If she is not stupid. I date her.

Because I believe if she is relatively smarter, 80% ~ 90% of disagreement can be quickly avoided. Remaining 10%~20% inevitable one's would be quickly resolved. Only stupid people joust her upper upper balls against the lower balls and engage in stupid arguments. Wait, TS are the "smarter" one. You are not doing that. Aren't you?

The rest of the time, would be nothing but quality. If she is smarter, all our interaction and conversation would be stimulating. The rest, I don't care much. I have enough. And if she is really that smart, she has enough too. Only part that we need more is good time together. What's the issue here?

P.S.: Plus, a smarter one would be able to handle a more childish me. Which is awesome. Where's the downside?

That depends on how u define smart.
Can remember alot of data.
And connect the data into useful information are two very different ability I would say.

P.S. I'm not insinuating anything here.

There are alot of "mensa" lives off social benefits and arguing that's has the highest return/effort ratio.
For some reason, their ultimate goal is to do nothing and got money.

Sexy part is the intellect, the turn off part is the ego.

You MO/HO here, i'm sure you guys have plenty of experience with egocentric not so "smart" superior and not to make your own life miserable, you suck up. Able to read, does not equate ability to understand. And being a doctor does not equate cognitive superiority. The super turn off part is the ego + "intellect".

Don't confuse that with being insecure.

P.S. You guys should give them a shot. Talking to them are often interesting if they are not too much of themselves. Have fun!

This post has been edited by RUI: Nov 28 2017, 10:42 AM

I'm just highlighting those redflags that goes "bing bing bing".

1) Someone that establish his/her self-importance with his/her career instead of pride from the quality of his/her work.
2) Statistically, infidelity medical field is comparable to those in aviation industry. The conclusion from my last conversation with AAA class surgeon AKA neurosurgeon was "Lack integrity has nothing to do with work related stress. Don't you find it makes more sense to go home, bang your wife and sleep after a long day instead of banging some nurse and later worry about the wife finding out. That's not very AAA thing to do isn't it?"
3) I pity those doctor that are so committed in their that they end up sleeping on the wheel. The partner will have to be caring and understanding.

P.S. Your "friend" also share quite alot of stuff with you ar. So, you are the...? Happy for him.