As per topic.. girls who have said they dont mind about monies about earning and etc..

On a negative side, while i was walking ard midvalley/gardens shops show preety much ones spending powers are limited despite income are 5 digits above.. felt quite insecured.. worried bout future .. such as how long can we maintain d said sum and etc

Girls being gf or single looking whom are looking for partners.. what are d most important criterias? Well, seeing the rows and rows of shops.. selling bags.. perfumes.. clothes and etc and how ppl are spending.. those girls who cant spend or their bf cant afford so..do they feel shortchanged? Yet i have known many girls who can think and understand d financial abilities of their bf and etc.. and many proceed to married and etc still live happy..despite budget in spending and etc..

But far from within the corner of my heart lies a doubtful scent and knocking and cracking of the heart dying to discover what girls really meant when they say they understand and do not mind her bf earning and spending.. ARE those statements made by them are GENUINELY mean so..

To my thoughts and deep analytical.. somewhere along d lines i feel girls do mind.. what quality does then these women sees in a men to forgo such. i would be proud and feel safe if i could pay for all d spending .. exp.. if u were to buy a bag say long champ.. ysl.. etc.. isnt it good if you buy all the colours and let her choose instead..

Is love .. time.. sincerity really what girls are seeking over material satisfaction..  ? Or is it that i have not reach the wealthy level to see and feel that basically there is no difference... btw rich poor and moderate.. still eat food. Still breath.. still sleep.. etc.. just that differing financial position have better experience in all aspects?

My partners says.. rich ppl are like a everest mountain.. they have conquer it.. seen what is up there.. and decided nth special also.. those who never climb before will think..and wonder what is on the top... praying..worship.. invest time and etc pondering d said mountain.. believing it is how good how good..

Really need to earn more? Can i just enjoy life naturally or keep climbing and climbing.. ?

As per topic.. girls who have said they dont mind about monies about earning and etc..

On a negative side, while i was walking ard midvalley/gardens shops show preety much ones spending powers are limited despite income are 5 digits above.. felt quite insecured.. worried bout future .. such as how long can we maintain d said sum and etc

Girls being gf or single looking whom are looking for partners.. what are d most important criterias? Well, seeing the rows and rows of shops.. selling bags.. perfumes.. clothes and etc and how ppl are spending.. those girls who cant spend or their bf cant afford so..do they feel shortchanged? Yet i have known many girls who can think and understand d financial abilities of their bf and etc.. and many proceed to married and etc still live happy..despite budget in spending and etc..

But far from within the corner of my heart lies a doubtful scent and knocking and cracking of the heart dying to discover what girls really meant when they say they understand and do not mind her bf earning and spending.. ARE those statements made by them are GENUINELY mean so..

To my thoughts and deep analytical.. somewhere along d lines i feel girls do mind.. what quality does then these women sees in a men to forgo such. i would be proud and feel safe if i could pay for all d spending .. exp.. if u were to buy a bag say long champ.. ysl.. etc.. isnt it good if you buy all the colours and let her choose instead..

Is love .. time.. sincerity really what girls are seeking over material satisfaction..  ? Or is it that i have not reach the wealthy level to see and feel that basically there is no difference... btw rich poor and moderate.. still eat food. Still breath.. still sleep.. etc.. just that differing financial position have better experience in all aspects?

My partners says.. rich ppl are like a everest mountain.. they have conquer it.. seen what is up there.. and decided nth special also.. those who never climb before will think..and wonder what is on the top... praying..worship.. invest time and etc pondering d said mountain.. believing it is how good how good..

Really need to earn more? Can i just enjoy life naturally or keep climbing and climbing.. ?

the more you earn the more you spend. There are stuff out there for every range of pay. If you warn 3k per month, there are watches and handbags for your class. If you earn 8k per month, there are also watches and handbags for this class. If you earn 50k a mth also got watches and handbags for your class

Dun get me wrong, its not wrong to increase your earnings by going into other biz or working hard for promotion.

Just be realistic la with the girl, have a deep discussion with her about your financial plans. Tell her tht you are not rich but you are have a plan. Buy gifts also buy from the heart la, you can spend on a limited budget but put on some nice present wrappers and put in more effort like wrap small starts in a nice jug.

These midvalley girls you gotta be very careful about. I've encountered one of them - she soon married, but soon found out her husband found it hard to support her conditions, end up their marriage in tatters, argue a lot. Pretty but put on a lot of nice clothes and make up - she look like a Korean K-pop star, sometime wonder why married woman so well dressed everyday. Maybe looking for someone better? Well - that is the thing. After you got into the new relationship, you gotta tell her where you stand in financials, have that private talk with her. If she wanna walk out due to not satisfied with your financials then its well worth it to move on without her - you don't need this kind of people.

Important thing is finding someone who is compatible to your capabilities.

My collegue earning 3k per month, currently age 25. His gf keep asking him to buy a house, must be in good location, not some kampung area, or black area (gangster place). My collegue try to save as much as possible, but his gf always helping him to spend money, go travel, eat expensive food, wear branded items and clothes. Both already couple for around 6 years. My collegue always complaint to me not enough money, and i told him that enough or not enough depends on your requirement. He joined company with basic of RM1.2k, and still can survive, but now RM3k, still no saving. His gf always ask him to find more money. Sometimes, really don't understand what girl want, if a girl love a guy, i suppose she understand, and accept the guy as he is, but seems like its a MUST for a guy to get rich to repay back the girl's love. What's the purpose for falling in love at first if what you really need is MONEY, and you suppose to find some rich guy at first, rather than couple with someone that's poor but hoping/insist him to get rich to fulfill your needs.

I have high commitments... property/ car.. spending really minimal.. it is not to say cant support normal food like cafes ok.. but how long ur partner will follow like a stagnant gradient... does "love" really can overcome all that? how about trips? gifts? upgrades car house? clothes? I m d one feeling the difference... i believe somewhere along partners will built resentment also ...

she probably earns higher and going higher... really need to try more and harder..

between it is income not salary.. so sometimes not stable..

more to say i wanted to know what a higher income women will think when with a lower income partner... if for men to have higher income.. it is ok.. in fact if i really love her.. i would help and give assistance to her and I would really do not mind..

but she has to try her best... and not merely

Happiness is about being contented.
Everything else is relative.

When it comes to money,
You can either tag your happiness towards a certain 'price tag' and try to chase that,
or you can be happy just by being contented with what you have.

To put into perspective,
I know a scary smart person, maybe even a genius.
But hes an underachiever by choice, because he dislike expectations.

He lives a very modest life as a repairman, and most ppl will get fooled by his appearance.
Money is never a problem for him cos he doesnt want expensive things.
But anytime he does want something luxurious or his mother want them,
he'll always think of a way to get money with a project or two.
The things ppl always bring up is why didnt he further his studies, get high paying jobs or even be his own boss doing business (cos he clearly can)

Hes always reading, thats how he gets his life fulfilled.

I mean I have mad respect for the man, but I think most ppl would want to achieve something with their lives.
Hes just an extreme case of a person being contented even tho ppl around him can clearly see he can have so much more in life.
To cut things short,
whenever I feel like my happiness is "tied" to something,
I think about how happy he is with his life and I try to emulate that.
Happiness is a state of mind that can be achieved with either:
A. material things
B. with your own mental prowess
You can be happy WHILE you climb. Its not mutually exclusive. 
Always try to be happy, and try to get rich too if you can! 

Hi TS, didn't check all da post/reply but I have just tis comment

It is not important what other female thinks but what yr GF thinks
please have <3 to <3 talk wif her         

the more you earn the more you spend. There are stuff out there for every range of pay. If you warn 3k per month, there are watches and handbags for your class. If you earn 8k per month, there are also watches and handbags for this class. If you earn 50k a mth also got watches and handbags for your class

Dun get me wrong, its not wrong to increase your earnings by going into other biz or working hard for promotion.

Just be realistic la with the girl, have a deep discussion with her about your financial plans. Tell her tht you are not rich but you are have a plan. Buy gifts also buy from the heart la, you can spend on a limited budget but put on some nice present wrappers and put in more effort like wrap small starts in a nice jug.

These midvalley girls you gotta be very careful about. I've encountered one of them - she soon married, but soon found out her husband found it hard to support her conditions, end up their marriage in tatters, argue a lot. Pretty but put on a lot of nice clothes and make up - she look like a Korean K-pop star, sometime wonder why married woman so well dressed everyday. Maybe looking for someone better? Well - that is the thing. After you got into the new relationship, you gotta tell her where you stand in financials, have that private talk with her. If she wanna walk out due to not satisfied with your financials then its well worth it to move on without her - you don't need this kind of people.

Important thing is finding someone who is compatible to your capabilities.

My collegue earning 3k per month, currently age 25. His gf keep asking him to buy a house, must be in good location, not some kampung area, or black area (gangster place). My collegue try to save as much as possible, but his gf always helping him to spend money, go travel, eat expensive food, wear branded items and clothes. Both already couple for around 6 years. My collegue always complaint to me not enough money, and i told him that enough or not enough depends on your requirement. He joined company with basic of RM1.2k, and still can survive, but now RM3k, still no saving. His gf always ask him to find more money. Sometimes, really don't understand what girl want, if a girl love a guy, i suppose she understand, and accept the guy as he is, but seems like its a MUST for a guy to get rich to repay back the girl's love. What's the purpose for falling in love at first if what you really need is MONEY, and you suppose to find some rich guy at first, rather than couple with someone that's poor but hoping/insist him to get rich to fulfill your needs.

Deswai my current mindset: if she is not making me a better person, baik I blah.
Lazy to spend time with people and didn't get anything in return. (may it be sex, motivation, knowledge, anything lah)

Sorry bro, easy said than done.

If you're in the situation of one of these guys stuck with this kind of girl - it seem that they are all hypnotized, can't get out of it. True story, I have one friend like this, with a spendthrift wife, he is stuck with her, he could have taken the opt of dumping her or divorcing her, at many stages, but all he does is complain to me. I tell you, its hard to understand these people, because we are not in their feet until we are, we realize how much emotional pull we are involve with this other half, until we can't get out.

Sometime you may be dating an angel, she seem very normal and liking and she even share 50/50 with you. But then after marriage, she changed, influence by her mother, BFF, cousins because girls really like to compare. If they think one stupid husband bought them a Honda civic, then they will start asking you the same.

Beware.

Believe it or not, many cainis girls think like this. At one point, I was thinking of getting an indian wife. Sorry, no racism intended, I am cainis. But all these materialism requirements make me sick.

Your colleague is gonna suffer even more, if he decides to marry her, you tell him la, wait till she tells him how much dowry, banquet cost and honeymoon destination, I think he will collapse and get heart attack.

He really needs to put his foot down. And if she can't accept that, then break up. I understand that its really hard but it appears that she is making him spend beyond his needs. That's what happened to my uncle, his wife made him spend beyond his means, then bankrupt with 2 kids, after that divorce proceedings because the wife thinks he is not doing his job as breadwinner. But years later, the wife became more successful than my uncle. She got 3 businesses operating by herself and she takes care of the 2 child, while my uncle just wither away in his sales job.

I only can advise him, decision will still on his hand. Told him lots of time, that he need to let his gf understand his financial issue, but seems like futile, because his gf got this mindset that since u the one woo me, u suppose to make me happy. I dont think he can let go of her easily since they already in relationship for at least 6 years (started at school). Now, this issue is affecting my collegue's work, as he frequently take leave to do part time work that pay more wages conpare to his daily wages at company. Example he's earning 3k per month, so he'll count 3k/26 days working. So whenever there is any part time job that pay higher wages/day, he'll take leave. I'm his senior, so far i'm still thinking whether i suppose to issue warning letter or talk to my big boss about this issue. He's very hardworking, but money is the main issue here due to his gf attitude.

Believe it or not, many cainis girls think like this. At one point, I was thinking of getting an indian wife. Sorry, no racism intended, I am cainis. But all these materialism requirements make me sick.

Your colleague is gonna suffer even more, if he decides to marry her, you tell him la, wait till she tells him how much dowry, banquet cost and honeymoon destination, I think he will collapse and get heart attack.

He really needs to put his foot down. And if she can't accept that, then break up. I understand that its really hard but it appears that she is making him spend beyond his needs. That's what happened to my uncle, his wife made him spend beyond his means, then bankrupt with 2 kids, after that divorce proceedings because the wife thinks he is not doing his job as breadwinner. But years later, the wife became more successful than my uncle. She got 3 businesses operating by herself and she takes care of the 2 child, while my uncle just wither away in his sales job.

I tell you, unfortunately, more and more cainis women are thinking like this. We are on the extinction level. Its getting harder to live by with low wages and high cost of stress living. While the other races continue to grow and their religion teaches their women to listen and obey their husbands. Not for the cainis unfortunately, they will obey you for sure but you must have the $$$$.

anyway, compare to other chainis in the region, MY chainis gals still better la
highly sought after by singaporean dudes

in terms of materialistic, HK and SG girls top the list