Meh, don't worry guys. I know one LDR that is working very well now. They used to be in different states (West-East Malaysia) too. And now they're in Aus-Malaysia LDR. The most exciting part is that they're getting married soon! See, it works if both sides are committed and trust each others.

Yeah. Presence.. blek!

Good to hear (:

Good to hear that they are ending soon and mine still got long way~~ to go hahahahahahahaha

ya i long so much to see her.

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Added on July 7, 2007, 7:37 pmhow long can a break be?

This post has been edited by wassap: Jul 7 2007, 07:37 PM

Depends on the one who suggested it

ha? no time given o how?

Then just wait lo.. What to do..?

i just msg her in ym. asking whether i can call her or not. waiting for reply. hope the silence treatment ends tonite. pray for me please.

ok, i wish you good luck man..

tough luck. some good news and some bad news. bad news is we argue badly. worse than before.

good news is. roughly we know what each other wants. and have a rough idea hw the solution shud be.

at least it doesnt end up breaking up.

Meh. I guess it usually goes like this? (after a break and the fight?)
I guess communication is very important, aye?

Stay strong xD

Definitely communication is important.. If not, I don't think both sides will know what they want.. Wassap, at least right now you get to know what she wants and she knows what you want.. So, try slowly working on it and once again good luck

thanks a lot. ya guess thats where we should start. almost like all over again... hu hu hu... hope it never happen anymore.

Nevermind la, as long as you two are not breaking then start all over again. It's better than breaking up though.

yes definitely better. hope this time everything goes well.

Hi people... i am in abit of a dilemma now. As some of you may already know, my "gf" hasnt answered any of my calls/sms/emails in about a month already.

All of a sudden today i get a call from her that i didnt answer. Then she sends me an sms. (i didnt know i had a call/sms until an hour later as my phone was away from me). Then in the sms she says
"dear why i didnt answer her call?" Say i must me very busy with someone else. Then at the end say "dont say i didnt call you."

I mean WTF man! She is the one who has all of a sudden ignored me for a month!! Then just because i didnt answer one of her call on accident i get this kind of remarks from her. I havent replied to her SMS yet as i think she is already asleep by now and i also dont really know what to say.

Haiz any ideas? Actually i more or less already gave up on her. After she treat me like this i really dono what to do. Makes my head start to spin.....

Wassap, I'm sure it does, just have faith man. Good luck!

Lelong, for now it's really confusing.. It's like sometimes hot sometimes cold to you, it's really hard to figure out what's on her mind now. - So I think you should wait for her reply since there's nothing you could do. Good luck

This post has been edited by BlueWind: Jul 8 2007, 10:20 PM

LDR user owner (insert a noun here) reporting in, sir!

This post has been edited by 2kia: Jul 8 2007, 10:27 PM

Get the explannation from her why she didnt reply u in a month.....

Only then, u make ur decision

Well she just called me again and i answered. We just pretended like nothing happened. Then i asked her why she didnt answer my calls or reply my sms and emails. Then she says "huh? you got sms/call/email me?? i didnt receive any also." Then i said " you can stop lying, because i know what your saying is all lies." Then the topic some how drifted to something else.

After awhile she said she has to sleep coz got class early tmr. Then i just said ok.

Aiyo, really headache now la.