i think they dont have confident to have a high qualification gf
as they are just cheap labour now
Are you insecure when dating a female doctor?, Guys, please answer me. Like really?
Are you insecure when dating a female doctor?, Guys, please answer me. Like really?
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Nov 24 2017, 11:20 AM
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i think they dont have confident to have a high qualification gf
as they are just cheap labour now |
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Nov 24 2017, 11:34 AM
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QUOTE(Kuniang @ Nov 24 2017, 08:43 AM) Can't get a bf, immediately assume it's because you're a doctor. Why it can't be about your face or attitude or maybe you have small boobs, yet you're so certain it's because you disclosed your medical occupation. Did the guys go "Wow wow wow hold up you're a doctor???" And he just up and leaves? I doubt it. this.I don't judge, but you're exhibiting classical signs of narcissism. Your ex bf is smart. The guys that ran are even smarter. seems liek TS sendiri got over inflated ego |
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Nov 24 2017, 07:20 PM
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Hey ts, i know how u feel. Ive been experiencing the same issue too. Some guys that i liked unfortunately have inferiority complex and said they dont deserve me. Im like come on, i dont mind anything.. love is blind
And doctors have life too. When we r busy we r busy but still able to spend time for leisure, paktor all that. Many ppl also got this misconception |
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Nov 25 2017, 12:17 AM
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QUOTE(charmhy18 @ Nov 24 2017, 07:20 PM) Hey ts, i know how u feel. Ive been experiencing the same issue too. Some guys that i liked unfortunately have inferiority complex and said they dont deserve me. Im like come on, i dont mind anything.. love is blind My classmates in HO/MO says life sucks and they have no time to even tinder..And doctors have life too. When we r busy we r busy but still able to spend time for leisure, paktor all that. Many ppl also got this misconception Luckily their families are $$, so when they do go out.. they spend and enjoy |
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Nov 25 2017, 01:30 AM
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QUOTE(wargreymon12 @ Nov 25 2017, 12:17 AM) My classmates in HO/MO says life sucks and they have no time to even tinder.. Hah depensa how the person balanced her life lur..i can still have 30mins to go jogginf after work wor..and go for movie on my offday or study for exam.hahaLuckily their families are $$, so when they do go out.. they spend and enjoy |
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Nov 25 2017, 05:48 AM
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QUOTE(charmhy18 @ Nov 25 2017, 01:30 AM) Hah depensa how the person balanced her life lur..i can still have 30mins to go jogginf after work wor..and go for movie on my offday or study for exam.haha Hmm.. i lost contact with most of my classmates after med school.. but I am always curious as to what happened to the ones who decided to go onto HO/MOI would rather marry a nurse, lab or radiology tech, RT, etc.. Better lifestyle balance.. How to jog in Msia.. the sun is the enemy of women everywhere |
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Nov 25 2017, 08:28 AM
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QUOTE(wargreymon12 @ Nov 25 2017, 05:48 AM) Hmm.. i lost contact with most of my classmates after med school.. but I am always curious as to what happened to the ones who decided to go onto HO/MO Haha...wait till u find someone suitable for u..u wouldnt mind what they do for livingI would rather marry a nurse, lab or radiology tech, RT, etc.. Better lifestyle balance.. How to jog in Msia.. the sun is the enemy of women everywhere Haiyo, afternoon mah..samo u can always go gym..no excuses one lur |
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Nov 25 2017, 11:46 AM
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Nov 25 2017, 01:10 PM
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Nov 27 2017, 01:14 AM
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QUOTE(alexsukri @ Jun 8 2016, 11:06 AM) I have gone to multiple dates for the past month since I broke up with my boyfriend. But everytime I disclosed to them that I am a doctor, they all backed off. Guys, are you that insecure? I can be book smart but I live my life as you guys too. And most of them think I am too good for them although they make similar salary as mine. And most of them think I have no life outside the hospital. Like, come on Yes.And my ex boyfriend seems to think so too that's why I dumped him. Enlighten me please. This has been boggling me for quite some time. Yes, I am ready to date again and if the guy is suitable for me then why not. But I am not desperate for bf either. I am just wondering whether this kind of problem will bother me again when I am ready for another serious relationship DISCLAIMER: I started this thread looking for guys' opinions. Nothing more than that |
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Nov 28 2017, 10:24 AM
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Sexy part is the intellect, the turn off part is the ego.
You MO/HO here, i'm sure you guys have plenty of experience with egocentric not so "smart" superior and not to make your own life miserable, you suck up. Able to read, does not equate ability to understand. And being a doctor does not equate cognitive superiority. The super turn off part is the ego + "intellect". Don't confuse that with being insecure. P.S. You guys should give them a shot. Talking to them are often interesting if they are not too much of themselves. Have fun! This post has been edited by RUI: Nov 28 2017, 10:42 AM |
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Nov 28 2017, 12:59 PM
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QUOTE(dantheone @ Nov 28 2017, 11:35 AM) Well, one of my friend is dating a female doctor for more than 3yrs now. And he shared to me that they have happy life together in terms of mutual respect. And his gf did help him a lot on his health as well. So this is why i mention this as a benefit by having a doctor gf. I'm just highlighting those redflags that goes "bing bing bing".And his gf has modern thinking, can accept most of the things request by my friends - more to sexual , cosplay stuff. So i believe this is depends on the person personality but not by the career. It is so unfair to not dating a female doctor unless she has weird personality that other not able to accept. 1) Someone that establish his/her self-importance with his/her career instead of pride from the quality of his/her work. 2) Statistically, infidelity medical field is comparable to those in aviation industry. The conclusion from my last conversation with AAA class surgeon AKA neurosurgeon was "Lack integrity has nothing to do with work related stress. Don't you find it makes more sense to go home, bang your wife and sleep after a long day instead of banging some nurse and later worry about the wife finding out. That's not very AAA thing to do isn't it?" 3) I pity those doctor that are so committed in their that they end up sleeping on the wheel. The partner will have to be caring and understanding. P.S. Your "friend" also share quite alot of stuff with you ar. So, you are the...? Happy for him. |
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