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Kim Bi Jan
post Oct 31 2017, 05:13 PM

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QUOTE(allanlee89 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:11 PM)
By current economy, any rajin guy can provide adequately to his family. But according to TS, the girl demand more than that? So if I reverse the situation, let's say guy demand this n that from his gf and ditch her because she is poor, how would u think? Talking about gender equality, because this is THE trend brah
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from TS post..it seems the guy bring her to kopitiam to celebrate their anniversary and both of their birthdays..

i mean seriously..stick 2 candles on their chap fan (economy rice) with teh aise and blow over it while singing birthday song....i mean..seriously?

allanlee89
post Oct 31 2017, 05:15 PM

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QUOTE(wargreymon12 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:09 PM)
Lol. You want gender equality ? Go marry a guy, since males are so great.
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Careful, u do not wish something like this to happen on u, do u?
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:17 PM

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well once broke because of such petty argument, whatchu think?
Kim Bi Jan
post Oct 31 2017, 05:18 PM

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QUOTE(allanlee89 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:15 PM)
Careful, u do not wish something like this to happen on u, do u?
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unfortunately that's the truth when it comes too gender equality

until salary for both gender are equal...there wont be gender equality no matter how much u try to justify
Kim Bi Jan
post Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(x3Kai @ Oct 31 2017, 05:17 PM)
well once broke because of such petty argument, whatchu think?
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doesnt matter what we think

so long u felt it s worth it
JustForCheonging
post Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(Kim Bi Jan @ Oct 31 2017, 03:51 PM)
nope...no need declare balance sheet
but obviously the guy keeping secret from her
why the guy didnt tell her he's not working and rely on passive income? why need to put on a front that he works as something else?
and why didnt explain to the girl why when she ask?

remember, what TS stated shows that the girl asks this and that..and the guy just go, believe me and shut up..or walk...that's the perception i get..

no communication from the guy when the girl kept asking for info and sharing.

u cant get to know the other person better if he jst keeps quiet on everything

2 way communication needed in a relationship mang..doesnt matter whether ur rich or poor
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Well to topup ur point d girl willing to get along with this "poor" chap just that he wasnt being honest to her.

But break-up sudah la why wanna go back? Betul cheapskate b!tch.

This post has been edited by JustForCheonging: Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM

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QUOTE(Kim Bi Jan @ Oct 31 2017, 05:02 PM)
walao..seriously? ur dad never give money to your mother's parents? : shocking.gif  shocking.gif
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Unker, How much r u selling ur daughter?

Can discount or not? smile.gif
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:20 PM

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QUOTE(JustForCheonging @ Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM)
Well to topup ur point d girl willing to get along with this "poor" chap just that he wasnt being honest to her.

But breakout sudah la why wanna go back? Betul cheapskate b!tch.
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aye...that's pretty true..no point going back to such a guy..

if after spending 1 year and ur partner still reluctant to share these trivial things with u..its really doesnt worth going through anymore


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post Oct 31 2017, 05:21 PM

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QUOTE(AznRicy @ Oct 31 2017, 05:19 PM)
Unker, How much r u selling ur daughter?

Can discount or not? smile.gif
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not sure which culture ur from..but from where i come from, giving money to parents and parents-in-laws are considered filial act a son and son-in-law should do

kecian u see such honorable act as selling dotter cry.gif
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:22 PM

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QUOTE(Kim Bi Jan @ Oct 31 2017, 05:13 PM)
from TS post..it seems the guy bring her to kopitiam to celebrate their anniversary and both of their birthdays..

i mean seriously..stick 2 candles on their chap fan (economy rice) with teh aise and blow over it while singing birthday song....i mean..seriously?
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Honestly, I have no idea how they spend their dates la, bro. But I feel he's not that cheap bah... at least have tai-chow i think.
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:24 PM

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QUOTE(Paddy Teddington @ Oct 31 2017, 05:22 PM)
Honestly, I have no idea how they spend their dates la, bro. But I feel he's not that cheap bah... at least have tai-chow i think.
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then perhaps u shud get more info on how she treat him this 1 year before sharing?

it s easy to label a wiminz a gold digger, and a guy as sex pervert nowadays...and everyone jst wanna jump onto the band wagon witch hunting...

unfortunately, live aint that simple...
allanlee89
post Oct 31 2017, 05:29 PM

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QUOTE(Kim Bi Jan @ Oct 31 2017, 05:10 PM)
when the world starts paying equal pay between the 2 gender for the same position
else dont talk about gender equality
wait a minute..i thought ur the one that says she better able to provide better service than FL?

My counter point is what if she really did but TS purposely leave it out just to gain sympathy/support from /k? Hell, for all we know she might have provided even more than that.. its 1 year mang..not 1 month..

u ask /k here how many have gf..most are foreveralonez..cant hardly get 1...needless to say for a girl to be with them for 1 yr...

that's serious sacrifice for a girl..since its not trade secret that the older wimminz get, the lesser their market value will be
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Let me tell you a story, i have an ex, pak tor for 1 year, perhaps u may say she is /k dream girl standard, fair, baby smooth skin, >C cup, super tight meow, every week at least 3 times dine in restaurant, nearly every week go cinema, birthday gift more than rm 1k (all from my own pocket money), she still hiam me cheapskate, n what did she benefit in return apart from leg spreading? Constant nagging/princess syndrome/24/7 monitoring. Thank goodness after 1 years + she want to breakup, i just say ok...does this sound like TS friend?
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:29 PM

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QUOTE(allanlee89 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:15 PM)
Careful, u do not wish something like this to happen on u, do u?
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I'm not sure I understand..

You keep saying women are too demanding, are too poor, and, bring nothing of value to the table..

That said.. go marry a guy!

You can enjoy a partner with a car, house, high sex drive, and a big meaty sandwich everyday.. and they will even do anal ..*wink *wink

Perfect partner for you

It's a pretty clear, logical solution when you think about it
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:32 PM

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QUOTE(allanlee89 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:29 PM)
Let me tell you a story, i have an ex, pak tor for 1 year, perhaps u may say she is /k dream girl standard, fair, baby smooth skin, >C cup, super tight meow, every week at least 3 times dine in restaurant, nearly every week go cinema, birthday gift more than rm 1k (all from my own pocket money), she still hiam me cheapskate, n what did she benefit in return apart from leg spreading? Constant nagging/princess syndrome/24/7 monitoring. Thank goodness after 1 years + she want to breakup, i just say ok...does this sound like TS friend?
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Wow, you really suffered a lot, bro console.gif
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post Oct 31 2017, 05:42 PM

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post Oct 31 2017, 06:46 PM

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Yes ..she is a gold digger
allanlee89
post Oct 31 2017, 06:54 PM

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QUOTE(wargreymon12 @ Oct 31 2017, 05:29 PM)
I'm not sure I understand..

You keep saying women are too demanding, are too poor, and, bring nothing of value to the table..

That said.. go marry a guy!

You can enjoy a partner with a car, house, high sex drive, and a big meaty sandwich everyday..  and they will even do anal ..*wink *wink

Perfect partner for you

It's a pretty clear, logical solution when you think about it
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Sounds like u encourage LGBT. Gold digging behavior is not something good to begin with, period.
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post Oct 31 2017, 06:56 PM

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no point if the guy is rich but not willing to spend money on the girl
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post Oct 31 2017, 07:06 PM

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QUOTE(wongsinyee @ Oct 31 2017, 06:56 PM)
no point if the guy is rich but not willing to spend money on the girl
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Gold Digger!

A good girl will decline guy spending on her.
She will pay for herself.
That’s way, she maintains her dignity.

This is chivalry. You certainly need some Confucius teaching. smile.gif
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post Oct 31 2017, 07:11 PM

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QUOTE(AznRicy @ Oct 31 2017, 07:06 PM)
Gold Digger!

A good girl will decline guy spending on her.
She will pay for herself.
That’s way, she maintains her dignity.

This is chivalry. You certainly need some Confucius teaching. smile.gif
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The 9th commandment of chivalry:
"Thou shalt be generous, and give largesse to everyone."

I don't see paying for herself as part of chivalry definition.

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