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> Is this considered as gold digging behavior?, Salah siapa?

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happy4ever
post Oct 31 2017, 07:15 PM

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QUOTE(Paddy Teddington @ Oct 31 2017, 03:19 PM)
- Guy and girl met and started dating
- Guy has his own landed house and a 10-year old car, has a 9-to-5 job
- Guy behave frugally, bring gal to cheap dinner dates, park walks and watch torrented shows at his house
- They dated for a year, then the girl ask him why you so cheapskate and no ambition
- Girl thinks the guy has no future, want to break up, guy just ok.jpg
- Girl later found out the guy actually has a huge passive income source
- Girl regret and blame the guy for not telling her the truth about his wealth, still hope can reconcile with him.

Is the girl correct? Or she just another gold digger?

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both are wrong

the girl is a gold digger.

but the guy should also show he is capable to start and raise a family.
he is giving the "lazy i dont care" attitude that makes every girl doubt his capability.

nobody likes financial burdens, especially when child is sick no money see doc, baju seragam also no money, bla bla bla.

he has to at least show he is financially stable.
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post Oct 31 2017, 07:19 PM

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QUOTE(lowyatMod @ Oct 31 2017, 05:33 PM)
Did u miss out on the part where the gf later realise the bf got extra passive income and wish to reconcile? So the dude is not too bad financially. As if the girl bring anything to the partnership.
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you'll be surprised.

even in chinese community, i have seen all the guys in a family, only 2 or 3 are hardworking, the rest are lazy good for nothing...while all the women has to work and then takes care of the kids, the family, then rush home to cook, the guys just sleep whole day and income depends on the 2 hardworking brothers and the women.

And these lazy guys are now in their 60s. still lazy as shit.

When hardship comes, the women usually rise up and takes up multiple jobs to sustain the family. the guy just drinks beer and forget stuffs. or beats her.
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post Nov 1 2017, 12:46 PM

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QUOTE(lowyatMod @ Oct 31 2017, 07:31 PM)
You're talking about older gen, this gen the wife would have divorce the lazy hubby and move on.
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or better still, break up in less than a year since useless men are always clueless about their future and never act.

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