things for guy..
if she wanted just go and grab la...wait ask other ppl to do so...

this. Get a dog, be a dog, then enjoice doggy style.

tis ^

when ppl born with silver spoon..they will feel happy but end up /k jely buthurt giler

ok..then still sarahan girls guy...all girls like to be pampered

if during birthday, anniversaries also makan kopitiam Rm4.50 Laksa and Teh Ais Rm2.00...well..seriously.............

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 03:59 PM

Already said the guy in the story is not me lo

should be virgin? you interviewed her ex-bf before?

dailou, if she is really from what you have described then you really need to do some homework and equip yourself better

all people can say girl with certain level of demand considered gold digger but from what she had invested in at herself, she did deserve better

even apple phone also need 5k only can afford, can you say Iphone is gold digger? of course no because its up to you whether you can buy or cannot

so you have to rate yourself first

8/10, at least C cup, got 2 dating experience and somemore willing to date you

you think easy to find arr?

easy to make such claim when one's single

true story

tis ^

girl gold digger end up children lead better lives..but guys only concern whether girl gold digger or not and skillful on bed or not...

girls usually think further ahead..dont want when baby sick need to go General Hospital and queue for 1 hour 45 mins and when children want toys can only buy guli let them play..


Added : know a fren from primary...poor as fuck. girl merrid him..their 1st 2 child dieded coz even when sick, says no need go hospital coz no money. but they ok aje though, no sad or anything..jst fuck and give birth again..now have another 2 kids liao....i guess this non-gold digger type is /k material? never strive for better future for children.. lol

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 04:21 PM

the girl cannot be trusted

her lifestyle is incompatible with his lifestyle

she go back with him because she wants to spend the passive income capital

fuck that bitch

edit: seems got enemy tracking me... probably stupid bingding

This post has been edited by KLboy92: Oct 31 2017, 10:19 PM

cool story armata...

um.

you know that any assets earned BEFORE marriage is owned by you and your family/siblings right?

big big big different.

even if the girl knew this passive income, she has no right to it, because it is earned before marriage, and hence, your side of the family has higher priority of this ammount.

However, i do agree that salary and active income is important to know before marriage

current salary and income ammount is important, because its a shared asset in marriage. both spouses have the right to each other current income.

however, passive asset belongs to you and your parents/siblings, not her.

TLDR:

Assets and future passive income earned before marriage of a person : belongs to the person and the person's family cluster
Active income and future income earned : belongs to the couple as shared assets
Assets purchased after marriage : belongs to the couple as shared assets.

same goes to the girl


This post has been edited by Nachiino Etamay: Oct 31 2017, 04:27 PM

not kimsim ke? lol

gold digger or not

better have some $$$ for urself first

yup..she have no right to it. but at least she dont have to worry their babies dont have enough money to buy pampers

or when go school can only eat half a meal during recess time

some girls are looking for live partner and good environment for her children.....

its disheartening when the mother bring her children out...and they wanna eat that hotdog bun that costs Rm2.80 but if top up another Rm1 then can get a bowl of noodle as complete meal for her children for the day....

Actually... The guy no funds one.. tipu he busy story to make the girl jelly

This kind of bitch deserves nothing more than an abusive man who will beat her ass everytime he doesnt get money.

finally someone who knows what is reality vs fantasy

most of the people who complaint girl as gold digger are either super rich fella who wanna do prank or poor fella who just got jeolous of those gold digger's quality

being a gold digger aren't easy as you need to make a male willingly to spend on you, if they complaint, means you are no gold digger quality

so this is the cruelness of the reality, no money no talk

I said should be virgin because she's a Christian

Also, the guy in story is not me, he's a friend ok...

The reason why the guy don't want to show off his wealth, because no matter how wealthy, it's still possible to spend it all, on cars, lavish holidays. It's not like he has billions; he has a sizable amount, but not enough to sustain a luxury Datuk Datin lifestyle.

And buying 5k IPhone seriously?? My fren won't lo, he just use cheapo RM500 china-brand phone only.

you're not supposed to use passive income for post-marriage spending.

this money belongs to you and your family. as an eldest son, its my role to keep a healthy amount of property and assets so that i can back my parents if something happen to them.

This money is not meant to be spent for post-wedding expenditure, because its not sustainable.

we should always live within our means.

That means, living within the means of the combined income of a married couple.

imagine if a married couple earn RM10000 combined and spend RM14000 a month just because the guy or girl has an extra house. this doesnt make sense at all, and is not prudent at all.

aye....and usually u see those guys who criticisez girl as gold digger..they are mostly single guys

they havent realize the harsh truth of having a gf..needless to say of family

imagine if the girl is the only girl in the family....and the guy she's going to marry cant even afford proper meals..how are they gonna support their parents and parents-in-law?

6 adults in total...

and that s before they have their own babies

or the other way round..

u see lee ka sing grandson...milk powder import from NZ yo!

limpek guarantee u when the grandson grow up..he wont blame his mum for being gold digger..prolly gonna take good care of her since he dont have much else to worry about except his parent's health and wellbeing..

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 04:37 PM

the 5k iphone is an assumption...meaning that gold digger standard is up there, it won't get affected because of a complaint or defection

So in order to make a gold digger to fall on you and 100% loyalty secure, find a spot where she couldn't let you go then you are the winner

most people think by making her pregnant considered as close case, nooooo, it will get even worse....

i dont see which post of mine says we should live outside our means

hell i am a little lost of where ur post is going actually

disagree on the last one..good partners doesnt mean need to be good looking

everything else i am ok with though

This is gold nigga

hi naddy

hard to say in term of how children will look

but bolded part..totally

majority prefer beautiful, nice things..fact of live

guy is shit, girl already spend a year on cheapsake life with him and trying to give him chance to change and more ambition. but that guy fail and when the girl want leave he only ok.jpg face (waste girls 1 year youth)

tis ^

inb4 birthday & anniversary eat at kopitiam with RM5.50 curry mee and teh ais RM2.00...celebrate and blow candles at kopitiam yo!

Why /k so focused on hantaming gold diggers but no hantam picky guys looking for trophy girls?

fuk the girl then dump her

Break up due to no ambition is understandable...


But this... "Girl regret and blame the guy for not telling her the truth about his wealth, still hope can reconcile with him."... Ini babi

Errrrrr bro, in-laws also need support ah?
they no hands n legs meh?

Can’t I just hold her hand n ran off?

no..coz he obviously didnt care whether she walks or not

Mana gender equality? If the girl want to minta so much, she better can provide a much better offer than outside FL.

if ur dotter looking for a rich guy so she can ensure her children lives comfortable, that wud be ur grandson, u wud really go against her?

and tell her, she better look for someone she really love even if she cant get proper 3 meals a day?

best dad award shud really go to u

obviously whatever's benefiting the guy TS purposely didnt mention in order to tip the scale of biasness

cant imagine got ppl kena baited

walao..seriously? ur dad never give money to your mother's parents? :

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 05:02 PM

So where's gender equality?

Benefiting the guy by opening her leg? C'mon, if have to calculate till this level, it's mere cash-flesh transaction.

ts never say girl very ambitious. so we can only assume is avg girl around, not too ambitious but also more ambitious than guy.

guy no improve means backward movement already consider every is moving forward. he waste his own year and if the girl marry that guy the guy waste also the girl year. so in conclusion useless partner will drag his/her partner. own waste cannot consider in this situation.

Lol. You want gender equality ? Go marry a guy, since males are so great.

This is not gold digger. This is just tamak.

Gold digger will find out about the gold mine before start dating... wont waste time like this one..

when the world starts paying equal pay between the 2 gender for the same position
else dont talk about gender equality


wait a minute..i thought ur the one that says she better able to provide better service than FL?

My counter point is what if she really did but TS purposely leave it out just to gain sympathy/support from /k? Hell, for all we know she might have provided even more than that.. its 1 year mang..not 1 month..

u ask /k here how many have gf..most are foreveralonez..cant hardly get 1...needless to say for a girl to be with them for 1 yr...

that's serious sacrifice for a girl..since its not trade secret that the older wimminz get, the lesser their market value will be

By current economy, any rajin guy can provide adequately to his family. But according to TS, the girl demand more than that? So if I reverse the situation, let's say guy demand this n that from his gf and ditch her because she is poor, how would u think? Talking about gender equality, because this is THE trend brah

This

tis seems logic

gold digger will spend a lot of effort in determining whether its worth her time to bait him...

nice different point of view

from TS post..it seems the guy bring her to kopitiam to celebrate their anniversary and both of their birthdays..

i mean seriously..stick 2 candles on their chap fan (economy rice) with teh aise and blow over it while singing birthday song....i mean..seriously?

Careful, u do not wish something like this to happen on u, do u?

well once broke because of such petty argument, whatchu think?

unfortunately that's the truth when it comes too gender equality

until salary for both gender are equal...there wont be gender equality no matter how much u try to justify

doesnt matter what we think

so long u felt it s worth it

Well to topup ur point d girl willing to get along with this "poor" chap just that he wasnt being honest to her.

But break-up sudah la why wanna go back? Betul cheapskate b!tch.

This post has been edited by JustForCheonging: Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM

Unker, How much r u selling ur daughter?

Can discount or not?

aye...that's pretty true..no point going back to such a guy..

if after spending 1 year and ur partner still reluctant to share these trivial things with u..its really doesnt worth going through anymore

not sure which culture ur from..but from where i come from, giving money to parents and parents-in-laws are considered filial act a son and son-in-law should do

kecian u see such honorable act as selling dotter

Honestly, I have no idea how they spend their dates la, bro. But I feel he's not that cheap bah... at least have tai-chow i think.

then perhaps u shud get more info on how she treat him this 1 year before sharing?

it s easy to label a wiminz a gold digger, and a guy as sex pervert nowadays...and everyone jst wanna jump onto the band wagon witch hunting...

unfortunately, live aint that simple...

Let me tell you a story, i have an ex, pak tor for 1 year, perhaps u may say she is /k dream girl standard, fair, baby smooth skin, >C cup, super tight meow, every week at least 3 times dine in restaurant, nearly every week go cinema, birthday gift more than rm 1k (all from my own pocket money), she still hiam me cheapskate, n what did she benefit in return apart from leg spreading? Constant nagging/princess syndrome/24/7 monitoring. Thank goodness after 1 years + she want to breakup, i just say ok...does this sound like TS friend?

I'm not sure I understand..

You keep saying women are too demanding, are too poor, and, bring nothing of value to the table..

That said.. go marry a guy!

You can enjoy a partner with a car, house, high sex drive, and a big meaty sandwich everyday.. and they will even do anal ..*wink *wink

Perfect partner for you

It's a pretty clear, logical solution when you think about it

Wow, you really suffered a lot, bro

foreveralone > all

Yes ..she is a gold digger

Sounds like u encourage LGBT. Gold digging behavior is not something good to begin with, period.

no point if the guy is rich but not willing to spend money on the girl