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What is your opinion on the children leash back pack?

I find it stupid and ridiculous

Thats your children. Aint some pet or farm animal

The reasoning is :takut hilang.

If u dont pay attention. Of course hilang



If u cant take care of your own kid. Sampai nak prevent hilang pun fail

Dont have kids. Just dont

Spare the kid of the suffering

Spare yourself from embarrassment


This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 04:50 PM


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Hm...

Maybe buy something with gps tracking on ur kid?

leash, not leach..

who say leash only for pet?

n if ur kids jenis tak reti diam takmau kena pegang kuat lari2, ull find this leash a blessing...

This post has been edited by kurangak: May 14 2016, 11:09 AM

Why u wanna put a leach on your child?

kanak2 mmg perangai mcm binatang, berak merata, sepah sini-sana

How bout just give a damn about your own fuking kid?

How bout give then attention. Like normal human being

Humans been doing it for eons. For centuries

Somehow nowadays human are incapable to do it?

That show evolution makes human more stupid. Less capable. Less effective

Or just show that parents these days dont care about their own kid

What matter most probably cheap sales or facebook feeds

So hang pun binatang

Mak hang mak binantang. Sebab lahirkan hang binatang

Ops. Dia pun pernah jadi kanak2

Jadi mak hang binatang

They need this guy to train their kids.

He can teach dogs to walk without the leash, kids lagi senang hahahaha

Too busy with Facebook tagged whatsapp CoC emails.. Lol

And also selfie

I cant England your Malaysia, mind China?

This post has been edited by Human10: May 14 2016, 11:14 AM

aku lah bapak kau

Cibai

Understand that?

Pak aku orang

Pak hang binatang

You are also product of evolution . so you bodo ?

Btw , leash is technology . human thinking how to control hyper active kids and to prevent them to go near somewhere dangerous . so they use leash . easier to control . its not about emotion , its about safety of some hyperactive kids . bukan pakai leash sampai besar pon .

Get it ? Bodo .

This post has been edited by nothomobutsuper: May 14 2016, 11:20 AM

Janji anak x hilang

You will find this leash a blessing once you had you little toddler suddenly pulled his hand off yours and ran towards the road with fast traffic, and you have no chance to react.

Different kids behave in different manner. Unless your kids are calm and timid type, these things are something to think about lah.

anak ku amon meiz dengarlah

awat marah sangat
Biarla bukan parents dia sebat anak dia pakai leash tuh pun.
too quick too judge people la ko nih

mod kasi ban mereka ni.

good

They buy the leash with your money?

spoken like at true single without children.. i gip you clap for being young and idealistic.. memang those parents dunno how to take care of child.. should sterilise them.. you are the parent must teach them to obey like dogs.. you say sit.. they stay.. u say jump they say how high!. you say stick to me , and they will not be distracted by toys!

well, better safe than sorry...

i agree that parents should look out for their kids, but u know lah, things can go wrong, now with so many distractions

lol when the day comes, you'll wish you had one of these

But wait, I think its much better for someone like you to stop breeding, so we can have less stupidity in this world

Anak TS vegetarian . so xde la nk lari sana sini. Tak aktif . Tauge

I read that it's bad to hold your hand of your kid so this notbad ekceli.. Plus u have control over him/her

^Deswai maybe TS punya anak all very calm and timid kind.
For those child that hyper or easily distracted(like many kids) must discipline them kaw2.

I actually dont agree using such thing. I prefer to teach them discipline

Better to use leash than hilang anak.dont care what ppl wanna say,my kid my way.if anything happen to them,its my responsibility.better to regret based on my decision than other people decision

depends... u get anak dengar cakap its easy to discipline... u kena keras kepala kids, u know la no amount of words, ugut, rotan, advice will ever go thru em , from the moment they can run up till they are preschooler

Perangai anak selalunya ikut mak ayah dia

Disagreeing is acceptable
But ts ranting on people who uses is abit poyo la

Haha.. well, it all goes down to parenting skills. Im not saying im good at it, but I believe everything must start at early stage. I already start teaching my kids discipline the moment they understand orders. Unlike some parents i meet that keep saying "biarkan dia, kecik lagi". To me, being a kid does not grant that kid prevlidges to do anything he wants. Its up to the parents to guide them n let them know what is right n wrong.

Using such leash ( to me, hope no parents gets offended ), makes the parents to be free from that responsibility.

It is their right to use it. Maybe they feel safer n easier to control their kids but i prefer not to. Who says parenting will be a walk in the park.

Kalo anak diaorang hilang. Bukannya u pon yg suffer. Paling byk u pon bukak tered atau share dlm fb je.

Itu anak diaorang kasi la diaorang nak buat apa

Prevention is better than cure. Even the most attentive parents may get distracted. There's a reason we have safety measures in cars.

I just give opinion. How stupid putting the leash on children

And if its normal. Socially accepted. Then in my opinion. That show Evolution makes human stupid

Why can people take care of their kids for thousands of yeaes without leash? Ok je

Why? Human these days are less capable? Less functional?

Let me give u what i think

I think people in the past. When they go out with their children. They give attention to theit children. Its their yop priority

Now. It isnt. Its Facebook. Or shopping. Own children probably 3rd or 4th priority



I know some people who have active kids

And they can manage their children well without leash like some animal

Aku tnya. Pendapat korang. Ok ke tak benda ni

Judge jadah apa. Bukan aku tuduh sapa2 specific pun

Buy with my money only i can open thread discuss?

Wow. Much logic

This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 12:01 PM

Practicality and Functionality depending on Geolocation.

Hold two kelapa goyang goyang do not apply.

Still, putting on a leash on your kid just... aint right.

If you keep doing that in public, in front of other children, it may lead to longlasting psychological issues. Obviously research needs to be done before we can reach a scientific conclusion, but no one has ever thought we would reach a point where we NEED to, and that in itself is not a good sign.

How do u know im single without any kids?

Wow. All seeing god is here guys. Wow.

Im married. And altho i dont have kids. We use to take care children. For example. When in laws going to holiday. They leave their children with me

And yes. They not like robot. U ask them sit. They sit

Of course not. Dont be stupid

But they definitely understand human words. Basic gesture

And with little attention. U can take care of them. Even outside

At a mall. Or park

If u focus on something or somewhere else

Of course that kid going to get lost. Or in trouble

Point here is. Give attention. If u cant. Dont have kids

Simple

Why is it so many distraction? And what are those distraction?

If its Facebook or twitter

Then that just dumb bullshit

Nope. Already been there. Done that. Bring 3 kids to the mall

No need leash. Everything in order

Nope. Just taught them common sense. And they would understand

Unless ur kids dumb la
Spoken like a true good parent

you are trying to be idealistic, when in reality, things do not work within that situation.

You are stuckup with the idea that you must put 100% monitoring on your child, which is not practical. Imagine, if you are out for a grocery shopping, you need to buy your stuff, you need to monitor your children, there is no chance you can multitask because human are unable to do so. Thus when you are looking for the price tags and doing your procurement process, your 100% monitoring on your kids will be jeopardize. You need to choose and make decision, competitive sourcing or security monitoring, so which one? in the end, you will always have a risk of jeopardizing either one, or some cases both. So what do you do about it? you implement controls, what kind of controls is your choice, but definitely you "leach" is one of the consideration`

Lets take a look at another view:


imagine, you are taking you family out, and your family consist of you, your parents and your children, in reality your parents and your children are important, but due to your limitation, of controls, you will always risk one or the other in handling such situation, and as a muslim, remember, Parents > children, thus you are there to manage the risk, so your "leach" is a valid, practical control. It may not be the best and most humane, but it is required. what you need, but maybe not deserve?

plant a tracking chip on their body like binatang!

Ts anak dah berapa?

2" boleh membiak?

Amon datang lagi dengan thread bajet bagus dia.

ini betul

Bodo

Mesti sendiri kena leash dgn gf

Tiba2 marah anak bapak orang

Topkek

welp

nowadays poeple treats own children like dog and dog like own children

Its hard for me to believe all this (tl btw)

Because i know myseld. My family. My siblings. My cousin

Now im married. I watch my inlaws. I take care their 4 kids when they gone for holiday

Park
Mall
Restaurant

Been there. All went well. Without any leash

I just did what a normal parent should do: give attention

The only reason leash might come in handy. Is if the parent dont give attention to their kids

Which brings to another question. Why?

What distract them? Facebook? Twitter? Duck face selfie? Cheap handbag sale?

I cannot think any good reason for animal like treatment to own children

Kapada bodoh bodoh sakalian,

you CANNOT curb a fully educated teen's curiosity with WORDS.

what do you think about a child who doesn't understand a single word ? (Do you even think, nigga ?)

Situation arises, use whatever means/leash.

Jangan Jadi Bodoh.

Sekian.

This post has been edited by ieatchickens: May 14 2016, 12:30 PM

1) kalau ada anak lebih satu, sometimes yang adik tend to hyper main lari lari or abang so yeah
2) time dekat masjid, nak solat takut budak lari keluar masjid
3) time lintas jalan sometimes budak budak nak lari gi kat mak bapak dia walaupun kau legal guardian eg: uncle dia. So ada chance nak accident

+1

jangan nak bajet berfalsafah sangat

budak tu umur 2-3-4 tahun dah jadi goodboi kau tak payah la pakai

selalu benda ni pakai time baru awal awal time 1-3 tahun gitu je, time masih rebel

dah pandai adapt dengan sekeliling, kau lepaskan

This

Funny shit right?

Dog can eat and do no work whatsoever

Cuddle all the time

Dukung

Expensive haircut and manicure

World turning to shit man

I not really agree use this what so called tali binatang..I got many sibling yet when going out my parents still can handle without much problems..

The problem with today society is mostly people EYES TOO GLUED TO THEIR SMARTPHONE SCREEN..walk2 when noti comes in fast2 check noti..how to keep children properly like that.after that taking easy way by adopting this tali binatang..

I have walk around and see many cases parents to preoccupied with their smartphone..put aside smartphone please if u hang out with ur children.safety first.better safe than sorry.

Mak ko leash ko waktu ko kecil?

This. Win

tak

tapi zaman sekarang dengan kat Malaysia suka culik budak etc.

apa salahnya kau nak pakai?

plus kau sebut leash tu macam bajet anak kau anjing, kau letak untuk keselamatan dia

Not encouraging the use of the leash, but as you said, not all kids can be controlled by words.
Sometimes you need more than just kata2 manis to discipline some of the more hyper ones, especially when anak >1 biji.

This post has been edited by Oblah: May 14 2016, 12:38 PM

Not all people, not all kids are the same. If they are, the safety harness would not be invented at all. Peoples within your circle might be okay without this thing. But what about those outside?

In the end, it is their kid, their choice. If accidents happened to their kids, it is them who will bear the pain, not us.

What? Culik budak? As if dulu takda?

Remember
Nur jazlin?

Yes. Macam anjing

Keselamatan jadah

Just another tool to relief parents of their responsibilities

So that they can focus on other shit like Facebook

This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 12:40 PM

ITT: yang sokong tak pakai leash ni semua yang tak pernah ada anak pun lol

lepastu gunakan "oh zaman dulu tak pakai ok je"

lmao

Orang cakap sikit, tak dak menuding jari kat sapa sapa pun dah kena cop berfalsafah. Haaaiiii la kaum aku....

Bodoh perasan semua parent perangai anjing macam dia

Stop being jealous of us parents who treat our children like human

Go spend ur time with ur animal kid. Dont forget the leash

duk balik balik blame FB

gi masjid/surau rnr/etc.

ada budak kalau stranger angkat pun dia tak menangis bro

mana kau nak tau budak tu kena ambik

Bodoh perasan semua parent perangai anjing macam dia

Stop being jealous of us parents who treat our children like human

Go spend ur time with ur animal kid. Dont forget the leash

duk balik balik blame FB

gi masjid/surau rnr/etc.

ada budak kalau stranger angkat pun dia tak menangis bro

mana kau nak tau budak tu kena ambik

I understand. Yes there are active ones

But putting them on leash like animal aint the solution

I know. Its their choice

And its mine to condemn that

Wait. U go surau or rnr and just leave ur kid outside all alone without supervision?

Padan la kena culik. Tak pandai jaga anak

Go surau. Solat. Put them close to u. Close the door

Simple2

Rnr? Just watch ur damn kid. Anak hang juga. Bukan binatang kutip

Wait. U go surau or rnr and just leave ur kid outside all alone without supervision?

Padan la kena culik. Tak pandai jaga anak

Go surau. Solat. Put them close to u. Close the door

Simple2

Rnr? Just watch ur damn kid. Anak hang juga. Bukan binatang kutip

ha tengok tu dok assume assume

ada ka aku cakap tak letak dekat dekat?

ni problem hang, aku tak explain habis dok assume

hiang tau tak bila je aku pakai benda macam ni?

dalam hidup aku benda tu pernah pakai time solat je, lepastu time jalan jalan tali tu masuk dalam bag, and bag tu jadi bagpack dia

Why dont u explain habis habis baru post

Hang cerita sekerat. Aku pulak salah. Apa logik bang?

Aku tak kisah la bila hang guna. Aku tau hang guna

Tu panas buntut gila la ni

Cerita dia. Aku rasa tindakan tu bodo

Tak patut di lakukan

Ermm . between you and me , we see things from different perspective .

And for sure yours are from the negative side one .

that's the problem
u take care of others children on a limited time basis of course u can gib too much attention.

others has to take care of theirs 24-7,

Negative?

Against animal like leash is negative? Wow

Looks like our understanding of negative also differ greatly

What? I took care of them for full 2 months of school holidays

Aint enough? What difference does it makes?

U dont go to mall for years

At max 4 or 5 hours lol

How does taking care of them for several moths differ from taking care of them for years? Lol

This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 12:57 PM

in popular saying

when a guy open the car door, it's either the car is new or the wife is new.

U sound like very experienced with kids.. can u pls share with me how to handle autism and ADHD children while going to buy groceries? At least I can share ur brilliant idea with other parents who have this kind of children.

I dont understand

What?

Hold their hand? Very simple

I know some parent who do have autism kids

And they dont use any leash

This post has been edited by amon_meiz: May 14 2016, 01:04 PM

Sorry to say i saw this very common in shopping mall around KL

Here in ipoh rarely see people use that backpack thing leash

I know. Lots in kl

And i really hate them

Cant stand watching kids being treat like animal

I don't use too but do u know how hard to hold their hand? At once I have to hold his hand till become blue coz he wanna run to the road with heavy traffic.

I'm still thankful that my son not severe autism but I have seen many with severe ADHD.

Don't just judge becoz not all children are same.

Well.

i thought animal let their offspring roam wild while the mother close by?

but then still easily targeted by predator??

yeah it's dumb, i agree. when people put kids in my care, i'm always looking out for them just in case (i'm a paranoid person).

but some parents ARE useless when it comes to controlling their kids. using a leash is a lazy way out, but i think it's better than nothing.

Yeah me too

My friend with twins pon tak pakai

So alasan say for hard to control kids tu imo is a weak one. More like parents want to make their job easy by not having to pay attention to their kids 100%

Kidnapping can take place in a split second. I rather have a leash on them than have them kidnapped

I dont know how you hold. But never happen to me

Why need to hold so strong?

If the kid insisnt on walking. Dukung. Put aside. Tell him not to

Make it clear

Thats what i always do

I understand. There are different kind of children

But leash isnt the solution. Not in my opinion


?

This is what I mean by different perspective . bodoh .

For me , if I saw that situation , I will think that Its a tool to secure their responsibilities . a security measure . maybe their kids hyperactive, or mybe trauma of kidnappers . kalau nak lepas tanggungjawab , dia ikat kat tiang je . bukan pegang leash tu .

Main fon ? So ? Mean human less functional ? Bodo ke ape ? Kan multitasking tu . konfirm main twitter ? Bukan reply mesej make dia ? 1 hand put leash and secure their kid , while push trolley cart , other hand maybe send email use phone ? More functional i guess .Especially single mother or father .

Anyway , my 1st daughter pon gila active . but I oppose using leash on my kid . because I can still take care of her .
I just pity parent that have to resort using leash . who know what have they gone through before using leash .