when you say 1month = 1 year, clearly show you no nothing trust me. every day is a different day with these children.

anyway, i dont think you answered my question. Now tell me how do you control, 3 children age 1,2,3 respectively when you are going to go for a grocery shopping, and your husband is not around as he is working oversea (shipping) for 1 month, and you are saving money cause you are not in a good financial month. You wanna buy it online, but you dont have the internet at home, and you can use home delivery because your bulk does not qualify for home delivery. so what do you do now? and of course your siblings/parents are staying far away from you.

and btw, people do use leash at home, its just you dont see it.

Well. In that case. Leash would change anything

They  can snap the leash of the mother's hand

Or cut the leash
Yes. Of course boleh

But i choose not to

Because i want to give 100%

I dont want later i fail. I can use my studies as excuse

Its about eliminating possibly risk

Less thing i going to focus on

More time for my children

More chance of me succeeding in being a good parents

Its all factual number and probability

And what i did.does not harm anybody

At worst. I just dont have any kid. Nobody got hurt

But for leash. The kid got hurt. Psychologically.

And u treating ur kid like animal. Thats wrong

I tot u guys can take some jokes and pokes

Didn't know u guys hati pudding one

Next time i tread more carefully.

So that i wont hurt those fragile heart

I tot parents should more mature and "durable"

As they are older.

Nah..Just a simple case of butthurt when kena batang hidung sendiri

Just like some group will be super mad if open thread about ustaz making mistake

Just like some group will be super mad if open thread pointing out dap punya mistake

Its all just about butthurt.