the girl cannot be trusted

her lifestyle is incompatible with his lifestyle

she go back with him because she wants to spend the passive income capital

fuck that bitch

edit: seems got enemy tracking me... probably stupid bingding

This post has been edited by KLboy92: Oct 31 2017, 10:19 PM

cool story armata...

um.

you know that any assets earned BEFORE marriage is owned by you and your family/siblings right?

big big big different.

even if the girl knew this passive income, she has no right to it, because it is earned before marriage, and hence, your side of the family has higher priority of this ammount.

However, i do agree that salary and active income is important to know before marriage

current salary and income ammount is important, because its a shared asset in marriage. both spouses have the right to each other current income.

however, passive asset belongs to you and your parents/siblings, not her.

TLDR:

Assets and future passive income earned before marriage of a person : belongs to the person and the person's family cluster
Active income and future income earned : belongs to the couple as shared assets
Assets purchased after marriage : belongs to the couple as shared assets.

same goes to the girl


This post has been edited by Nachiino Etamay: Oct 31 2017, 04:27 PM

not kimsim ke? lol

gold digger or not

better have some $$$ for urself first

yup..she have no right to it. but at least she dont have to worry their babies dont have enough money to buy pampers

or when go school can only eat half a meal during recess time

some girls are looking for live partner and good environment for her children.....

its disheartening when the mother bring her children out...and they wanna eat that hotdog bun that costs Rm2.80 but if top up another Rm1 then can get a bowl of noodle as complete meal for her children for the day....

Actually... The guy no funds one.. tipu he busy story to make the girl jelly

This kind of bitch deserves nothing more than an abusive man who will beat her ass everytime he doesnt get money.

finally someone who knows what is reality vs fantasy

most of the people who complaint girl as gold digger are either super rich fella who wanna do prank or poor fella who just got jeolous of those gold digger's quality

being a gold digger aren't easy as you need to make a male willingly to spend on you, if they complaint, means you are no gold digger quality

so this is the cruelness of the reality, no money no talk

I said should be virgin because she's a Christian

Also, the guy in story is not me, he's a friend ok...

The reason why the guy don't want to show off his wealth, because no matter how wealthy, it's still possible to spend it all, on cars, lavish holidays. It's not like he has billions; he has a sizable amount, but not enough to sustain a luxury Datuk Datin lifestyle.

And buying 5k IPhone seriously?? My fren won't lo, he just use cheapo RM500 china-brand phone only.

you're not supposed to use passive income for post-marriage spending.

this money belongs to you and your family. as an eldest son, its my role to keep a healthy amount of property and assets so that i can back my parents if something happen to them.

This money is not meant to be spent for post-wedding expenditure, because its not sustainable.

we should always live within our means.

That means, living within the means of the combined income of a married couple.

imagine if a married couple earn RM10000 combined and spend RM14000 a month just because the guy or girl has an extra house. this doesnt make sense at all, and is not prudent at all.

aye....and usually u see those guys who criticisez girl as gold digger..they are mostly single guys

they havent realize the harsh truth of having a gf..needless to say of family

imagine if the girl is the only girl in the family....and the guy she's going to marry cant even afford proper meals..how are they gonna support their parents and parents-in-law?

6 adults in total...

and that s before they have their own babies

or the other way round..

u see lee ka sing grandson...milk powder import from NZ yo!

limpek guarantee u when the grandson grow up..he wont blame his mum for being gold digger..prolly gonna take good care of her since he dont have much else to worry about except his parent's health and wellbeing..

This post has been edited by Kim Bi Jan: Oct 31 2017, 04:37 PM

the 5k iphone is an assumption...meaning that gold digger standard is up there, it won't get affected because of a complaint or defection

So in order to make a gold digger to fall on you and 100% loyalty secure, find a spot where she couldn't let you go then you are the winner

most people think by making her pregnant considered as close case, nooooo, it will get even worse....

i dont see which post of mine says we should live outside our means

hell i am a little lost of where ur post is going actually

disagree on the last one..good partners doesnt mean need to be good looking

everything else i am ok with though

This is gold nigga

hi naddy

hard to say in term of how children will look

but bolded part..totally

majority prefer beautiful, nice things..fact of live