Can't get a bf, immediately assume it's because you're a doctor. Why it can't be about your face or attitude or maybe you have small boobs, yet you're so certain it's because you disclosed your medical occupation. Did the guys go "Wow wow wow hold up you're a doctor???" And he just up and leaves? I doubt it.

I don't judge, but you're exhibiting classical signs of narcissism.

Your ex bf is smart. The guys that ran are even smarter.